Girls, please vote: nice guys vs. bad guys who are nice to you?

[Anonymous]

Bad guys

Nice guys

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[btbc92]

Please don't have that kind of picture for nice guys. That's a kind guy. Kind of eyes are better than nice guys and bad guys any day. Again, a nice guy is not somebody who you have for a picture. Nice guys unlike a nice girl is not kind. A kind person can be nice but they are at the core a kind person. But just because you have either of those traits that doesn't mean that you are compatible. It just means that you can definitely find yourself being friends with a person. Compatibility will always trump who is or isn't of the other.

[estoydorado1]

Guys who have genuine capacity for empathy and compassion. If he's a "bad guy" then his motives for doing good things are probably selfish. If all he is is "good", then why am I naive enough to think that this is a fully developed human being?


If you want a better answer, try rephrasing this qyestion more specifically. What makes a person completely "good"? Is it possible to be more than a single adjective?

[magiusX26]

how does being good relate to not fully devolped?

[estoydorado1]

@magiusX26 Whats good to him may not be universally good. How exactly is this "good guy" recognized.

Is it just guys who smile and hold doors? Guys who say please and thank you? While polite, that isn't the entirety of his personality, is it? To claim that someone is just "good" means that we don't have a full picture as to who they are.