My friend saw my birthday snap but ignored it?

[Anonymous]

She’s been my “close” friend for 5 years and ignored my birthday. I posed it on Snapchat and she saw them but didn’t say anything? What could possibly be the reason? I want to end the l friendship because what she did isn’t something I do want in my life tbh

[TommyMountainFigure]

Firstly, happy birthday.

Have you considered she wants to end the friendship too? Ignoring someone's birthday is a good way to make sure that is the outcome. I mean.. just look at how hurt you are by it.

[Asker]

Yes that’s possible that she wanted that too. We haven’t been on the same wavelength for some time now so yeah

[Asker]

And thank you 🥰

[TommyMountainFigure]

You're welcome. So? Did you have a nice day and do anything special for it?

[Asker]

We’re in lockdown here in Australia so I celebrated with my family. I’m a twin so we both celebrated it with the rest of the family. It wasn’t what we wanted but since we’re in lockdown we made the most of it I believe

[TommyMountainFigure]

Good.. No.. I don't mean being in lockdown is good.. I mean.. ugh.. you know what I mean...

[Nikki6t6]

Reach out to her… bet you she has some stressful situations going on… work, relationships etc. etc

[Asker]

LMAOOO she’s SO stressed yet she does manage to get on Snapchat and see EVERY snap and not even once think to herself that she should type “happy birthday” to the many snaps the watched? I think you shouldn’t under any circumstance let people get away with something disrespectful as that!!

[Nikki6t6]

Then why not just straight up ask her what’s up instead of letting all the negative emotions consume you.

[Asker]

I don’t allow it to consume me, but she’s been cut out now anyway an surprisingly I feel happy as though I cut out someone toxic.

[Asker]

And*

[Nikki6t6]

Thank you

[kyleelyn199723]

So you post your birthday for validation? Don’t post your birthday at all next year and see if anyone responds. Most people don’t even remember people’s birthdays anymore.

[Asker]

What’s validation?

[Iron_Man]

I can completely understand that

[Asker]

Thanks sweetheart!!

[Iron_Man]

You’re welcome hun

[888theGreat]

maybe she missed it

[Asker]

She viewed me snaps. Can’t you read old man