Men, how would you feel if your woman made an OnlyFans?

[Anonymous]

[darkfoxjj]

After reading arguments for and against. I am not sure anymore.

If it makes her very happy but me very unhappy. And she wouldn't be willing to compensate, it would be a dealbreaker for serious commitment.
Because clearly then I would be sacrificing my happiness and mental health and stressing my physical health.

[snackthatsmilesback]

I don't know is only fans just for porn? Or is there other stuff you can do besides? If she did porn without telling me I'd be pissed and pretty shocked. If she did something else then it depends maybe there's no issue, but I do hope she'd tell me first anyway.

[pink_and_inlove]

I would never do this but I’d imagine most men would be pissed unless it’s an open relationship or something

[OddBeMe]

Strippers have bfs don’t they?

[pink_and_inlove]

Yeah but I could imagine most men having a problem with that and getting jealous too

[hellionthesagereborn]

@OddBeMe Yeah, and most men don't date strippers and don't want to.

[OddBeMe]

@hellionthesagereborn you’re missing out.

[hellionthesagereborn]

@OddBeMe Not really.

[LavenderLuna]

I mean it’s not like she’s having actual sex with them. They’re just pictures.

[hellionthesagereborn]

So you would be fine with your guy buying other girls gifts (jewelry flowers etc.) and openly flirting with them even though he is with you? Its not just pictures, its her engaging with other men in a sexual way.

[LavenderLuna]

Buying things for someone in person and selling things to strangers online are very different. It’s not some terrible crime to have a job just because it’s sexual. She’d flirt with them for money, not because of her own interest unlike in your “example” lol

[hellionthesagereborn]

Okay, so if she was a prostitute it would be fine? I mean they are having sex with other people but its not like they are interested, they just have sex with them for money?

[LavenderLuna]

Well no because if she’s physically interacting with them there’s a risk of stds and stuff. Why are you so mad that I’d date a someone with an only fans

[hellionthesagereborn]

You seem to be jumping through a lot of mental hoops. So if its a prostitute its not fine because its physical, so them doing the same thing in a non physical way is not fine, but only if its a guy doing it? Again, seems like a strange rational. So the conditions are it cannot be physical, it has to be for money and nothing else, it has to be with complete strangers? So if some one she knew looked at her only fans, that would mean it was bad then or do you have yet another rational for why that doesn't count? So if a guy flirts with a girl he doesn't know while in a relationship, because some one else paid him to do it then its fine?

Again, this sounds like your trying to rationalize why a woman could do this without consequences rather then create a cohesive moral frame work for why this is justifiable (as no other circumstances are acceptable, that means its not an internally consistent belief or moral frame work which makes it an irrational argument.).

[LavenderLuna]

Lol what I’m trying to say is that it’s okay if she has an only fans because she’s not physically interacting with people. She has no emotional connection to them, and prostitution is not the same thing. I would not be upset if my girlfriend or boyfriend had an onlyfans. That is my moral framework and I dont think I can explain any more than I already have. I do understand your opinion though, I just don’t necessarily share the same thoughts.

[hellionthesagereborn]

She would be gone. I'm not giving her all I have for her to be exclusive to me only for her to then go out and be sexual with others. It may not be physical but its still cheating its still her being sexual with others and its a clear sign our values do not align. I would not tolerate that in the slightest (but then I'm not a simp either).

[ChubbyKing]

She wouldn't be mine anymore, she belongs to the streets

[jackderby_01]

I'd break up instantly. It is no less than doing porn, I prefer a girl with similar values, not this thotery

[PatrickRigsby811]

She's not my woman anymore, she's just some hoe now and she better share the money.

[snackthatsmilesback]

Dude are you a pimp?

[PatrickRigsby811]

@snackthatsmilesback
Not currently, but if the love of my life decides to be an online prostitute, what choice do I have?
You gotta cut emotional ties with her and get some money out of the shitty deal at least.

[snackthatsmilesback]

Then she's not "just some hoe," she's YOUR hoe, right? Unless she leaves ig

[PatrickRigsby811]

@snackthatsmilesback
She's just becomes my roommate that I pretend to still love and respect.
I fuck her and become her "Manager" to help with her online whoring career.
She's so thankful that I let her be a super slut and still love her (That's what she thinks) that she lets me not work and shares her money with me.
Eventually I bleed her dry financially and run off with a new woman who doesn't have an Onlyfans account.
I live happily ever after.
The end.

[snackthatsmilesback]

Oh shit dude that's not a pimp that's a gold digger

[PatrickRigsby811]

@snackthatsmilesback
That's the story of a heartbroken boyfriend who was shit on by his slut girlfriend so he made the most of it.

[snackthatsmilesback]

That's not "making the most of it," that's just revenge.

[PatrickRigsby811]

@snackthatsmilesback
Like I said "Happily ever after."
Us poor guys gotta get something out of these hoes taking advantage of lonely Simps on the internet.
I'm really a Social Justice Warrior taking the money back from the abuser.

[snackthatsmilesback]

Dude you weren't a simp being taken advantage of, you fucking had her. You didn't have to pay. It's not your money and it's not "justice" by any stretch of logic, you're just getting revenge by gold digging her.

[PatrickRigsby811]

@snackthatsmilesback
No, the guys subscribing to her onlyfans are lonely Simps, not me.
She's taking advantage of how desperate they are.
She's betraying our relationship by showing off her pussy to randoms and probably fucking some of them.
I'm taking the money to finance my new relationship with a better woman who deserves my love.

[snackthatsmilesback]

If she ruined the relationship then cut it off. Anything more is just revenge. Do what you will but don't pretend it's any more right than what she did.

[PatrickRigsby811]

@snackthatsmilesback
But I loved her and she didn't respect it or value it.
Yes it's revenge, but also a bit of karma for her.

[snackthatsmilesback]

Oh you dictate karma now? That's just fucking revenge why can't it just be what it is why does it have to be any better or more just than that

And who says she doesn't still love you and you're not respecting or valuing it? Obviously she thinks there's no problem with what she did, same as you think about what you do. Geez

[PatrickRigsby811]

@snackthatsmilesback
Women know better.
Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
She got greedy and wanted to have her cake and be a slut too.
Yes, I'm vengeful, but sometimes when women try to play you, you have to play them and survive.
It's just how I roll.
I didn't actually do any of these things, in reality I wouldn't stay with a woman who doesn't get how trashy and disrespectful it is to have an onlyfans account while you're in a relationship.
It was just theory on how to deal with a person like that hypothetically.
Fuck her feelings at that point, she doesn't care about yours so don't be a cuck.

[snackthatsmilesback]

Wut dude you're not surviving she's not trying to kill you. You just have different values and she's bad at communicating. And if "women know better" well so do men and that makes you no better than her either way. "Hypothetically." You'd both just be using each other and yes I'd hope you wouldn't actually do this. Bro I'm confused why were you even defending it

[PatrickRigsby811]

@snackthatsmilesback
Look at it this way.
If she was good to me, I would be good to her and love her forever.
Once she decided to have an onlyfans it's game on.
I can either walk away heartbroken, become her cuck and enjoy her giving sexual attention and getting attention from other men or turn off my feelings and play the game.
Those are my options.
Regardless of how you see them don't forget that she started it all by disrespecting our relationship.
Don't forget that It's me who's really suffering in the situation no matter which option I choose.

[snackthatsmilesback]

So yeah, you can walk away or you can seek revenge. That's not what i was confused by.

[Dchrls78104]

That wouldn't be my woman. She'd have to look for a man among her OnlyFans subscribers and customers.

[OlderAndWiser]

Shocked. She is a shy 57 year old Chinese-American woman who is rather modest and reserved.

[Woke51]

I would take her pictures and film boy-girl content with her. 😈

[NathanDavis]

very intrigued, curious, surprised, and interested... because I don't have a woman... lol

[bamesjond0069]

Dump her ass. Or just turn it to a more friends with benefits relationship. Im not going to stay faithful to an OF girl for real... thats disgusting to even consider.

[rcljr]

She would no longer be” my” woman, I’d pack my things and leave.

[Chthou95]

Tell her to get her shit & get the hell out of my house. A man that are okay with it are dumb ass simps

[Avicenna]

It’d be a dealbreaker

[Guanfei]

Break up. I'm not sharing my girl, even on the internet.

[princeofromance]

I would not mind it what so ever. I am about love, not control.

[CantGetItUp]

Kick her to the streets

[igaveyouanickname]

That's hot and a side-hustle. I'd participate.

[Fuentes]

Any man that allows it is simp

[Andres77]

If she talked to me about it first.
Bit by bit.

[Yaharro]

Slut

[OddBeMe]

We’re in the money…we’re in the money!

[Asker]

What if she doesn’t want to share the money?

[OddBeMe]

Are you living together in this scenario? You usually share.

[Asker]

So, you’d be comfortable with your woman doing this? Yeah, you’d share whatever the profits were.

[OddBeMe]

If she liked it why wouldn’t I?

[Asker]

Well, I can what you’re saying, but do you have any feelings to it just by itself. Meaning, if you didn’t know she would be happy or not doing this, how would you feel by yourself/stand-alone?

[Asker]

Like, example, I’m happy when my wife is happy picking flowers.

By itself, I don’t particularly enjoy or like picking flowers.

But I like it BECAUSE I associate it with the happiness of my wife.

By itself, I don’t like it.

[OddBeMe]

I guess because my 15 yr marriage is on such solid ground that I don’t feel threatened by the thoughts of her doing this. But if I started dating a stripper, I don’t think I’d feel very different.

Are you afraid she’ll leave you?

[Asker]

No, not afraid of that.

[OddBeMe]

Then what is it? Why do you hate the thought of men leering at your SO?

[Asker]

I actually wouldn’t mind it in-person.

There’s something about her being naked, doing sexual things on camera where a bunch of unknown men are paying her to do stuff that doesn’t sit well with me.

Different strokes for different folks right?

If you’re comfortable with it and your partner is into it, I won’t stop you.

[OddBeMe]

You’re not wrong for feeling that way. I hate when my wife leaves towels on the floor.

[Asker]

Well… ok

[OddBeMe]

I’m sure bf’s of strippers feel the same. Can you imagine being married to a movie star? How many tongues have Margot Robbie had in her mouth?

[Asker]

Well, if it’s Margot Robbie

Exceptions can and will be made lol

[Dinosaursandanime65]

“Heh heh. What a bunch of dumbasses, uh heh heh”

[In_Trance]

Blocked

[QuietRunner]

proud to show her off to the world

[JesseJayNeak]

Disappointed

[Seppel]

I would break Up