Should you take it personal if a waitress acts nervous around you?

[Grubhub]

I used to feel hurt and leave lower tips

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I used to think it was a bad thing. Still could be but there’s a small change it’s not

[Interstate]

I understand they get nervous around waiting on Men, because of the potential there is for them to hit on her or make passes. But no matter how you slice it, she has to learn to control those nerves when she waits on them. Because as you said Grubhub, it offended and hurt your feelings. And once that happens to the wrong people of the general public... well you know what they say the best form of gaining business is, (word of mouth). BAD business definitely comes of it, too!

[Grubhub]

I rarely hit on women. Unless I know she likes me. Thanks for the answer

[Interstate]

I am one of those ones you will never find hitting on a Woman. Personally, it just isn't my thing. That's what he said.

[Grubhub]

I will hit on a girl sometimes but it’s rare

[Jackblue]

I hope I would not, especially if she is young and this is her first job, it is natural to be nervous.

[Grubhub]

Na that chick looked 25

[Sarairocketship]

I mean it's her feelings. If she feels nervous, she feels nervous. She can't help it. But I don't know. I don't think you should take it personal or feel hurt.

[JustinTheGreat]

Maybe the waitress is new and just nervous about messing up the order? I don’t think it’s personal

[Grubhub]

The reason why I would get upset is am because I’m a big guy and it would irritate me if a waitresses were nervous around me. Lots of Asians, majority