Why do girls like their butts smacked during sex?

[Anonymous]

I legitimately dont know

They think the man is killing a mosquito to protect her from malaria

She had a dad who beat her and wants daddy-like validation

She likes a man who takes owership of her body

Its hot to know a man does not give a shit if he offends her by being so bold as to strike her behind

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+1 y

My money is on mosquito

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+1 y

Girls all secretly want to be dominated even the alpha girls it’s apart of their gender thats why they like to be gripped and thrown around like a rag doll. Men who pussyfoot around all timid and weak will dry a coochie faster than a drop of water in the Sahara.

[xLyndseeyx]

I just had this moment due the last time that I had sex. I got my ass smacked a few times, and I just thought… Damn, it hurts. But, why do I allow it and enjoy it at the same time? Did I get smacked as a kid? Yes! That traumatized me though because I use to run far. Lol. Sexual related, I’m not huge on pain. I’m more of a switch than anything, but I do like a guy to take control in ways. Never forcefully. Just show me who is the alpha in this situation. Whenever he’s tired, and I’m not done. I’ll take control. It really depends on the person.

[Open-minded99]

That is definitely hot

[Open-minded99]

I normally love to be in control and definitely love making a woman's ass but I love when I woman wants to switch and take control. Curious what your into when you take control. Message me

[ElizaPam]

Having your ass slapped during sex feels good. I want to feel like he’s doing his thing and enjoying my body. I want to feel his hands on me and I love when he squeezes my neck and grabs my hair. I hate being spanked though I think you’re conflating the 2. I was with a guy who actually wanted me to bend over his lap so he could spank me and I did once and I hated it I don't know if he thought I enjoyed it but he wouldn’t stop no matter how much I asked him to. I’m not into pain or bdsm at all I just don’t want a boring fuck.

[Open-minded99]

So the thought of grabbing your throat and or hair is hot while having sex.

[FilmGuy93]

Having the guy touch her butt feels sexy. Women are all about feeling adored.

[Yourfriend2021]

If they have been bad they have to be spanked to teach them a lesson lol

[ihateyounig]

you get NO pussy

[Noirette]

@ihateyounig Interesting username 🤔

[RavVid]

Spanking is deeply embedded into the male & female pyche. Too deeply embedded not to have some ancient thread. Even if all knowledge of spanking was eradicated, a guy and girl would just rediscover it tomorrow - it is that deeply embued in us.

There could be an evolutionary basis for spanking. There would have been physical female chastisement back in 2 Million BC. Australian Aborigines used woomera's (short throwing stick) for female chastisement on discovery and that culture dates back 80,000 years. There is no reason to think they invented it, so we can reasonably assume it goes way way back.

Spanking is a very safe form of chastisement, a badly bruised ass is the worst it gets. So it makes sense that men are drawn to whack female ass as chastisement.

As for why girls like it well... i think they find it exciting and it has links to why women will pick fights with men.

There is a local girl who i run into occasionally. If she is with companions she will introduce me as the man who spanked her in the club.

She still has fond memories of it clearly.

[MrGrimfate]

I've had a couple girls who seem to like getting a little slap on the bottom. I think it's dependent on the individual. I had one girl who liked it when I bit her ass. I remember she came out of the shower once naked and just laid face down across my her butt was right there and I just had this urge to bite it so I did. She turned around and looked at me and had this huge grin on her face and said I really liked that. I think depending on the situation it can be sometimes like foreplay. I think sometimes it's more about feeling naughty. Honestly if I were to step back and see it sometimes it would seem a little creepy almost. I remember a girl who used to like to have me call her my naughty little girl. Which in the moment is fun but also could make a person think maybe she had some daddy issues. And she did also often call me Daddy. I've also heard it be said that a girl's father is the first man she ever loves. If he was a good daddy then it's possible that a slap on the butt or calling her you're naughty little girl reminds her of that love and safety and comfort she felt around her father. I'm also sure that the same sorts of things going on in men's minds too.

[ronandamberspencer]

None of the above.

Women like to be submissive. It's not about the ass slap, it is about the recognition of authority and power.

My wife likes to choke me sometimes during sex, she likes to see that all of her power has absolutely no effect on me whatsoever. She can choke me until there is no strength left in her hands, and it does not phase me. It makes her cum to see how powerful I am compared to her. It shocks her every time, and she loves to be reminded. If I choked her with all of my power, it would kill her.

[Dinklex3]

I've never had my ass spanked during sex, just before. And that's usually when we're play fighting. But that's probably because I don't have much of an ass 😅
So I can't even imagine anyone doing that to me during. I voted C though if anything.

[Anonymous]

All of the above. And because it’s the only time that you feel like you’re getting a slap for being a good girl instead of a bad one.

Gosh, it’s getting hot in here. 🤒

Oh, but I don’t like it to hurt… much, personally.

[Asker]

Put your horns away horny girl 👿 no one is gunna smack your booty

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry, they come out at such inappropriate times. I’ll have a talk with them.

[Asker]

So you actually like it but didn't really explain why just being a good girl?

[Opinion Owner]

I like feeling submissive, I guess.

[Open-minded99]

I would

[SnowyOwl]

It feels mischievous. I like a guy who will do a little mischief. It doesn't make me feel submissive. Just sort of playful

[Ez-Bri-Z]

I have plenty of daddy issues, but I dont want pain so I'm not one of the ones who do like it.

[Asker]

Wut about a booty tickle

[Ez-Bri-Z]

How about a friendly high five?

[Asker]

I bet your booty is nice id rather squeeze it than slap if that helps

[Ez-Bri-Z]

Better ask my wife first or she may choose to kick yours. 😉

[Asker]

Ayo what

[Ez-Bri-Z]

Lmao

[Asker]

Lesbian

[Ez-Bri-Z]

Yep, good call.

[Asker]

Oh well u hot tho quite the face 🥵🥵🥵🥵🥵🥵🥵🥵🥵🥵🥵🥵 are you a trans to female

[Ez-Bri-Z]

Uh... what?

[Open-minded99]

What are your daddy issues. Love it

[OlderAndWiser]

You know that most women do NOT want to have their ass smacked during sex, right?

[Asker]

I've never spanked a girl before just see it in the movies

[OlderAndWiser]

Porn isn't real life.

[MrGrimfate]

I disagree at least somewhat. I don't think porn is real life obviously. However, there are definitely certain people and times when certain people enjoy behaving like they're in a porn. There are some people out there with some pretty crazy fetishes. Understandably I get that those things are not for everyone but they are for some people.

[MrGrimfate]

I'd be interested in knowing where you got your statistics from. If it's just that you don't like it and don't happen to know anyone who does doesn't mean there aren't a whole lot that do.

[OlderAndWiser]

When i get home tonight, i will post a poll that asks that question.

[blondfrog]

I think they just like how it feels. Plus the ass is near the pussy so it sometimes vibrates and it gives them a nice masturbating sensation.

[JuliaCartorez]

I love when a guy takes control of me and uses me as he pleases.

[Apple1996]

It sends vibrations to all the right places

[Asker]

Serious or joking

[Apple1996]

Serious 👀

[Apple1996]

I enjoy being spanked by my husband

[Asker]

Vibrations to the Virginia?

[Apple1996]

To my vag yes

[blondfrog]

Vibrating through the Virginia lmfao.

[Apple1996]

@blondfrog it is possible. Virginia is right next to the state I live but I've never been spanked so hard that it goes through state lines 😂

[blondfrog]

😂😂 hahahha that would have to be one long spanking spatula or hand.

[Asker]

Yes smacked so hard it went though the earths crust to Virginia 🙄

[Open-minded99]

Feels good doesn't it

[MrGrimfate]

This goes both ways too there are definitely men who enjoy a slap on the ass from their women. I'm not a huge fan of pain but a little sting now and again. Plus I mean you have a woman putting her hand on your bottom. I also think that intention is everything. If it's intended in a playful sexual kind of a way then that's what makes it so enjoyable. I would say in most cases it's not the intent to inflict pain it's the intent to inflict pleasure.

[Noahnoon21]

Women love this cause it makes them feel like they have something to be enjoyed

[IncognitoBandito]

They like the sexiness and grandeur of their ass to be acknowledged.

[Deserter]

She's been a bad girl and she wants you to make her pay for her sins

[Anonymous]

It helps with defecation

[Asker]

What

[Opinion Owner]

Smacking the butt stimulates the rectum (where the fecal matter is stored). So it helps in easy bowel movement

[Asker]

Girls dont poop idiot

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe you're just smacking men's butts🍑

[Asker]

True

[manhattan_betsy]

Honestly, it doesn't do anything for me.

[Better_off_here]

she watches too much porn i would say.

[zagor]

You mean they don't like it when you pull out and cum in their face either?

[Seppel]

I never Met a Girl who Liked that

[MrGrimfate]

Yeah I'm sure it's a real niche kind of a thing. Just like some people enjoy dressing up and tight leather and being hogtied. Some people like to be humiliated and put in cages.