Why do girls pretend they haven't seen us or don't care when we check them out? (Page 2)
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Personally, I genuinely don't know when someone is checking me out. I'm so oblivious that someone actually has to come up to me and tell me that they like me or they have to make it so obvious that they're checking me out. As for other women, I'd say it's a play hard to get thing. She's still on your mind isn't she? Just saying. Those mind games for other women.
I'd imagine some women get numb to it. If she's very attractive then guys checking her out will be a common thing and she ignores it.
Some people (me included) don't pay attention to people looking at them when in public. It's something I don't care about because when in public I'm usually running errands, with family/friends, lifting weights, etc. I'm in my own world and don't notice if others are looking at me.
I often get stared at by guys and tend to look away or ignore them
Why? You do that,
There's a difference between checking someone out and being a creeper. You can easily check someone out without going over the edge about it.
The same as saying something nice or sounding totally disgusting.
I was caught looking and confronted once and my response was, I was only admiring your beauty.
And she smiled instead of feeling harassed.
THANKYOU!!!
Speaking for myself, I'm just very shy and lost in my own little world to even care. Before I step outside, I never think "I wonder how many guys are going to check me out".
That thought never comes to my mind. I dress for myself. Which is why I always wear earphones, look down at my phone, and have a resting b*tech face. I'm not trying to impress anyone.
Do man still approach you though? When you look that way?
Unfortunately yes. Some of them will follow me or start a stupid conversation. They always say "you look conceited/mean". They're always wrong. I'm just shy.
Thank you for saying you dress for yourself because society can say people who wear revealing clothing want attention but usually people just want to wear what they want so they can feel confident and look in the mirror and feel good. I saw a girl reply with something along the lines with people who wear revealing clothing want to be checked out, and it disappointed me, so thank you
I genuinely don't dress for other people. 99% of the outfits I wear is for myself. I'm not denying some girls won't do a little extra for a guy we like. But my hair, makeup, and outfits is for my self-confidence. Not for men.
I'm shy too... but being shy sucks lol... I can't help that i'am. I got trust issues as well... I just never know some men intentions... and honestly don't care about being alone. So yeah... I see what you saying cause man always tell me to smile. I sure would like a guy to give me a good reason to smile instead telling me too ha!
@That_one_kid It's fine for women to dress for themselves I get that... girls your age dress waaay too grown nowadays it's crazy. IT'S all they see now days having ya tities and a$$ out is not dressing for yourself. only for attention.. Young women be exposing themselves and should just have more decency we suppose to be displayed as women not objects.
We dont dress up for you. We do it for ourselves, to feel happy about how we look. Maybe dont leer ar and sexually harrasss girl you see. Its not about you.
Lying to yourself is the most harmful thing to do.
I don't know what these girls are on about. Me and all of my friends dress up for male attention. Most girls I know do too
@petite_princess that's because you're insecure
Almost everyone has made me laugh with their comments... I'll just add that you walk up to her ignoring her attitudes, she might eventually like you?🤷🏻♀️
It's just a matter of ' if you want it , get it.' Life itself has not been fair so why girls? Lol
Maybe she has checked you and she’s not interested in you
I feel like she plays hard to get.. as I said she flaunts her body like she pulls her chest out as if she wants me or anyone around look at her..!
Keep in mind the natural healthy form for the spine will have this effect. I have a lot of spinal problems and I've had friends ask why i puff my chest out. I don't, it's simply a more comfortable and healthier position.
She could have a hundred reasons other that sex, life is much bigger than sex :)
You're like the guy who goes to the burger joint and puts a quarter on the counter & when the staff ignores you, you start ranting, "why won't they give me a meal!!! I'm a human being!"
It's just not how life works...
1) I may be flattered but don't want the attention to escalate
2) Playing hard to get
3) Don't want to appear to be thirsty for a guy's attention (kind ties in to point 2)
4) I'm creeped out
Because girls don't really like it when they're being checked out by strangers. It makes them uncomfortable.
Who told ya that? Lol
@Veronica_Jane I'm just saying that cause that's how I personally feel. Not all girls are like that.
i always get stared at so i’ve gotten so used to the attention now that i can pretend i’m the only one in the room when i don’t feel like being bothered.
They only don’t matter when they don’t find you attractive. Some girls have shook they’re ass when I look at it they’re phat black jelly booty. Some black women have bend that phat ass over once I checked them out. Some Asian and Latin women have stared me down when I checked them out.
Maybe she's confused that you're looking so hard and then don't say anything. Shoot your shot. Otherwise you're sending mixed signals.
So it's always something man doing wrong...
Why did you even ask the question?
I do not check out women any more. Let the thirsty dudes line up to get they booty smacked. Don’t call me. I’m busy
"Thirsty" man ibwas checking her out coz I was interested and she seemed interested but not giving clear signals like most girls..
The thirst is real. I’m still busy.
Yup.
If you ho out wearing leggings, you already know girls that they really show your ass and pussy. You already know that. I look at a girl waking into a store. She had a fine ass. She like running to get away like i am a stalker. I know what you are saying so girl tell us plwase why do you wear them
Because most of the time it’s uncomfortable and borderline harassment, acknowledging you guys would literally make you come up and talk to us.
Harassment for looking at someone? I don't think so.
Because you aren't looking like a high value man.
While a beautiful woman looks like a high value.
Up your game.
Amen... godfather!
Maybe she’s nervous and think you are a creep about to sexually assault her. Since after all that is the only thing that goes through a woman’s mind nowadays when she’s being checked out
Well tbh considering I’ve been stalked , and have been raped before and so have many other women I think this it’s valid for women to be scared especially when you reject a guy there’s the possibility they might kill you because they’re fragile egos can’t handle rejection
*their
@Powerpuffgitl223 I’m sorry to hear that but may I ask what country are you from?
The U. S.
Are you sure you’re from the US? Cause men here do not kill when they get rejected, are you sure you don’t suffer from ptsd?
There have been plenty of cases do some research 🥱
Look up Donald Thurman for example
@Powerpuffgirl223 Donald Thurman was only one guy. If you’re letting just one guy distort your perception on the whole male gender then I’m sorry but you’re the fragile one here
You should also be thankful that you were not alive in the 70s when Ted Bundy was around
There are plenty more cases that was one out of hundreds like I said do your research before saying it doesn’t happen in the U. S. that’s an ignorant comment
@CasaNorba I’m not the type of victim Ted Bundt sought out , I’m a dark skin woman he sought out dark haired white women to get revenge on his ex that broke his heart... NEXT
Did you even really study the Ted Bundt case?
*Bundy
@CasaNorba and Donald Thurman was one guy but ohhhhh you said It didn’t happen in the U. S. huh?
@Powerpuffgitl223 what you just said was total ignorance, being black does not excuse you from anything, I highly doubt twisted men that you’re referring to all have the same motives and mentality
@CasaNorba i never said it did I simply said I was not the type of victim Ted Bundy sought out and if you knew anything about his case you’d know that 🥱
Also I saw the movie Monster not too long ago and you don’t see me avoiding strippers and other sex workers Aileen Wurnos
@CasaNorba and like I said do some research first about U. S. killings then get back to me
Because of Ailén wurnos*
@CasaNorba I truly don’t care. Women have a right to be afraid some of you men are NUTS
I done plenty of research buddy, if you look at my history in this site you will notice how many people here hate me because I speak the truth based on reality. But I don’t let none of my research distort the way I see people in general
@CasaNorba if you do “so much research” then why’d you say it doesn’t happen in the U. S?
Yea ok buddy like you women aren’t any different, especially women here in American where they get support on being NUTS
I never said it doesn’t happen all I said is that is not as extremely common here as it is in third world countries
That is most certainly not what you said , you said and I quote “Are you sure that happened in the U. S because men do not kill here when they are rejected , are you sure you’re not suffering from PTSD” go back up and try reading again buddy
Are you kind of slow or something?
Lmao you must be the true slow one if you took that THAT literal.
At least I don’t let 1 little research distort my perception on the whole gender
*gave*
I am sexy asf 😂 you gonna cry about that too?
@CasaNorba as a matter of fact I look so fucking good I betcha I could get her number & you couldn’t 😂
I know you are, you were obviously a victim of sex assault for a reason. And no I won’t cry as much as you are now over one case you came across online
🤣🤣🤣 and yet you’d still never manage to get with me if you were the last man on earth
Yawn you bore me! 🥱
There are so many men who try to get with me I’ve rejected plenty I rejected him aswell he just took advantage he still wouldn’t have a shot with me in hell
🤣🤣🤣
If you have to force someone to have sex with you who’s clearly not interested it clearly just shows you’re probably ugly & you don’t know how to appeal to a woman 🥱 but I saw a win he’s doing jail time so justice was served
Yeah sure I bored you, is that why you been on the tip of my penis for the past hour repeating the same horseshit over and over?
🤣🤣🤣 ew don’t talk about your penis I wouldn’t touch you with a ten foot pole please don’t flatter yourself
Yeah the fact that you spent any second of your life with a loser that results to force sex says a lot more about you
That was a metaphor buddy, perhaps you shouldn’t flatter yourself. And my penis will never touch you cause you bet your ass I’m not as desperate as the loser who raped you
🤣🤣🤣🤣 look you’re not even confident enough to post your real picture on here so please miss me with the bs! You probably are desperate tho just like the rest of the men on this page
@CasaNorba you do any of that research yet? 👀
Boy stfu and go do some damn research now you’re just amusing me it’s not my fault your inbox is dry as hell 🤣🤣🤣
and no I won't do any of your time wasting researching. I gotta better things to research like how to look was on how to avoid getting the covid19 vaccine
@CasaNorba You know you're dealing with a snowflake with the self-esteem of a carrot if she has to boast to the world how "hot" she is because some dude couldn't help but rape her. Not to forget to mention that she is so "hot" that she funny enough feels the need to use filters and put a ton of makeup on. And yet she calls others "desperate". Classic case of projection lmfao. Some other guy pointed out that this is a dude behind a pink account. I'm starting to get more and more convinced that's the case
@TruthBringer wouldn't be surprised at all. I mean it is kinda creepy when someone randomly admits they been raped/sexually assault and then starts bragging about how "hot" they are and how supposedly "others" who opposed them are "desperate."
is like wtf? she must of gotten a huge ego boost out of that rape incident. while also claiming that ALL men in the world have a fragile enough ego that they will all kill if they get rejected all because she cling on to one little case. she seriously needs to look up Jodie Arias whenever she has a chance
but other than that yea she is definitely a duplicate or a catfish
If we had to take care about all the guys who are checking us... we would do only that in our life.