Girls: Because we want you to leave us alone, you're already harassing us practically.
Also Girls: Maybe we want you to approach us, shoot your shot.
Literally taken from reading the already given answers. lol. So basically, either you are harassing them and they DON'T want any more interaction, or you are missing out by not being more aggressive, and they really DO want more interaction. So from one extreme end of the spectrum to the other, from a strong "no" to a strong "yes".
There's your answer, clear as mud, did you expect anything less? LMAO
My answer is it depends, but for the most part this is just a cultural thing and women are trained to not pay any attention. Sometimes to avoid interaction, but then also they are frozen into the habit, and don't know how to show mutual attraction, so they do the same thing to a guy they are interested in as one they are not interested in. So the guys they will end up talking to them the most will be the most disrespectful guys who don't really give a shit what the girl wants or doesn't, it will only matter what the guy wants. The respectful guy will be observant and respectful of her apparent disinterest and move on, leaving her with the pushy, aggressive, disrespectful guy (s).
The best women are those who are not afraid to flirt, and also not afraid to shut down/out the guys who they don't want. But they are not the majority.
This has many facets to it.
1. When girl stares a guy she wants him to notice too but if he doesn’t they name him fool/nerd etc. Whereas if a guy does it they won’t like it and term him creepy you name it.
2. The thing with girls is they are never right until they reach an age. They themselves don’t like guys asking them and doing it, or guys who are sycophantic.
3. When both of them also stares girls then also can refuse to be approach and term it as it she was lost somewhere else.
5. Guys still are most solved easily understandable and let living others happily.
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I can't speak for anyone else here, but if someone ever did "check me out" I almost certainly wouldn't even notice it, because I literally do not see all those signs and signals that people apparently exchange with each other all the time. On the other hand, if someone for reasons I cannot even fathom decided to stare at me for many long seconds, I would certainly notice that, and I would just stare right back until he or she decided to look away. I don't like being stared at, it's creepy, but what's worse is when they decide to take photos!
Welcome to the complexities of being a woman. Immediately acknowledging such glances outside of say a club/party situation where the atmosphere is already all about dating and sex, could come off as thirsty, desperate, or over eager, or an indication to guys that we only want to hook up. If hooking up is it, then odds are you might lock eyes and be bold and walk on over, depends on the woman, but usually it has more to do with letting the guy make the first move, sexism, playing hard to get, blah, blah, you get it.
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Who fucking knows girls are kinda dumb, always playing some kind mind game and just somehow think way differently than us.
I would love to get attention from the opposite gender but for some reason they hate it and just want to be left alone, and when they dont want to be alone they still act the same way, they are never inviting.
They dress for attention, basically turn themselves into sex objects but then turn around and hate it when you think of them like that.
" why are you undressing me with your eyes?" Bitch you wearing a crop top and leggings with no bro or panties on nipping out and your fucking camel toe is trying to eat your leggings, you dress like that dont expect me to see you as anything but sex object.
Welp there's a fine line between creepy and flattering... Staring can make anybody feel uncomfortable... My question to you is why are you staring? do you feel you can't have her? so you just stare? I know if a guy was staring at me and not saying nothing... I would feel uncomfortable and most likely start adjusting my clothes walking faster cause I don't really reveal much when I'm walking somewhere... Now for the girls that wear clothes that are very revealing are looking for stares and attention. Those the ones that give off that nonchalant attitude and play hard to get. Like what do girls expect when their a$$ cheeks out there shorts & tits out. Smh. The girl that your talking about. She knows you want her no illusion... She just don't want to seem easy and want you to make the first move.
It's not an ego thing. If you check a girl out, and she does the same thing, you'd brand her as "too easy." If she pretends not to notice, then you start complaining. How do you even know that girl is interested in you anyway? Instead of ogling her like a creep, you could directly approach her, and ask her out. Nice and simple.
maybe she's trying to show off or trying to hide her feelings?
She probably knows that you like her and she's either trying to shrug u off or trying to intrigue u...
cause most times guys are stubborn and girls try to push their buttons...
And the things u mentioned it seems like you're sending mixed signals...
try to walk up and start a convo with her...
If she actively ignores you, it's a sign she's not interested and you should stop. They asked to be checked out and you shouldn't feel entitled to a reaction. Often you're just living life and are not looking for reactions from men.
The comment about body language, maybe you interpret it wrong? Studies have shown that men tend to overestimate sexual interest signs from the opposite sex. So if a girl smiles at you, she might just be polite and not actually interested.
https://journals. sagepub. com/doi/abs/10.1177/0956797619900315 - > source if you're interested.
I see guys checking me out all the time. Though that's only when I pay attention and other times my mind is somewhere else. When you get checked out you learn to just let it happen and move on... I mean what else is there for you to do? Like I'm not going to go out of my way to approach a stranger.. if that guy really likes me then talk to me. Most guys don't do that though. I wish some of them would talk to me, but they're probably taken. Plus I'm not comfortable to just talk to guys like that, it's not my personality.
She's uncomfortable with your obvious staring, but doesn't want to/is too shy to/too afraid to call you out for your obvious staring.
She's ignoring you because she doesn't deem you worth a response. Not even "playing hard to get" - as far as she's concerned, you're not even a player.
Stop staring. It is rude and undesirable and you are NOT subtle about it.
Because that’s creepy and not polite and very unattractive by the way (trying to make her notice you’re checking her out)
Lol cause it can be a awkward moment. I’ll be passing BY IGNORING him but going crazy in my head freakin out like OMG he's LOOKIN AT ME, he's LOOKIN AT ME. So i’d be flattered but nervous
Allow me to rephrase your question... Why do I perceive that some girls do not see me or do not pay attention to my attempts at letting them know that I believe they are attractive? 🙃
Hmmm... So you would like EVERY woman that YOU believe is PHYSICALLY ATTRACTIVE to YOU to somehow aknowledge that that they have received some sort of a SIGN from YOU?
My man... how do you communicate to them that you think they are attractive? What makes you think THEY DON'T KNOW?
What if you pretend that You Don't Care as Well... and pretend that They Need to Deserve That Type of Attention from You?
You are giving out freebies... 🙃😉
In my experience if I've shown interest back to a guy they normally respond by thinking that I am available for casual sex instantly. So honestly this is a lot of women's experiences and they are not necessarily available for that. That's why I ignore because usually the people take that as an invitation to get laid right away.
Have you actually talked to her or made any other kind of advance other than checking her out or physically moving closer? Sometimes it just feels good to be admired but you don't want to necessarily react to it and get more attention than you're already getting from afar. But if she is interested, and you haven't made an actual move and made some kind of attempt other than checking her out, maybe she is just waiting for you to make the first actual move like strike up a conversation, get to know her for her and not just like what you see. Also sometimes women are afraid men will think they're being desperate or slutty if they respond to being checked out. Either way, the only true way to know for sure is to just take a chance and speak to her and find out.
Ohh man it be nice to have women check guys out 😅 but yeah completely understand. There are some strange and dangerous guys out there. I had my sister stalked a couple of years ago where the stalker exposed himself ( i wish i was there with a baseball bat) so im guessing that's the main reason for health and safety and no one has the right to make someone feel unsafe or uncomfortable. Coming from my view I would never act like that and if she is not interested I would just move on however Im pretty shy and the first thing that comes to my head is I'm ugly asf hence why she won't look at me/ be interested.
Honestly it's because I'd feel bad to assume you were checking me out and I was wrong. It makes you feel gross, makes me sound gross, it's just bad for everybody. I just assume I happened to catch you looking at something while I was in your line of sight.
There has been a time or two when it was very obvious, eye contact was made, it was no doubt an up-down look. Those I can't ignore, and I'll make eye contact back because then the balls in their court. They want a reaction, they got it. What next pal you started this lol
Because they have a better option than you. Thats why they dont see the guys checking them out, too many options
what makes you think that if you're checking her out, she doesn't have other guys checking her out too? when you have so many guys checking you out, you wouldn't care as much about who is checking you out.
I love this question. When a woman catches my eye I do tend to check her out. Hopefully not in an overly creepy way. What I can tell you is when the woman notices me checking her out and gives me a smile or an eye squint it make my day. Nothing more than me acknowledging I find you attractive and you acknowledging that you see me.
You are just one of likely 1000 guys that stared at her tits, sorry checked her out.
Have you tried just showing a bit of respect and talking to her.
What do you mean by flaunting? if she is ignoring you and actively avoiding eye contact the attention isn't welcome and you are making her uncomfortable
For me it's awkward. Even I check I checkout men, but them looking at me would make me feel a bit awkward. And also this goes the same way for me when they check me out.
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