Girls: Because we want you to leave us alone, you're already harassing us practically.
Also Girls: Maybe we want you to approach us, shoot your shot.
Literally taken from reading the already given answers. lol. So basically, either you are harassing them and they DON'T want any more interaction, or you are missing out by not being more aggressive, and they really DO want more interaction. So from one extreme end of the spectrum to the other, from a strong "no" to a strong "yes".
There's your answer, clear as mud, did you expect anything less? LMAO
My answer is it depends, but for the most part this is just a cultural thing and women are trained to not pay any attention. Sometimes to avoid interaction, but then also they are frozen into the habit, and don't know how to show mutual attraction, so they do the same thing to a guy they are interested in as one they are not interested in. So the guys they will end up talking to them the most will be the most disrespectful guys who don't really give a shit what the girl wants or doesn't, it will only matter what the guy wants. The respectful guy will be observant and respectful of her apparent disinterest and move on, leaving her with the pushy, aggressive, disrespectful guy (s).
The best women are those who are not afraid to flirt, and also not afraid to shut down/out the guys who they don't want. But they are not the majority.
I disagree on the last para
This has many facets to it.
1. When girl stares a guy she wants him to notice too but if he doesn’t they name him fool/nerd etc. Whereas if a guy does it they won’t like it and term him creepy you name it.
2. The thing with girls is they are never right until they reach an age. They themselves don’t like guys asking them and doing it, or guys who are sycophantic.
3. When both of them also stares girls then also can refuse to be approach and term it as it she was lost somewhere else.
5. Guys still are most solved easily understandable and let living others happily.
6.
I can't speak for anyone else here, but if someone ever did "check me out" I almost certainly wouldn't even notice it, because I literally do not see all those signs and signals that people apparently exchange with each other all the time. On the other hand, if someone for reasons I cannot even fathom decided to stare at me for many long seconds, I would certainly notice that, and I would just stare right back until he or she decided to look away. I don't like being stared at, it's creepy, but what's worse is when they decide to take photos!
@Kvnhanma Actually, they probably do all the time. I mentioned that I catch people staring quite often, and it's true. You, on the other hand? Probably not, because no one would want to take the chance that they may lead you to believe that they're interested in you. No one likes incels and simps.
Welcome to the complexities of being a woman. Immediately acknowledging such glances outside of say a club/party situation where the atmosphere is already all about dating and sex, could come off as thirsty, desperate, or over eager, or an indication to guys that we only want to hook up. If hooking up is it, then odds are you might lock eyes and be bold and walk on over, depends on the woman, but usually it has more to do with letting the guy make the first move, sexism, playing hard to get, blah, blah, you get it.
I think you're trying too hard to comply with cultural norms. You need to just be free and be yourself.
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Who fucking knows girls are kinda dumb, always playing some kind mind game and just somehow think way differently than us.
I would love to get attention from the opposite gender but for some reason they hate it and just want to be left alone, and when they dont want to be alone they still act the same way, they are never inviting.
They dress for attention, basically turn themselves into sex objects but then turn around and hate it when you think of them like that.
" why are you undressing me with your eyes?" Bitch you wearing a crop top and leggings with no bro or panties on nipping out and your fucking camel toe is trying to eat your leggings, you dress like that dont expect me to see you as anything but sex object.
Welp there's a fine line between creepy and flattering... Staring can make anybody feel uncomfortable... My question to you is why are you staring? do you feel you can't have her? so you just stare? I know if a guy was staring at me and not saying nothing... I would feel uncomfortable and most likely start adjusting my clothes walking faster cause I don't really reveal much when I'm walking somewhere... Now for the girls that wear clothes that are very revealing are looking for stares and attention. Those the ones that give off that nonchalant attitude and play hard to get. Like what do girls expect when their a$$ cheeks out there shorts & tits out. Smh. The girl that your talking about. She knows you want her no illusion... She just don't want to seem easy and want you to make the first move.
It's not an ego thing. If you check a girl out, and she does the same thing, you'd brand her as "too easy." If she pretends not to notice, then you start complaining. How do you even know that girl is interested in you anyway? Instead of ogling her like a creep, you could directly approach her, and ask her out. Nice and simple.
Exactly
@Seppel Most girl wouldn't make the first move
What guy would label a girl to easy if she makes the first move?
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 Most guys do that. Even in my school. I know that most HS guys are young and stupid, but still
Tell you what... if he thinks that and doesn't want you bullet dodged.
you're right a lot of men say that they dont feel interested as much and that she may be easy, videos are not hard to find. Either way I am not shooting my shot first.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 Lmao
@Sincerly_KittyCat Yep, same here!
The idea of me shoot a shot first can go straight to hell.
@tatianamay what?
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 I'm agreeing with you said.
@Sincerly_KittyCat lol same here, girl! I'd chicken out lol. I did tell 2 guys I liked them though. Got rejected gently the first time, and the second time, the guy actually liked me back, but he had stuff going on in his life
@tatianamay oh I see. Nevermind.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 Yup, sorry! I should've been more clear
My wife made the first move on me. And she is my wife now.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 lol, I'm scared of rejection though... how would I know if the guy is interested in me? And don't most guys dislike the idea of girls making the first move?
Some guys do like it some guys dont find it appealing. Oh well, good for them
Like @Sincerly_KittyCat said some do and some don't.
Do what my wife did and on her own words "played a web and just wait for the helpless fly to get traped" xD
Basically no need to be completely frontal. Hang out with them, give them your attention and search for clues on the way they act. Give them your charm and if they respond well then make your move.
This doesn't work with a random guy in the street. In that occasion you just have to rely on luck.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 Thanks! Maybe I'll try it once I get enough self confidence :)
@KevnHanma are you really upset with a 16 year old girl for not wanting to make the first move on guys? Is your dating life that sad?
@KevnHanma considering you called her a loser and she called you a fucktard so far yes she is winning.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 is a real man I don’t date I fuck
An exaggerated way to say you're gonna get AIDS and die shortly. RIP
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 Thanks for the support! If he gets too annoying, I'm planning to block him. I'm sorry for dragging you into this mess
@KevnHanma I am sure you do pal. There are many girls with low standards and father issues around and those must love you. Having sex is easy today it's not a flex at all.
@KevnHanma Well, clearly, you did not concentrate in your high school health class. If you think that was a good comeback, I have bad news for you.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 nah I mostly fuck highschoolers (with confidence in themselves) no insecure lame little girls
No worries. Trust me I like to take on guys like him.
@KevnHanma Oh shit. Pedophile spotted! I'm gonna have to call the cops now
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 lmao, thanks! :)
@KevnHanma tell that to my wife.
Many people are to insecure to approach, doesn't make them losers.
But trash talking a girl online over it does make you a fucktard.
@KevnHanma You need English tutoring. Use proper punctuations. Sheesh
@tatianamay don't mind him. I don't believe for a second he scores the way he says he does. And at 22 brag about getting high schoolers only means he can't get girls his age.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 lmao ikr. That was a self burn hahah. He's too immature to date girls his age
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 in what world is an old saggy woman better than a hot young one😂 don’t be jealous bro
@KevnHanma You should've mentioned 18 year olds, which you did not. Well, I may not be experienced in life, but I do have common sense. You do not even know me. I skipped a grade and I'm a senior in HS.
@KevnHanma wishful thinking isn't getting you anywhere here. Argue like a man! Bring facts to the table! You bragging about sex with younger and naive girls is your idea of a flex. That is weak. That is a fact!
"Oh I hope he isn't married to a woman and that he is gay hahahah". Grow up. You are embarrassing yourself.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 being married isn’t a flex at all and if it weren’t for Obama’s gay ass you wouldn’t have that😂
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 his whole life is THAT sad... sadly
@KevnHanma are you a virgin? Only reason I can see as to why you believe that girls under twenty are better in bed than girls in their twenties.
You never had one have you? You keep proving yourself more and more pathetic.
@KevnHanma says the bitch herself... how ironic
@KevnHanma you seem to be confused. Being married wasn't my flex, was me answering your wishful thinking. With you I don't need to flex you keep digging yourself into a deeper hole alone.
@Blackcupcake of course it is. I don't believe any of is so called "fucks" in the slightest.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 “tell that to my wife” you tried nigga you tried 😂 hold this L fuckboy
@KevnHanma you wish...
@KevnHanma I like women more than you. And women like me more than you too.
And it's actually funny being called a bitch by a guy that can't ever argue like a man. You have no idea of how pathetic you sound do you?
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 yes that’s why you only married one guys who get lots of women love being locked down🙄😂 Foh your a loser too I way more of a man than you
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 this guy is a troll... seen him around, we've been here before and that's why he’s making his dumb comment to @tatianamay so don't try too hard to reason with him... it's a waste of time
@KevnHanma come up with a better roast.
@Blackcupcake I am just having a bit of fun. Those guys are half the reason I like this site.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 Hahah, that was a good one! Poor him, imagine not knowing any other derogatory term other than 'loser' lmfao
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 lmao can't argue with that one...
@KevnHanma Don't you know that the "n-word" is derogatory? Sheesh, you being an English Lit major must surely know other words than loser and 'n****'
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 haha me too! I like bashing the trolls lmfao
@KevnHanma lean to write and form proper sentences. I didn't understood anything if what you tried to say. Write slower so that brain cell number 1 and 2 can communicate
@KevnHanma you should be saying that to yourself...
@KevnHanma You think calling all of us faggots are gonna affect us? Sod off. Don't make me laugh
@tatianamay that is all he has.
"Gay loser faggot hahahah 😂"
The 22 has the idea or insult of a 7 year old.
Oh @kevnhanma you were listening? Are you learning something?
@KevnHanma You're calling him a low-class man? If he's low class, then what are you? Jeez, I can't imagine. You must be lower than that.
@KevnHanma He's a man with class. One who respects women, unlike you.
@KevnHanma I'm blocking your pathetic ass
@KevnHanma
lmfao😂😂
did you really say beta...🤭🤣
@Blackcupcake Omg ikr, he's so funny. Dude considers himself to be a werewolf. How pathetic is that? 😂
@tatianamay hahaha *hardcore cringing*😂😂
@KevnHanma did you... You. Just called ME out on my vocabulary after the conversation we have been having until now? The lack of self awareness is incredible!
@KevnHanma and by the way how are you still here? Haven't you yet got how much over your head you are here?
@KevnHanma meh... try harder. I'm actually intrigued, what's the best roast you can come up with
@KevnHanma I'm not a pussy. Just reported you to a Mod. They'll probably freeze your account soon! :)
@KevnHanma
was that your best try? smh
@KevnHanma have you even seen incels on here? Dude, I'm hot and I get guys, I CHOOSE not to date because I have way more important things to do than to talk to stupid high school boys when I can study to secure a good future
@KevnHanma I'm far from an incel, sweetie
@tatianamay PERIOD!!!
@KevnHanma Haven't even had my first kiss yet.
@KevnHanma I do not open my legs for every man I see, unlike some girls you date. I pity them for making poor life choices, like sleeping with you.
@KevnHanma Eww, you're a sick pervert
You do realize that you're making two contradictory statements right? First you call me an incel, then you call me a whore, and now we're back to incel? Jeez, confusing. I'm neither. I'm just a girl who likes to study books and watch movies with my family instead of sleeping with sick, perverted 22 year olds.
@tatianamay he's a virgin... he's irritable cause he's horny and no one wants to sleep with him regardless of gender so he's on the internet being bitter and taking it out on people.
@Blackcupcake Ahh, we have seen guys like him, haven't we?
@KevnHanma wow new word! Nutless. Did you come by it yourself? So your repertoire of insults is "lose nutless gay faggot". And this is all. You still argue like a child while thinking you are a man.
So far this is what you have proven:
1. You can't write to save your life
2. You never had a secure girl, and yet you shame @tatianamay for her insecurities. Maybe that is what you do you shame insecure girls to fuck you and call that "dominating the and being a real man."
Speaking of which number 3. You have NO CLUE of what a real man is. Your father looks at you ashamed I am sure.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 Spoken like a true King
@tatianamay lmfao too many of them...
@KevnHanma I get a lot of guys, meaning, a lot of guys ask me out, whilst I reject them. This is no rocket science. Think with your 2 brain cells... oh wait, do you even have that?
@tatianamay don't be bothered by a low life like him dear. Always know where you stand and where trash like him stands. Always look at him from above.
@KevnHanma and now you are trying to use my own jokes against me? Did they hurt that bad. I am so sorry.
@tatianamay you know your worth. The number of guys you have doesn't determine your worth. He thinks that because he is small minded.
@KevnHanma EVERYONE has insecurities you dumbass, she's just mature enough to admit her own, unlike your pathetic self. LEARN.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 it does determine her being a Virgin an incel and an unattractive person 🤣🤣
@tatianamay @This_Is_My_Opinion8 @blackcupcake this is just sad it’s 3 on one and this is the best you can do 🤣🤣
@KevnHanma speaking of pathetic…. why are you attacking a 16y old?
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 Lol, I didn't say I 'have' guys, guys have asked me out, but I'm not exactly allowed to date until im 21 and I want to concentrate on my studies now
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 Thank you :)
@KevnHanma Everyone in this world have insecurities. Nobody is perfect
has insecurities*
shit, sorry for the typo
@KevnHanma You haven't even seen me bruh 😂
@tatianamay apparently GaG thinks I am going to hard on him and even deleted some of my responses. My guess is he reported them like a coward. Anyway I said everything I had to say. Let the troll go away thinking he won and that he is all that. Everyone here knows the low life that he really is.
@KevnHanma Everyone is insecure. I do not jerk off guys. You're the sick person, not me. I study, and score good marks. That's it. Can you please stop arguing? We can see that you're a pathetic troll, you proved your point. Move on
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 I reported his profile to a Mod, hoping that they'd freeze his account lol
@tatianamay even if they don't don't mind him. He already got more of our time than he is worth. Have a good day.
@blackcupcake you too.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 Thanks! You too :)
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 yep, that’s GaG for you smh…
Thanks you too!
@Hanmakevn find better insults.
@Hanmakevn meh
@Hanmakevn go find somewhere else to have fun then👋👋
@tatianamay remember... always above the trash.
@Blackcupcake don't bother. Trash will never be aware that they are trash. Let life tell them the hard way.
@Hanmakevn or maybe you could do everyone here a favor and shove it down your throat.
@tatianamay he is really mad at you. My guess is that he is truly hurt for girls like you not giving him the time of day. Look at how angry he is that you don't make the first move on guys. He is desperate for a girl to make a move on him and hates girls like you because they don't.
@tatianamay see? 😂
that was typed bad, but it came across how I wanted so oh well.
But with the general subject with the environment things are in with how people react to any sort of relationship, a lot of guys like being approached by women instead of approaching them either if they're somewhat introverted, or just security that he won't take things the wrong way.
@Avgbrisbaneguy amusing right? xD
Damn all this happened when I went to bed WOW
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 ahh yeah
@Kvnhanma fuck off
@Blackcupcake she is ignoring, do the same. He was burned here more than he can recover already.
Just report themmmmm
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 gotcha…
@Sincerly_KittyCat done that💯
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 lmfao soo true. Gosh, yesterday was fun tho. Haven't argued like that in ages haha
@Kvnhanma Bruh fuck off 🙄
@Kvnhanma Okay then. Keep on commenting like a madman. And oh, I would never end my life because of a sad fucker... which is you :)
lol he literally has no life outside of trolling
@Blackcupcake I blocked that mf lmfao
@tatianamay way to go babes!!😂
@Sincerly_KittyCat Already did. The Mods came and froze his account. But his annoying ass is back. Blocked him again lmao
@Blackcupcake lmfao
Hope he learned something after this massive L
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 I highly doubt it lmao. I blocked him though
maybe she's trying to show off or trying to hide her feelings?
She probably knows that you like her and she's either trying to shrug u off or trying to intrigue u...
cause most times guys are stubborn and girls try to push their buttons...
And the things u mentioned it seems like you're sending mixed signals...
try to walk up and start a convo with her...
If she actively ignores you, it's a sign she's not interested and you should stop. They asked to be checked out and you shouldn't feel entitled to a reaction. Often you're just living life and are not looking for reactions from men.
The comment about body language, maybe you interpret it wrong? Studies have shown that men tend to overestimate sexual interest signs from the opposite sex. So if a girl smiles at you, she might just be polite and not actually interested.
https://journals. sagepub. com/doi/abs/10.1177/0956797619900315 - > source if you're interested.
And if you simply think she's asking for it, but she's not?
I see guys checking me out all the time. Though that's only when I pay attention and other times my mind is somewhere else. When you get checked out you learn to just let it happen and move on... I mean what else is there for you to do? Like I'm not going to go out of my way to approach a stranger.. if that guy really likes me then talk to me. Most guys don't do that though. I wish some of them would talk to me, but they're probably taken. Plus I'm not comfortable to just talk to guys like that, it's not my personality.
She's uncomfortable with your obvious staring, but doesn't want to/is too shy to/too afraid to call you out for your obvious staring.
She's ignoring you because she doesn't deem you worth a response. Not even "playing hard to get" - as far as she's concerned, you're not even a player.
Stop staring. It is rude and undesirable and you are NOT subtle about it.
Harsh, but her words are true. And you asked..
I was thinking this whole time. Here he is boasting about it when the girl is probably very uncomfortable.
Women tend to ignore men that make them feel uncomfortable or appear to be creepy. She probably isn't flaunting it, she's just getting on with things as normal and you're way too in your head to acknowledge you're a creep
Harsh? Seriously mate? That was nothing. Are you really that weak and small to find those kinds of words "harsh?". LOL.
Staring is rude! but in this day and age about 75% of girls walk naked down the street some be only teenagers. Making everyone uncomfortable looking for the most attention... most girls know what they be doing smh. Its expected for guys to feel thats girls be playing hard to get. Cause in all actual reality they do there way more insecure girls out there these days. Some feeled valued when flaunting.
@Twix005 Yep, girls these days, even the young ones who are only 12 or 13, are practically naked. Apparently, walking around with all their bits hanging out is "in style". Even if they're covered, their clothing is so tight you see everything anyway. I don't look at them because, to me, she has nothing worthy to look at. I'm more likely to look at a girl in a 1950's style skirt... not out of thirst for her but out of "awe" and that she looks so nice and dignified unlike the other girls around.
@Wraith_Cemetery Exactly!
Because that’s creepy and not polite and very unattractive by the way (trying to make her notice you’re checking her out)
Lol cause it can be a awkward moment. I’ll be passing BY IGNORING him but going crazy in my head freakin out like OMG he's LOOKIN AT ME, he's LOOKIN AT ME. So i’d be flattered but nervous
Lol glad someone gets it haha
I ignore them when they're bums and ugly 🤣
@Uptowngirl88 if im not attracted to em, i’ll say one of two things “i have a boyfriend” or if he's old enough to be my dad “sir im only 16.” Lol im 26 but i can pass for 16 so it makes ek run and regret hittin on me haha
That's smart. I use the boyfriend one. I haven't tried 16 years old yet
Allow me to rephrase your question... Why do I perceive that some girls do not see me or do not pay attention to my attempts at letting them know that I believe they are attractive? 🙃
Hmmm... So you would like EVERY woman that YOU believe is PHYSICALLY ATTRACTIVE to YOU to somehow aknowledge that that they have received some sort of a SIGN from YOU?
My man... how do you communicate to them that you think they are attractive? What makes you think THEY DON'T KNOW?
What if you pretend that You Don't Care as Well... and pretend that They Need to Deserve That Type of Attention from You?
You are giving out freebies... 🙃😉
🤣🤣🤣 if you don’t gtfo
In my experience if I've shown interest back to a guy they normally respond by thinking that I am available for casual sex instantly. So honestly this is a lot of women's experiences and they are not necessarily available for that. That's why I ignore because usually the people take that as an invitation to get laid right away.
Have you actually talked to her or made any other kind of advance other than checking her out or physically moving closer? Sometimes it just feels good to be admired but you don't want to necessarily react to it and get more attention than you're already getting from afar. But if she is interested, and you haven't made an actual move and made some kind of attempt other than checking her out, maybe she is just waiting for you to make the first actual move like strike up a conversation, get to know her for her and not just like what you see. Also sometimes women are afraid men will think they're being desperate or slutty if they respond to being checked out. Either way, the only true way to know for sure is to just take a chance and speak to her and find out.
Ohh man it be nice to have women check guys out 😅 but yeah completely understand. There are some strange and dangerous guys out there. I had my sister stalked a couple of years ago where the stalker exposed himself ( i wish i was there with a baseball bat) so im guessing that's the main reason for health and safety and no one has the right to make someone feel unsafe or uncomfortable. Coming from my view I would never act like that and if she is not interested I would just move on however Im pretty shy and the first thing that comes to my head is I'm ugly asf hence why she won't look at me/ be interested.
Honestly it's because I'd feel bad to assume you were checking me out and I was wrong. It makes you feel gross, makes me sound gross, it's just bad for everybody. I just assume I happened to catch you looking at something while I was in your line of sight.
There has been a time or two when it was very obvious, eye contact was made, it was no doubt an up-down look. Those I can't ignore, and I'll make eye contact back because then the balls in their court. They want a reaction, they got it. What next pal you started this lol
Because they have a better option than you. Thats why they dont see the guys checking them out, too many options
Yeah, who wants to be stuck?
what makes you think that if you're checking her out, she doesn't have other guys checking her out too? when you have so many guys checking you out, you wouldn't care as much about who is checking you out.
I love this question. When a woman catches my eye I do tend to check her out. Hopefully not in an overly creepy way. What I can tell you is when the woman notices me checking her out and gives me a smile or an eye squint it make my day. Nothing more than me acknowledging I find you attractive and you acknowledging that you see me.
You are just one of likely 1000 guys that stared at her tits, sorry checked her out.
Have you tried just showing a bit of respect and talking to her.
Yep.
Something you learn by 16 is staring at a girls tits and not showing respect means a life of being single.
Far easier being nice, chatty and show respect, far easier getting dates.
Well you are nearly 30, if you don’t know this shit by now, then single life awaits you….
I'm 18 and entirely agree with Chris, that's a you issue. Although in this day and age I do think women should start taking up conversation actively as well as things can be risky when approaching women now.
Anything that goes wrong and makes the situation feel uncomfortable tends to be the mans fault, and they're a shit bag if that happens which could scare men into being distant.
Personally, I genuinely don't know when someone is checking me out. I'm so oblivious that someone actually has to come up to me and tell me that they like me or they have to make it so obvious that they're checking me out. As for other women, I'd say it's a play hard to get thing. She's still on your mind isn't she? Just saying. Those mind games for other women.
What do you mean by flaunting? if she is ignoring you and actively avoiding eye contact the attention isn't welcome and you are making her uncomfortable
Okay well first of all I'm not a feminist, but I'm starting to see why being one is so appealing to so many people.
@Zantagio1 Exactly, thank you.
annilisa , I get it but you should understand that the wording of the first comment kinda comes off like the start of a feminist rant, which it wasn't in fairness but his take isn't THAT much.
His POV is understandable, but also he's wrong and should've read into it about. But just for you, don't read into his comment too much.
@Zantagio1 lol what? No it doesn't.
His question is "Why girls pretend they haven't seen us or don't care when we check them out?" The first thing that popped into my mind from past experience was "she's uncomfortable". A lot of us dont like men looking at us like that, if they aren't acknowledging you its probably a hint to leave us alone and stop what you're doing.
If they wanted you're attention they would smile or something. It doesn't take a genius.
**. kicking feet up"". I'm just gonna watch this one.
The problem with feminists today are that they take real boundaries or real problems in communication like this and push them to the extreme where they get extremely toxic at men , feminists today are in a weird way almost like the feminine version of incels.
Take some logical or half logical shit, mix it in with crazy nonesense and you get crazy, hateful rants about how much they hate the other sex for X reason or why the other sex is bad for X reason, its very cringe.
@Zantagio1 ok but this isn't one of those situations. This lady even mentioned she isn't a feminist. I just find it really sad that women speaking their mind and providing another viewpoint, over something that happens A LOT is brushed off as extreme and "feminist views" sometimes. There's even been MyTakes over how women typically do not like being cat called and looked at by random men in public. Its frustrating that there are certain idiotic men that don't listen to women when it involves criticising their behaviour and rather carry on stuck in their ways sexualising random women walking by as if they want their attention. Sure some women probably do, a lot of women don't and if that woman is ignoring you and pretending you dont exist she probably wants you as far away from her as possible. We've all been there, this is not a rare thing, all women have experienced unwanted attention at some point.
I think we're basically saying the same things. Look back for a moment to the start of the conversation, his reaction was a little overboard as Subarus initial answer to the question wasn't overdramatic like a typical feminist, but is it absolutely impossible for it to just misinterpreted? Dkc never made any comment more than his initial reply, he didn't double down, he didn't say anything further on it.
You reading into his comment and making it into "you have to be a feminist to disagree with him" because that was more than likely not the case. That was my only disagreement with you.
I don't know , but the typical feminist behavior today is overdramatic and nonsensical , you'd only be feeding comments like that by acting in that way. Making assumptions about what someone else means by like not even a full sentence is unfair and outright bad
Note: Not saying you are one, just tryna tell ya , if he still did actually think she was a feminist based off that interaction after things were clarified, then jumping to conclusions irrationally kinda just feeds comments like those.
For me it's awkward. Even I check I checkout men, but them looking at me would make me feel a bit awkward. And also this goes the same way for me when they check me out.
I'd imagine some women get numb to it. If she's very attractive then guys checking her out will be a common thing and she ignores it.
Some people (me included) don't pay attention to people looking at them when in public. It's something I don't care about because when in public I'm usually running errands, with family/friends, lifting weights, etc. I'm in my own world and don't notice if others are looking at me.
I often get stared at by guys and tend to look away or ignore them
There's a difference between checking someone out and being a creeper. You can easily check someone out without going over the edge about it.
The same as saying something nice or sounding totally disgusting.
I was caught looking and confronted once and my response was, I was only admiring your beauty.
And she smiled instead of feeling harassed.
THANKYOU!!!
Speaking for myself, I'm just very shy and lost in my own little world to even care. Before I step outside, I never think "I wonder how many guys are going to check me out".
That thought never comes to my mind. I dress for myself. Which is why I always wear earphones, look down at my phone, and have a resting b*tech face. I'm not trying to impress anyone.
Unfortunately yes. Some of them will follow me or start a stupid conversation. They always say "you look conceited/mean". They're always wrong. I'm just shy.
Thank you for saying you dress for yourself because society can say people who wear revealing clothing want attention but usually people just want to wear what they want so they can feel confident and look in the mirror and feel good. I saw a girl reply with something along the lines with people who wear revealing clothing want to be checked out, and it disappointed me, so thank you
I genuinely don't dress for other people. 99% of the outfits I wear is for myself. I'm not denying some girls won't do a little extra for a guy we like. But my hair, makeup, and outfits is for my self-confidence. Not for men.
I'm shy too... but being shy sucks lol... I can't help that i'am. I got trust issues as well... I just never know some men intentions... and honestly don't care about being alone. So yeah... I see what you saying cause man always tell me to smile. I sure would like a guy to give me a good reason to smile instead telling me too ha!
@That_one_kid It's fine for women to dress for themselves I get that... girls your age dress waaay too grown nowadays it's crazy. IT'S all they see now days having ya tities and a$$ out is not dressing for yourself. only for attention.. Young women be exposing themselves and should just have more decency we suppose to be displayed as women not objects.
We dont dress up for you. We do it for ourselves, to feel happy about how we look. Maybe dont leer ar and sexually harrasss girl you see. Its not about you.
I don't know what these girls are on about. Me and all of my friends dress up for male attention. Most girls I know do too
@petite_princess that's because you're insecure
Almost everyone has made me laugh with their comments... I'll just add that you walk up to her ignoring her attitudes, she might eventually like you?🤷🏻♀️
It's just a matter of ' if you want it , get it.' Life itself has not been fair so why girls? Lol
Maybe she has checked you and she’s not interested in you
Keep in mind the natural healthy form for the spine will have this effect. I have a lot of spinal problems and I've had friends ask why i puff my chest out. I don't, it's simply a more comfortable and healthier position.
She could have a hundred reasons other that sex, life is much bigger than sex :)
You're like the guy who goes to the burger joint and puts a quarter on the counter & when the staff ignores you, you start ranting, "why won't they give me a meal!!! I'm a human being!"
It's just not how life works...
1) I may be flattered but don't want the attention to escalate
2) Playing hard to get
3) Don't want to appear to be thirsty for a guy's attention (kind ties in to point 2)
4) I'm creeped out
They only don’t matter when they don’t find you attractive. Some girls have shook they’re ass when I look at it they’re phat black jelly booty. Some black women have bend that phat ass over once I checked them out. Some Asian and Latin women have stared me down when I checked them out.
Because girls don't really like it when they're being checked out by strangers. It makes them uncomfortable.
Who told ya that? Lol
@Veronica_Jane I'm just saying that cause that's how I personally feel. Not all girls are like that.
i always get stared at so i’ve gotten so used to the attention now that i can pretend i’m the only one in the room when i don’t feel like being bothered.
Maybe she's confused that you're looking so hard and then don't say anything. Shoot your shot. Otherwise you're sending mixed signals.
I do not check out women any more. Let the thirsty dudes line up to get they booty smacked. Don’t call me. I’m busy
The thirst is real. I’m still busy.
If you ho out wearing leggings, you already know girls that they really show your ass and pussy. You already know that. I look at a girl waking into a store. She had a fine ass. She like running to get away like i am a stalker. I know what you are saying so girl tell us plwase why do you wear them
Because most of the time it’s uncomfortable and borderline harassment, acknowledging you guys would literally make you come up and talk to us.
Because you aren't looking like a high value man.
While a beautiful woman looks like a high value.
Up your game.
If we had to take care about all the guys who are checking us... we would do only that in our life.
Maybe she’s nervous and think you are a creep about to sexually assault her. Since after all that is the only thing that goes through a woman’s mind nowadays when she’s being checked out
Well tbh considering I’ve been stalked , and have been raped before and so have many other women I think this it’s valid for women to be scared especially when you reject a guy there’s the possibility they might kill you because they’re fragile egos can’t handle rejection
*their
The U. S.
There have been plenty of cases do some research 🥱
Look up Donald Thurman for example
@Powerpuffgirl223 Donald Thurman was only one guy. If you’re letting just one guy distort your perception on the whole male gender then I’m sorry but you’re the fragile one here
There are plenty more cases that was one out of hundreds like I said do your research before saying it doesn’t happen in the U. S. that’s an ignorant comment
@CasaNorba I’m not the type of victim Ted Bundt sought out , I’m a dark skin woman he sought out dark haired white women to get revenge on his ex that broke his heart... NEXT
Did you even really study the Ted Bundt case?
*Bundy
@CasaNorba and Donald Thurman was one guy but ohhhhh you said It didn’t happen in the U. S. huh?
@CasaNorba i never said it did I simply said I was not the type of victim Ted Bundy sought out and if you knew anything about his case you’d know that 🥱
@CasaNorba and like I said do some research first about U. S. killings then get back to me
@CasaNorba I truly don’t care. Women have a right to be afraid some of you men are NUTS
@CasaNorba if you do “so much research” then why’d you say it doesn’t happen in the U. S?
That is most certainly not what you said , you said and I quote “Are you sure that happened in the U. S because men do not kill here when they are rejected , are you sure you’re not suffering from PTSD” go back up and try reading again buddy
Are you kind of slow or something?
*gave*
I am sexy asf 😂 you gonna cry about that too?
@CasaNorba as a matter of fact I look so fucking good I betcha I could get her number & you couldn’t 😂
🤣🤣🤣 and yet you’d still never manage to get with me if you were the last man on earth
Yawn you bore me! 🥱
There are so many men who try to get with me I’ve rejected plenty I rejected him aswell he just took advantage he still wouldn’t have a shot with me in hell
🤣🤣🤣
If you have to force someone to have sex with you who’s clearly not interested it clearly just shows you’re probably ugly & you don’t know how to appeal to a woman 🥱 but I saw a win he’s doing jail time so justice was served
🤣🤣🤣 ew don’t talk about your penis I wouldn’t touch you with a ten foot pole please don’t flatter yourself
🤣🤣🤣🤣 look you’re not even confident enough to post your real picture on here so please miss me with the bs! You probably are desperate tho just like the rest of the men on this page
@CasaNorba you do any of that research yet? 👀
Boy stfu and go do some damn research now you’re just amusing me it’s not my fault your inbox is dry as hell 🤣🤣🤣
@CasaNorba You know you're dealing with a snowflake with the self-esteem of a carrot if she has to boast to the world how "hot" she is because some dude couldn't help but rape her. Not to forget to mention that she is so "hot" that she funny enough feels the need to use filters and put a ton of makeup on. And yet she calls others "desperate". Classic case of projection lmfao. Some other guy pointed out that this is a dude behind a pink account. I'm starting to get more and more convinced that's the case
@TruthBringer wouldn't be surprised at all. I mean it is kinda creepy when someone randomly admits they been raped/sexually assault and then starts bragging about how "hot" they are and how supposedly "others" who opposed them are "desperate."
is like wtf? she must of gotten a huge ego boost out of that rape incident. while also claiming that ALL men in the world have a fragile enough ego that they will all kill if they get rejected all because she cling on to one little case. she seriously needs to look up Jodie Arias whenever she has a chance
but other than that yea she is definitely a duplicate or a catfish
I've been looking at other comment but it seems like you think girls owes you an attention just because you're checking on them otherwise they are "rude". How about you approach? Or how about you let women chase you?
Bc it'd be awkward if we made eye contact
They're the ones checking me out. I never asked for it. Also it just creeps me out. Especially when older men do it
And what do you want? Everything else is disgraceful, coming from a girl. It's basic common sense.
No, it's a fine manners/ reputation / upbringing thing more than ego itself. Who isn't cheap, can't act cheap, what is not clear?
@Zantagio1 50% of women don't even agree with modern feminism. It's not a given that all men and women should act the same *at all*.
@hahahmm yes, I agree, there are differences. Why shall we act blind to them? It's actually more often that this non classy, disrespectful, overly experimental behaviour gets us in trouble, than normal fine manners and etiquette that was designed to make everyone feel comfortable. Now if someone feels uncomfortable reaching out normally to a girl, does he even deserve that girl? For the only females that reach out first are for centuries, if not larger scale of units, only prostitutes. It's engraved in our collective consciousness and memory and it's not going to change just because you decided that it's now suddenly "politically correct" or "easier" for you. Actually you are missing bigger picture and that picture IS complicated. You are complicating unnecessary with disturbing a system that worked just fine until now. She can give some signs, but it's better that she doesn't do more than that. Man approaches. You can't just be giving signs. It's female role. You approach. Only "checking out" is flat out offensive, as it feels as if you expect something from her. And I already explained that it's engraved in our collective memory that that would be sign of lowest morals. @Dkc123 and @Zantagio1
In eastern and Southern and southeastern Europe we are aware of these unwritten rules. No one needs to teach us. We play along. Both genders. It feels normal. I don't see what are your problems with it.
Is it possible they aren't interested or just don't care?
If I ignore someone who is checking me out it is because I am not interested in them getting the wrong idea - that I like them back. If I am actually interested I'd engage with them.
Because we are used to get stares from lot of guys. So, we assume maybe you're one of them.
I usually ignore ugly bummy men when they check me out and if they try to talk to me. I dont want to risk the chance of an unattractive bum thinking I like him
I don't know I barely stare girls
this makes you look like a creep and probably a killer or something lol
if you like something about her just tell her as long as its not a physically
A lot of girls get the attention they want, so they start playing games with you.
Because of she shows interest she's going to be bother by creepers!
I don't know, guys never check me out cause' I'm ugly lol
Sounds like your gawking is obvious, but she isn't interested
if we let you know we've seen you, you will approach us and bother us
And what about when she stares and a guy ignores.
We’re not pretending. Most of us really don’t care. And, 99% of the time, we aren’t dressed for you (men). Get over yourselves.
Ah yes, I’m a woman that gave you an answer you didn’t like so I must be bitter. Also, maybe instead of just checking us out (which gets you really nowhere with us), try making conversation.
Sarcasm, you dumbass. Your post is dripping in bitterness thinking women owe you something cause you checked them out.
Thank you, that’s better than bitter, I’ll take it. Have fun never getting laid in life.
Oh you dress sexy for yourself? So you get turned on when looking at yourself? So you flaunt your assets to yourself? I don't think so, right?
Even though you may not actively want to be approached, you do it in order to be perceived as sexy. Knowing you are perceived as sexy is enough validation to give yourself a boost in self esteem. Women want to keep their sexual market value high. Either consciously or unconsciously.
There is a reason why they say "You dress well, you feel well". And that is because you feel well when you ARE PERCEIVED as good looking by OTHER people (especially men). Who doesn't feel good when they know the opposite sex finds them attractive? I don't wear a suit inside my house, I do it when I go out. Same thing for your make up and 'sexy' clothings. They go off your face as soon as you go back home or never to be put on when you don't leave the house, in the first place.
I’m just gonna skip to the part where I pretend to think you are right, TruthBringer. 🙄
Lmfao what a come-back. Such a good counter argument. Thanks for proving your lack of intellect
I just have no interest in wasting my energy on incel bullshit.
This poster is a fuckin weirdo 💀💀 and that Truthbringer guy is known lame sexist p. o. s. The guys on this site are so embarrassing
@Aphrodite801 says one of the biggest misandrists on this website. Love how you block people only to talk shit about them. I love how I managed to make you a fan of mine 💀
All People Care about receiving attention. We just prefer to receive that Attention from someone who we believe is better than us. 😉
@TruthBringer she’s not just an a fan of yours only, lmao just another block happy snowflake ❄️
Girl not all the ugly men replying to your comment cause they’re triggered 🤧 I’m gone 🤣🤣🚮.
Lmaoooo the men on this site be so desperate
@CasaNorba I love it when toxic feminists call other people ugly and talk shit about other people's sex lives. Especially to the ones who happen to be in happy relaiontships with higher quality women than them. Yeah, this website is full of these generate misandrists. Hence why they block because they can't stand the cognitive dissonance 😂
@Powerpuffgirl223 You reek of being a duplicate account
@TruthBringer... I think the Power Puff chic has a valid point about some Dudes being Desperate on this site. I'll double down on that observation and make a point about majority of dudes being desperate everywhere for women.
Let's look at the situation... If an Ugly Girl walks into a bar and wants to get laid... I am pretty certain she will find someone to screw her.
Same thing cannot be said about some ugly dude who walks into a bar and wants to get laid. 😉
Exactly ^^^
@TruthBringer you just further proved my point 🤣 you’re probably one of those desperate guys on this site lmaooo
@Parad0xlol Oh she definitely has a point. Lots of simps on this website validating women in hopes to score pussy points. There is one particular dude in his 40s who has been simping his way into the graces of women for a while only to shoot his shot and invite them to go on a holiday with them and his child (he pays for it all). Only to get turned down by them all because they fear for their safety and weren't comfortable with the idea of being expected to sleep with him.
I simply called Powepuffgirl out to be a duplicate account as it is incredibly suspicious of being one.
I’m not I’m a real person lmao a lot of people just think I’m too hot to be real 🤣
But whatever helps you sleep at night 🤣🤣🤣
@TruthBringer That's awesome! You also understand this so called unnecessary validation of the White Knights rushing in to defend the Princess. The fact that both me and you can talk about it on a conscious level symbolizes awareness and maturity.
I am also aware... of the possibility that anyone can make an account and pick out a gender. Sometimes we just simply need to observe an individual a little more before we can reach a definite conclusion. 😁
🤣🤣🤣🤣😭
I love being hot
@Parad0xlol You got that right!
@Powerpuffgirl223 Thanks for confirming my thoughts lmfao
@TruthBringer thanks for confirming you’re desperate 🤣 have a good one
@Powerpuffgirl223 Judging from how intensively you use the word "desperate" in incorrect contexts, you've hereby proved you don't even know what that means. Good job, missy. Which is funny because this points to you projecting your own wishful thinking. Jesus you broads bore me
@TruthBringer lmaooo you’re still probably ugly as shit 🤣 use a real pfp
@Powerpuffgirl223 U sure ur not a Dude? I mean that's a typical dude behavior. LOL 😂😂😂
@Powerpuffgirl223 Yes, I'm so ugly that I'm in a loving relationship. Like I said, you bore me. If you're going to attempt to insult me, at least do a better job than my previous drill sergeants
100% girl 🤣 sorry I’m attractive as shit and God didn’t bless the two of you with good genes go cry about it 😭
🤣🤣🤣 @TruthBringer ugly people get into relationships all the time 🤣
@Powerpuffgirl223 lol this girl
🤣 have a good one ya’ll 😜
@TruthBringer... Umm so Powerpuff is most likely a Dude. Case Closed 🔒
🤣🤣🤣 & ya’ll are ugly class dismissed
@Parad0xlol Yeah it's starting to get more and more clear indeed. Let him blab on
Lmaooo
Yep I’m such a guy but most of the men on this site are on my clit and thirsty asf to get my attention. Like I said y’all are both beat asf 🤮
And wouldn’t get a chance with me even if you tried 🤣
Yeah that’s wtf I thought 🥱 now the case is closed 🤣
Love how the pink comments here trash talk men and then proceed in the very behavior they discredit. And the evidence is in the amount of ad hominems. Classic case of hypocrisy and desperation 💀
Don't give them too much attention...
That's when they start noticing you.
It's easy to fool girl's. They are dumbest ever.
I assume for the same reason I ignored subtitle racism in high school, because if you had to address it every time it happens then you'd be addressing it all day.
Because she’s not interested and am genuinely does not care.
That’s how women are. It’s always how it’s been. The men are the ones that chase the prey. Women are more shy, reserved.
What makes you special out of the 100 other guys checking her out? Why would she show any interest or care just for you?
I don't know about you, but it's because she's already put me in the friendzone.
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