What is your thoughts on women who where skimpy clothing acting like victims when a man get aroused by what they see?

[Hunged]

when there's women who are half naked in public it seems to be accepted in todays society's women today objectify themselves and then complain that there being objectified. well what i say doesn't go for all women

you are correct in your assessment

your wrong

[LesterJester]

Nobody can control what others find attractive or control what they're thinking. However, that is also no excuse to act upon your thoughts or what you find attractive. I would hope most of us were taught some basic self control when growing up.

Now, in saying all that, I kind of get where you're coming from. If a female dresses in revealing attire or otherwise makes themselves up in a way they know full well will draw attention to themselves, then to a degree, they don't really have a place to complain about the attention they receive.

Now to clarify this before I get shat on, I said to a degree and kind of. There's a fine line on acceptable attention and unacceptable attention. Getting looks and compliments are one thing... Getting cat called and inappropriate contact are a whole other ball game.

And what I say applies to both genders. Some guys will spiff themselves up to get attention too.

But wanting attention drawn to yourself or trying to make yourself look good (be that for others or just for your own self esteem) is not a green light for others to do and say whatever they want towards you.

[doopayo]

What are your thoughts on men going to beaches wearing speedos?


This is disgusting and men need to stop objectifying themselves. Not only are they displaying their bulge but they’re displaying their calf and things as well as their stomach and chest!! This is disgusting and men need to have more respect for themselves and stop objectifying themselves wearing these kinds of clothing.


Tight pants, tight shirts, see threw shirts are disgusting and men need to stop objectifying themselves by wearing those those clothing! Now how do men now a days expect to land a good wife when they are willing to put their body on display for the world to see?

[BigKevHanma]

Quit pretending double standards don’t exist women aren’t as visually stimulated as men

[doopayo]

That’s not true, when you as a man put your assets on display it’s only natural human nature for a woman to look so you shouldn’t get mad if a woman looks at you if you dress like a whore

[BigKevHanma]

Women don’t get turned on just from looking at a guy and when I say turned on I mean immediately ready for sex I’m not saying women don’t look but it’s not enough to get them there like it is for men

[CrazyGirl2]

Did, you literally know nothing about women if you don’t understand that wen are WAY more visually stimulated

[doopayo]

@CrazyGirl2 I was joking. And The Whole men are more visually stimulated thing is just a theory. It hasn’t been proven

[doopayo]

Either way men being more visual has nothing to do with women, because gay men exist. If gay men exist than by this men are more visual so we need to cover up bs men would also have to be modest.

But ofc, it’s not placed on men because of gender double standards.

[CrazyGirl2]

I was being factious, OBVIOUSLY men are more visually stimulated. Or the porn industry would cater to women!

[CrazyGirl2]

Listen to the WOMEN in this survey… the men are as uninformed as you. We women know rapists do not need you to be wearing sexy clothing to rape you… it’s not about sexual attraction, it’s about power and control!

[Hunged]

never mentioned rapist stay on topic