This really unattractive girl walks around with really high self-esteem. How can I give her a reality check?

[Anonymous]

She's in my friend group, she's literally like 5ft1 and weighs over 235 pounds. But she smiles and laughs all the time, she's quiet but you can tell she loves herself. But she's so ugly, and I don't mean that to be mean but she's got better self esteem than some models I know. She looks awful I'm videos and photos that people take of her but she doesn't care.

Like my guy friends and I talk about it a lot, we know no guy would ever want her from the way she looks lol. How can I give her a reality check?

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There's absolutely nothing wrong with me I don't like when people glorify obesity

[btbc92]

There is something wrong with you, YOU need a reality check and learn to mind your business, just leave the girl alone and stop being jealous because she has something you don't: love. Sounds like all that you accuse her of, you think of that of yourself. Because do any guy at this present time wants you? Probably not.

There are definitely guys who would like to get to know her and love her. You don't know her circumstances about her weight and it's personally none of your business. Leave that girl alone. Work on yourself. She has done nothing to you to deserve that. And she deserves better than being around a hater. People like you get revealed and when you get exposed others are going to really see what type of person you really are.

Do you even think those so-called "male friends" care? No. So you have to stop, and reevaluate why you are like that as a person, and seek professional help. You're not being blunt, you're just being rude and it's not right what you thinking and saying about her behind her back. I personally think you need to just stay away from her if you badly despise her. Nobody is glorifying obesity. It's about loving yourself as a PERSON. That doesn't mean you don't take care of yourself and be healthy. But her health is her business. And as long as she is enjoying her life, stop hounding about hers. She will develop herself as a person to get better over time. Your hounding her to be anything other than will just make it worse. Because I bet you if she was thinner and got more male attention you STILL would have been jealous. Honestly, you need to just stop while your ahead.

[HollyK21]

So basically, you feel like she’s got no right to be confident and you want her to feel ugly and fat? I think you’re the one needing a reality check here, she deserves much better “friends” than someone like you with such a hideous soul and talks behind her back.

[GoldenCage]

obviously you are trolling for comments as no one can have such an ugly soul. And on the off chance you were serious than stop being bitter Karen and find something more useful to do with your time than gossip

[Asker]

I'm not trolling at all, I truly feel this way.

[GoldenCage]

Grow up

[GoldenCage]

Glorify obesity! lol you are a real life bully Karen. There are many things wrong with you and you are too blind to see it. How's it glorifying obesity to mind your own fucking business? no one asked you to shuv food in her face or ask her to gain more weight.

Leave the girl alone. It's not your place and that's why you are posting this question anonymously. You know people will judge you for that charter of yours. Damn with a friend like you who needs enemies.

[JC1981]

Sounds like your jealous of her confidence. Your not a nice person or friend material if you feel the need to put her down. If she's happy why do you feel the need to make her unhappy... to give yourself a confidence boost! Shame on you!

[Hangry06]

You have no right to meddle in other's business when ypu have unfinished business
Stop being immature and learn to mind ypur own business

[Sam2021]

You jealous btch leave her alone kiddo!! Go get a life! I hope she always keeps smiling all over you loser

[Anonymous]

Probably just leave her alone and ignore it, at least she isn’t being depressed about looking that way

[KellyKOO]

What is wrong with you?

[Rachelspiks]

You really are a rotten person.

[ChiPaPa]

Just leave her alone. Begone thot!

[EnglishEuropean]

Her reality sounds preferable to yours.

[Anonymous]

You’re a bad friend

[Somegirl678]

damn ur evil lol