Girls, Why would you block a guy on Facebook you were friends in real life with and you talked all the time?

[Anonymous]

I don’t know if she’s mad at me and that’s why she blocked me, because I reached out to her to try and talk explaining how I felt after our argument and she blocked me. It’s sad because we had a connection and I never felt something like this with a girl before. We were friends but it was leaning to something more as we were getting closer. I know she likes me so that’s what makes this situation more weird.

[Anonymous]

Honestly she probably found someone else or she doesn’t want you to see her photos anymore. Maybe she became obsessed with you. I do this when I like someone I start to play scenarios in my head and think about them a lot. She probably still likes you, but doesn’t want you to be on her social media. Because maybe she feels she can’t be herself or she afraid you will judge her. I don’t know people are weird. If you were friends for a long time then yea maybe you did something to offend her or she just doesn’t like you anymore. For someone to block or unfollow you, you had to do something that really pissed them off. Normal people don’t just block people for no reason. Either your a threat, she doesn’t like you, you hurt her, she likes someone else, or she doesn’t like what you post. There so many reasons why people do what they do. I wish I got clarity why some of the people I thought were my friends just unfollowed me. My story is sort of like yours but I didn’t get blocked. I would reach out if you see this person ever. In my case the girl I was close with moved away so i won’t ever know what happened or why people do things. Just know that’s a sign from God that those people were never supposed to be in your life or maybe you meet by accident. Some people are selfish they only care about themselves. They are takers, they make people believe your something to them then they gone forever.

[Asker]

Yeah it really sucks when people leave your life without any explanation. It could be a number of things you suggested. She might have blocked me so I wouldn’t judge her, as when I was around her she’d act really self conscious, trying to impress me. But I may have offended her as well, some of our jokes, teasing she may have taken something the wrong way. She’d still act like she cared about me though and liked me that’s what is confusing.

[Opinion Owner]

She wasn’t a true friend, real friends don’t do this lol. If she cared she would just talk to you, maybe she felt like yalls friendship wasn’t worth it. Or maybe she wanted you to show her signs and make it obvious that you wanted her as more possible. Yea it’s hard to guess I would say if you ever see her or know someone who is close to her. Ask them to ask her what she thinks about you or what happened. That is odd I would definitely reach out and if you get no answer then that is an answer. Just leave it alone and let go and continue your life like she never existed. If this person wasn’t that close then it’s a sign that this person was a crappy friend probably wanted to use you in some way. Or liked the attention you gave them and you weren’t giving them what they wanted. Be careful who you let in and be friends with. Bc if they were closer to you it would hurt more. Some people are just sucky and that’s life.

[Opinion Owner]

Your not the first story I heard about stuff like this people with their problems always tag me in their post. I’m just glad to help in some way. I love this site I love the tea/ drama. It’s so funny. I wish my life was interesting.

[Asker]

I feel like she did try to reach out to me in person a while ago before she blocked me. I just wasn’t ready to talk to her. Which I ignored her made her upset. i do feel like she wanted something from me but I don’t know what. She was trying to make me jealous at stages which hurt me. I do feel like she wanted more of my attention but I honestly don’t know what she wants. I really liked her but couldn’t do anything about it. Even if I ask her friends or other people I can’t trust them, they’ll either tell her I asked or someone will lie to her and make it worse. Haha I don’t think it’s funny it’s emotionally draining and confusing