Did you actually watch and listen to the videos you posted? You claim it's because of height and looks, but apparently you missed where in the first video it was said that he had been harassing her at the gym for weeks...
And on the second video? Where did anyone bring up charming/hot? The woman in the second video told them it's not a good idea to hit on women in the gym. And in the second video, they were asking her advice about approaching women.. Those scenarios are in no way the same situation...
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Nah I think the first guy was acting a lot different from the second guy. The first guy got super close to her and stuck his head in her space.
Personally, if I saw a less attractive guy at the gym who was acting socially acceptable then no I wouldn’t think he was creepy at all.
I’m also imagining an attractive guy do the same thing as the first guy (watching me at a close distance, possibly following me, coming into my space out of the blue), I would still think he was creepy.
Another aspect tho is age. Girls do have a tendency to see older guys (for me maybe 40+) as creepy, even if it’s a simple flirt.
When I was 16 I was already 6'2.
We had a sport event with another school. I took part and after it I was in horrible shape and super tired. Another dude from the other school was next to me. He was half my size.
Three nearby girls asked me to move out of the way so they could see him.
He was shorter than all three of them. I was taller than all three of them.
They still wanted him.
Height helps, but is not a game changer.
A creep is just a socially unaware weirdo like the guy in first vid, if you are gonna make an effort ( especially at a gym) than be polite about it and don't just stand around her and stare that's creepy asf.. if a female did that even if she was attractive it'd still be creepy also.
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"Creep" doesn't mean ugly. It means lacking social awareness, empathy, and annoying or threatening behavior.
As they say... it's only harassment if you're ugly.
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