Female coworker?

[Blunt_Reality33]

I like keeping things very professional in a work setting. I am definitely crushing over this female coworker. As a guy how can I tell if a female coworker is interested me? Are there body language to look for, or if she finds a way to come close to me, if she looks or don’t look at me when I’m talking to her, or laugh at funny or coney jokes. I just need someone opinion please.

[ChrisMaster69]

I personally would avoid workplace romance or relationships like the plague.

you may like her, however she may see you as a work colleague and just be relaxed with you as a workmate.

it’s a bit like having a crush on a female friend, if you act on it, you run the risk of losing a friend.

With workplace stuff for both guys and girls, you run the risk of flirting being picked up wanted and being creepy or harassment.

there is so much room for mixed messages, the only way I could see is inviting her out for a coffee etc, or similar, such as lunch.

even if you do date her, what happens when it say ends in 6 months but ends badly, you then have to work in same office or building or team etc.

[Blunt_Reality33]

Well she did give me her contact number, and said “if you want to hangout sometime after work lmk we and grab a drink 🥃 “.

[PrettyPriya]

Ok, first, are workplace relationships okay at your job?

[Blunt_Reality33]

Yes! As long when your at work you keep it professional the company said. They said they know people going to find other coworkers attractive and know people going to want to talk to each other. As long there are no complaints or any type of harassment is going on and people keep it professional while at work they don’t care.

[PrettyPriya]

Ok. Just wanted to make sure before I give an opinion.

So, if she likes to spend off time (breaks/lunch) with you then that is a good indicator. I would not read too much into work hour behavior as that can be seen as “getting along” with coworkers.

This is tough. I don’t ever think it is a good idea to have workplace relationships. If it goes bad…think of the issues that could come next. Something worth contemplating.

@chrismaster69 comment on the matter of workplace relations?

[PrettyPriya]

Thank you for MHG