Why would someone do this?

[whymetho]

I have been seeing this man since beginning of 2020 we were friends with benefits then got into an actual relationship around March 2021 come late July he ghosts me I was suffering bad from that then come yesterday out of the blue he sends me these series of text messages

[silvermoon84]

Oh my, there are some horrible men out there (women too to be fair). I’m sorry you went through that, but I commend his girlfriend for making him do that. I hope she dumped his ass afterward. I’m sure you already know this, but if you slept with him you might want to get tested for HIV for your own safety

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

because some people are selfish pieces of shit that only think about themselves, not who they hurt... Good thing he told you so you can get yourself tested

[whymetho]

Yes I'm happy for that reason alone

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Hopefully you test negative🙏🙏

[Aerissa_Jade]

Some people are just fucking piece trash of human beings.

However things started between the two of you, he never thought about how they would end. He possibly started feeling guilty, grew a conscience and ghosted you cause he had no clue how to be a decent human being.

He either confessed or she found out somehow and as a condition of forgiveness made him send that message.

Hope she dumped his ass after that, once a cheater always a cheater.

[lonestar_01]

Learn from this, the same way he has. No more friends with benefits, no more problems. Well, there may be problems down the line, but now you know what these things tend to entail. Get yourself tested, God forbid you have herpes. I hope you haven't got it. It's going to hurt, but at the end of the day you will move on and find someone better

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Congratulations & as they say when you sleep with dogs you could end up with fleas & in your case herpes. As for Sean that was so nice of him to spill the beans & tell you the truth & to be honest I wouldn’t be surprised if his other girlfriend wrote the message.

Are you two going back to being friends with benefits since the relationship thing didn’t work out?

[whymetho]

Hell no, I don't know if I even got herpes so I have to get tested

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Safety first, go get tested.

[DaveJord]

Because he cheated on his girl friend, and apparently he has harpes, which is why his girl friend probably found out about you. Because she thinks she got it from him, who didn't get it from her... so he must of been cheated. So he might be thinking that he got it from you, or from someone else and maybe of passed it off to you. But if I had been with someone who has herpes I would want to know and get tested right away.

[Poobutt711]

I don't why it's a problem or why it matters.. or why anything matters to be honest, I don't give a shit about anything, if this happen to me I wouldn't care if I was you... I jus wanna close my eyes and never wake up... That's all I care about.. getting closer to death... That's what life's about.. getting rid of time.. that's the only thing that matters

[Poobutt711]

I suggest you not care either cos at the end of the day it don't matter. And In hundred years it won't matter

[whymetho]

thanks us3r poobutt711

[Poobutt711]

No problems, jus helping spread awareness that nothing matters, I see so many people these get emotional for nothing these days and it's dumb

[whymetho]

Who said I was emotional

[Poobutt711]

not me but I mean like people in general if they lose a job they'll be mad or if their girlfriend dumps them they're sad... Me... I don't care

[whymetho]

Good for you I guess

[Anonymous]

That's messed up. Unless you want to end up like his girlfriend, stay away from him. Block his number if you have to.

[whymetho]

I feel sick

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, this is life. It will not feel good for some time, but this too shall pass. He'll be gone in the past and you'll laugh about it.

[t-8900]

yet another cautionary tale of why you dont do friends with benefits or D2F situations. Date someone a while before having sex. Otherwise you could end up with dead beat daddy situation, a psycho, Stalker, or an STD.

[whymetho]

*ptsd

[spartan55]

Aren't friends with benefits great? I'll never understand why women get into those arrangements.

[Anonymous]

you wrote the perfect response. never feel bad for a shitty human, im glad his girlfriend is actually decent but i hope she left him in the dust.

[jasco]

because he's a asshole

[anylolone]

He's a moron, you said it yourself, it's trash.

[ItsMeElliana]

damn.

[Iron_Man]

That’s horrible