There's nothing wrong with what you like. There are actually a lot of women who would prefer to to be dominant too and now that going to the gym is a lot more common for women, I imagine that there are more women like how you describe. Women are expected to be feminine and small by society's standards, so those who are bigger and more masculine have probably felt very insecure about it and aren't very confident. They're definitely not going to approach a tall big dude, since stereotypically, most tall guys go for very short, petite women.
I say that if you no longer are attracted to your current girlfriend, break up with her because it's not fair to both her and yourself. If you find a woman that you are in fact attracted to, try to be the one to approach her. You might have to show that you are in fact attracted to her (just not in a creepy way). If she works out and has a lot of gains, complement her on it. Say that you admire how dedicated she is. Try asking her out. She might be very surprised.
I don't know if asking out a woman at the gym is a good idea tho. Whenever I go to the gym, all I get are stares from other men and II have my guard up because all I wanna do is go in, work out, and go out. I've been bothered way too many times in the gym by creeps. It could just be me but also heard a lot of other women who feel the same way as me.
Then again if you see her lifting some serious weight you could always comment on how impressive it is. Just trying to
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I don’t know many women like that…. but I know they’re out there. You should breakup with your girlfriend if you aren’t physically attracted to her or sexually compatible. It’s not right to string her along because of your own sexual fantasies that she can’t match.
I am submissive and I prefer a dominant guy because well… I don’t want a submissive guy. We won’t be compatible sexually or romantically either.
That’s gross, but if that’s your preference, good luck to you. But I do know what you mean. I love it when girls are assertive too. It’s honestly so hot when she gropes you or forces you into doing stuff with her. But the only difference between me and you is that I like women feminine. Not a raging hulk.
Mostly not. That’s why women can make a living as professional dominants.
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You should break up with her if you are not attracted to her in that way.
i enjoy dating a woman who can beat me up. its a great sexual rush
A dominant girl surely will
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