Is this a gaurenteed friendzone or what?
Girl called me “home slice”?
Is this a gaurenteed friendzone or what?
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You're basically viewing women as prostitutes. Dramatic right? Think about it. You over here giving all this emotional support to problems you don't give the littlest f*ck about in hopes she'll see you as boyfriend material and want to date. No. When you present yourself as a friend, that's how many of us will preserve you as, a friend. Women aren't soda machines where you can deposit the right amount of coins in and get something in return, that's a transaction. Women who aren't in the business of selling don't view life as a transaction. We don't see all this time/money/effort you're putting in as a, "Hey, I like you and want to date you," no; we see as you say it is, a friend being a friend. If you continue down this road you're going to end up becoming an angry neck beard, a "Nice guy", or using red pill tactics on insecure girls who will say yes to anyone.
Be honest, confident, and upfront with her. If you like her, just tell her. If she doesn't like you, accept the rejection and move on. "Hey, home slice, I like you as more than a friend," say something like that one day or whatever. The worse that will happen is you having to find another girl to like if she says no.
It’s not even that I want to date her. I guess it’s how I perceive the friendzone. I feel like when girls obviously friendzone a guy it’s almost like they want to be left alone. I guess I was overthinking it. I definitely didn’t give her advice and talk to her for no reason. I care about her very much.
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You're probably overthinking it. If you feel she's in a bad mood, then leave her be until she's ready to talk. Friends don't worry about being friendzoned.
im not sure what that means at all maybe she was just joking?
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