Do guys like girls that are a little crazy?

[Anonymous]

Not batshit crazy but like a little wild and crazy.. like maybe the traits the super crazy ones have but to lesser degrees

[ObscuredBeyond]

Eccentric, I can possibly handle. But she has to be the right kind of eccentric. The one gal I like at work is almost that. But she's super shy and easily rattled. Her and I have the same social anxiety, even if I hide it a little better.

However, I know she is reluctant to talk dating. I also know that her and I have opposite views on Pfizer. She thinks they're one of the best companies ever, and I see them as basically the Antichrist. So... that's not an easy hurdle to overcome. She fears anything political, and I know to stay guarded. Because even if you want no part of that dimension, it doesn't respect such boundaries, and won't leave her or me alone forever. I'd rather be prepared, even if I dread it like she does, than be caught unaware.

It's not a promising start. But at least she isn't a criminal, doesn't make false rape or harassment claims, doesn't try to set me up, doesn't ask me to do things she knows no man would be comfortable doing, isn't trying to hide me in a closet, isn't using me for sex, isn't trying to avoid the scrutiny of the CCP in order to keep her job (only to meet someone else behind my back and get fired for getting pregnant anyway), isn't using me for a video game, isn't terminally ill, doesn't hate my guts secretly, hasn't nearly blown herself up by smoking near a gas pump like a total brainlet, isn't two UFOs shy of a History Channel special, and doesn't live in the Philippines.

So... progress? She's been given crap in the past over her autism, but I'd still trust her over the other types of women I just mentioned.

I should probably get therapy before attempting to date again.

[Equi2ube]

Well, I dunno. I seem to attract the super crazy ones.
One I brought home a few weeks ago. She seemed really nice and quiet.
By day two, she was whispering to, by day three having full on conversations with Aubrey and Michael.

The cool thing was that she would carry on both sides of the conversation. And it was a heck of a soap opera.

She left abruptly one afternoon. I drove up to see her disappearing down the street. Haven't seen her simce.

Darn, now I'll never know if Aubrey really 'like' likes her, or will they stay just friends. And what will Michael think?

I'm making a tiny bit of light about this. But I'm not kidding. She may have been crazy, but it was entertaining, interesting crazy.

[aWes0MeNeSs]

Probably depends on what kind of "crazy" we're talking about. 🤣 I know you said not batshit, but what some people think is just a little wild is batshit to others!

I'm sure it depends on the guy as well. Some might find it exciting, and some might not like it at all and want someone more laid back.

The problem that I've noticed is that girls who pride themselves on being "crazy" tend to be more on the batshit side, and also full of drama, and I can't imagine many people would want to get involved in a shitshow like that.

[Poppykate]

https://www.youtube.com/embed/2Eu4zwRcMM0

A little. But only in the bedroom.

[FilmGuy93]

That can be charming and fun… Best had in moderation, like anything else.

[coolbreeze]

Nah nobody like drama and stress in a relationship..

[HerKittysMeant2B8]

Yes yes yes we fucking love a little bit of crazy but it's got to be the right crazy! And we don't like I don't really clingy shit either don't be fucking clingy all over and an obsessive way it's okay if it's in like a I love you way but yeah don't overdo it don't be obsessed!

No lie no lie I checked in that to me not even not even 6 months ago and I quite literally could not get away from that bitch fast enough...

How does a text message saying yeah you know I'm horny I want to find somebody who's just as crazy as me turn into.

Are following me around the house thinking that I'm talking to other people talking about her thinking that I'm in on some big conspiracy about other stuff please put down the fucking meth pipe you are overdoing it bitch!

[Anonymous]

Not really. It just seems that way. Guys like girls that are HOT. Hot girls can get away with more than less hot girls. So hot girls can tend to be a bit crazy and that does nothing to dampen down how much guys want them. All the hot, crazy girls out there have dudes lining up around the block for them. Then people (okay, it's probably more accurate to say "morons") look at that situation and come to the conclusion that guys like girls that are crazy.

And just so you don't think I'm picking on the girls here, the guys are just as moronic. Girls like confident, strong guys who aren't total pussies. Turns out some of those guys are complete assholes. But they still have plenty of girls--many hot--lining up to bend over for them. Then people (again, "morons") look at that situation and come to the conclusion that girls like guys who are assholes.

See how that works? Tell your friends. Please!

[Opinion Owner]

I see at least one moron came buy to register a disagreement!

[ShadezMcgee]

Every woman who is wife material has a bit of crazy in her. In accordance with the Hot Crazy Matrix. I will refer you to the video below and our boy here will explain it in detail.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/7jHTGNPOYGQ

[Nerdz2003]

This has to be a joke XD

[t-8900]

ngl in a sexual sense? yes absofuckinglutely. But for a relationship? hells to the naw. its really hard for crazies to balance relationships. And soon as the nagging starts run for the damn hills because they're going to turn batshit.

[Asker]

What are some early signs of a relationship crazy girl?

[t-8900]

probably asking where I am at 24/7. Like if I was chilling with a friend but she's all freaking out like I'm with a girl. Or talking about cutting or something like that. Or how I belong to her with some undertones of violence. And anything abusive weather verbal or physical.

[Asker]

Ok got it

[Anonymous]

Erasmo of Roterdã said that this is the primal reason why men love women. Men's world is very rational, we have reason and explanations for everything as we are beings designed to build and fix things.

SO... when we find a woman who's a little bit "crazy" by the normal standards of course, it bugs our system, it gives color to our gray world. Speaking for myself, I adore girls like that because I'm very responsible, they serve as a kind of balance to my boring traditional lifestyle.

Now, if you say crazy when you mean to say a woman who drinks a bunch every night on a club who have borderline and PTSD tendencies, heck no!

[Moose304]

I like gals that are unpredictable. Last night I was all set for a night at a nice place to eat and go walking along the beach. That's what I thought she said when she called me from Atlanta that morning. NOPE! When she got to my home she had jeans on and wanted to have a burger night and watch a movie! So I fired up my grill and we had burgers. I had a guest at my home, so burgers worked out well. (she knew about him before coming)

[jshm2]

No. Never date crazy, boys and girls - it's just not worth it.

But I think you mean "free spirited" rather than "crazy" as the latter means they have a mental issue.

[Asker]

Yes.

[I_Am_Sazerac]

Honestly it depends on the guy and what his preferences are.

Personally, I love wit and a sense of humor as well as occasional dark humor. But as far as crazy goes... I've been down that road before. There is no such thing as "crazy" as all crazy is "batshit" crazy and it never ends well. Girls have problems just like us and if she doesn't have baggage of some sort, then that's not normal in my opinion; everyone has baggage of sorts.

[Diodoro]

All women are crazy, just a question of how much. And yes lol

[Aethereal]

Define crazy.

Crazy in terms of live-in-the-moment, spontaneous, party animal? No, not for me.

Crazy in terms of clingyness, jealousy, obsessiveness? Yes, a little of that is awesome.

[supersplif]

Yeah for sure. It would give me something to tease back with and be silly... like let my guard down and feel connected. But I guess you would have to give examples of what you consider mildly wild

[Leonharted]

Only if they can contain the craziness to behind the bedroom doors. It's not fun having a waffle iron thrown at you.

[VikingWarLord]

I've noticed the b! tches with the most problems typically dye their hair bright pink and seem to love hot bad boys like me. They're typically very insecure too and they let me get away with more in the sack for sure.

[Dear_Panda]

I just don't like, I love girls who are little crazy. Not mentally unstable kind of crazy but a little wild, a little naughty, a little nasty yes

[Seangreen]

All of you are crazy it doesn't matter batshit or not you're all nuts

[Dragonpurple]

If you mean fun crazy, yeah I do like girls that way. It can wear off on myself so we can have a bit of fun together.

[MannMitAntworten]

No. Fun, yes. Crazy, no. However in dating women crazy is unavoidable. It is just a matter of how crazy they may be … but definitely not. Fun on the other hand is a preference.

[JCrockett]

There are two things all men learn about crazy women: They're great in bed. And it's not worth it.