A "weird" girl might be someone who defies traditions and cultural norms, and is more likely to be uninhibited sexually, so she might be fun in bed. But that doesn't make her a satisfying partner for a relationship.
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Depends on the kind of weird. What kind of weird are we talking about, like into weird hobbies, quirky, or insane and going to stand outsider your window at night?
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It probably depends on how weird, lol. Also, whether or not what makes her different from others compliments or clashes with his personality. Some people really don't like those who stray from the norms and are definitely concerned about trends and what is considered "normal" and/or "popular" to like, etc. Others like the complete opposite.
At the end of the day, you just have to find the right match for you. People vary so greatly from person to person that it's impossible to say whether a group of them will like one thing or another.Depends. But if she is an independent thinker I deeply respect her. I find that many women tend to be more susceptible to social contagion because they want to “fit in” and have more friends. This has become sadly and insanely true when it comes to politics.
I dated a “weird” girl who was very strong independent thinker a few years ago. I was deeply impressed and amazed how how we could hold a deep conversation and her ability to think rationally/cogently. I loved her to death for that. On a emotional level I finally found my female counterpart.
She was a moderate liberal (at the time) and I was a moderate conservative. We had some excellent deep conversations. She brought up points I didn’t think about and vice versa. I changed some of her views on abortion and she changed mine on gay marriage.
But she was also very introverted and didn’t have many friends. She didn’t like being that way. She got involved with improv and then made tons of new friends who were far, far leftist. They definitely influenced her and not for the better. I won’t go into the details but she later treated me like I was lower than pond scum. Not to say I wasn’t at fault for a few things (I definitely was) but the fact she justified saying some insidiously nasty things to me after we broke was definitely influenced by her new circle radical feminist friends. She drank the kool aide.
So the point I’m trying to make is that if she’s “weird” how long will she stay content with that?In a sense, the vast majority of women today are "weird". They are weird because they believe that only their opinions and preferences matter and men's opinions don't matter. These women have green hair and hairy arm pits or dress like men and get aggressive towards random men, for example. Traditional type men aren't interested in these females. When the 'girls' are young they don't see any harm in being this way because lots of desperate young guys accept the idea that a man's opinion doesn't matter. He's like the wild pig that will eat anything put in front of it. As she gets older she discovers it's harder and harder to find a quality guy or keep one & she wonders why. The reason is that she is an expert at satisfying her own needs and being what she wants but not at being what a man wants and the men with the most to offer are the ones most likely to know this and pass.
They definitely do. The guy that I’m with told me that he likes my real self and I am nothing like anything or anyone that you’ve seen on TV especially who he is previously dated before. I’m Caribbean-American and I don’t really like many holidays, I listen to a lot of K-pop which is not normal for a black girl I guess, I don’t do drugs, I read a lot of books, I have a Twitter account for K-pop and John Cena follows me, I don’t talk like everyone else as soon as my race would talk, I don’t like parties, i’m more of a modest dresser etc. He also thinks that I’m a little bit crazy because I get really nervous when I’m around him and say sometimes have no filter but he says that he likes my authentic self so it works in our favor. This just shows you that guys like different things and if you bring something to the table that’s different than what he’s been with, then at the very least he will be interested in that and finding out more about you.
I think guys like unique girls who don't lack social awareness. It is attractive when a girl stands out from everyone else, not because she's trying to be different but because she genuinely is different and does not worry how others perceive her even though she's well aware of how they will perceive her. It's not like a "fuck everyone else" mentality. It's more like a "I love to express myself" mentality.
Depends on how weird, likes ducks to an unhealthy degree? Might be awkward, likes cosplay and sex in church? Also awkward but potentially fun. Genuinely believes she's a witch and tries to hex people.. uhhh might have to dodge that. What's weird as shit to one person is normal or entertaining to another but the typical "norm" for what's weird I find pretty tame for the most part. so yeah I guess
Let me speak as an actual weird girl. No. If the do they are too scared to talk to me or something. There's a difference between "weird 💖" and "weird 😐".
Ugly women= weird
Hot/pretty women= "quirky"
All depends on if the guy likes u.When I voted guys, I meant me. BEFORE everyone around me suddenly became Super Weird, weird was my thing. It was what defined me as "ME."
Now, I'm the normal guy in the group, and I don't like it. Not one bit!Well you have three different types of weird you have good weird you have bad weird and you have weird weird. If she is a happy weird that's all I would care about LOL
Not If she classify as weird to me, that said I am sure I accept girls other think is weird. Since there is so many ways to be weird, some are fine others are not.
You really think you're something special, don't you? Dear lord...
A special entitled little snowflake. pfft.Weird is okay...
But problem is 90% of the time they are weird.. Because they have mental illness or mental problem or are psycho...
If she is just weird.. It's cute and acceptable...I like abnormal girls. Weird would depend. Like I am not into Lady Gaga weird where she wore an entire outfit made of meat.
There is weird and there is quirky. Weird women tend to give me the willies. Quirky women are interesting but some can go to far and just become bizarre. So mildly quirky is the sweet spot in my opinion.
I'm a female and I like weird girls. We can just be weird together.
I like weird as in quirky, defy gender norms, feminist type.
Yes I do. But it depends on the weird. Having snakes weird, sure. Having coffins with bodies in their living room, no.
Guys like any girl as long as she’s pretty. Trust me
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