Why am I always scared about any kind of relationship?

[killasbunny]

I don't know why but whenever i know some is liking me i would be hella scared and uncomfotable. We use to be so close and all but I YES I AM THE ONE WHO BREAK THE FRIEANDSHIP but i regret it! ( TДT) i just can't feel the same when i know he or any guys that have feelings for me make me really uncomfotable. Anyone know why?

And by the way don't answer that i'm lesbian please i still like guys i even droll when see abs okey!

[Chahl]

Does it have anything to do with that very young looking child in your profile pic and your also very young age? Both of those together would be good reasons why you're uncomfortable with anything like that.
If I'm correct and that's not like your little brother than I'm guessing it stems from how much of a different place you are in than the boys who are your peers. Maybe it's like subconscious too and you push them away before they have a chance to do that to you if things ever got more serious. If I'm typing out my ass just ignore it. Good luck and God bless. 👍

[killasbunny]

Lol almost but it's my nephew who live with me since he is born he just like my son.

maybe it's true that i'm at bit defensive with guys but I don't know why though?

[Anonymous]

I think it's okay and normal to feel that way, that's mean deep down who are looking for intimacy. The dating system is a big issue, like you can't expect to be close to someone just within a week for example

[Opinion Owner]

*you are

[HazyDaze63]

You mentioned never being in a relationship before. It could simply be a fear of the unknown. With all of the movies and shows about relationships, they could be giving you a wrong impression of what romance should be. You may be afraid of a false reality. The only way to find out is to fight your fears and find out.

[killasbunny]

Well i try but, it's harder than i though. I just can't keep wondering why i like this :v

[Anonymous]

Maybe it's in your culture. I mean in mine women are consider 7/10 equal to guys. In some cultures women's value is just above a family pets value and I'd she backpacks she gets beheaded.
Where do rank in your culture? This might help answer your question.

[Opinion Owner]

If she backtalks not backpacks.

[Subarugirl]

You’re frighted of commitment and vulnerability, at least that’s what it sounds like.

[killasbunny]

I also think that I do but, I have never date or anything so why I have frighted of commitment?

[Subarugirl]

Excuse of trust issues

[slatyb]

Could it be insecurity? The idea that if someone really knew you, they wouldn't like you? To avoid being rejected by others, you reject them first.

[killasbunny]

Insecurity? If it's about face and looks I do but relationship? I don't know

[somesoul]

Is your mom or dad abusive?

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[killasbunny]

I don't know if I can said that they are abusive but I just feel like they have hars way to teach their children?

[Citizenkirk]

Sometimes relationships lead to babies, and that's a big step for anyone to consider. the other option is possible indigestion.

[killasbunny]

Almost all my friends already married and have babies, it's not a surprise for me

[Aerissa_Jade]

Probably your a little too shy, too worried about putting yourself out there and it is safer to break it. Something scares you so you cannot continue.

[hsshannah96]

Probably because they suck. My best advice I can give any woman is NOT TO DATE.

[killasbunny]

In my religion dating is a great sin lol so if you like someone just come to her house and proposed lol

[SweetDumplings]

I'm 28 and this 18 year old guy was so infatuated with me that I had to cut him off completely

[killasbunny]

Aww why? It's just my opinion but maybe he is just feels really comfortable with you and maybe... he see someone from you?

[SweetDumplings]

I do feel bad but I had to do it because he wanted to get me pregnant and I didn't want that, not with someone I don't love

[killasbunny]

Ohhhh just kick him on the balls if he keep being persistent lmao

[OddBeMe]

Lack of self confidence. Need to find the source. Parent issues, childhood betrayal…

I like that I had to google translate TДT….

[killasbunny]

Lol you can just said it in your language I don't mind translate :)

[killasbunny]

I don't know where the source but if it is I don't remember anything from my childhood tht can trigger this

[OddBeMe]

Could be repressed. I dont believe in the repressed memory BS therapy, but just a general psychologist could help bare some things out. Most of our ailments are related to something in our past.

This issue screams of something in your past that scared you of strangers, made you question a loved ones trust, etc.

[FamilyGuy2020]

Why should you be scared about anything, you're a beautiful girl? If anything the guy should be scared of You taking advantage of him Lol 🍆🍒😉😉😚🤗

[EaterPeter]

Life changing events. Shape of you, not physical shape. The way the past events has shaped you.

[killasbunny]

True maybe something from the past, but. I don't know i have fague memory about my memory ╮(╯▽╰)╭

[EaterPeter]

What are these symbols?

[EaterPeter]

Are they what I think they are?

[killasbunny]

Like I just know a piece of memory but when I recall it I don't get anything just feeling sad

[killasbunny]

What do you think?

[EaterPeter]

Was it a good memory or bad?

[killasbunny]

I think it's bad cuz I don't know the full picture I just know that my parents is a bit hars on hiw they teach their children

[EaterPeter]

Oh, so the answer is the ideal relationship in front of you is not so good that's what may make you scared of any kind of relationship

[EaterPeter]

No matter how brave we act our brain is still getting effected

[emperor90]

Maybe u are nervous cause u have never been in a relationship or maybe u are dealing with stuff

[DevinAM]

Still have feelings for the last person or afraid that a new one will end are possibilities.

Women can have abs too.

[Honesttguy]

Cus your still young.

[Honesttguy]

Still a baby

[cryscrys1]

Exactly she was born 17 years ago lol

[killasbunny]

Nah, even if i'm a baby this baby already independen live alone and pay for my owen things after my family divorce like 3 years

[boggboss]

Commitment issues I imagine

[killasbunny]

Never date before how could i get that kind of issue?

[boggboss]

Fear is not based on what u have done I'm not sure why u feel this way

[killasbunny]

Oh well thanks anyway, at last know what to do about this (｡･ω･｡) ﾉ♡

[Leonharted]

Could be a fear of commitment or a fear of change.

[melisaaa]

Maybe it could be about with trust issue

[killasbunny]

If it's trust issues I do have it but it's only applied to grown ups people

[PeterSmith1983]

Just become friends again

[killasbunny]

Lol I want to but it's harder that you think, when I try it I feel really anxious and that's really uncomfortable

[PeterSmith1983]

It will become better over time

[DanielBlack1904120]

Cause theyre deadly as fuck... Your smart

[Cowboy6666]

Trust issue , same as me.

[Oh-canada]

You will get more comfortable give it time.