If women in general want a relationship why don't they ever really commit to a guy?

[Anonymous]

Let me explain. A woman sees a guy she likes, is interested in. She sends him subtle (sometimes too subtle of) signs that she wants him to approach her. Generally if these signs go unanswered she decides "well he's just not very interested or is gay or something because look at me what guy wouldn't bite on this bait". Even worse some women get an attitude and decide if the guy approaches later they're no longer interested ( how silly is that). All because most likely the guy didn't even know she was signaling him.
I ask this because I get that you women want to know a guy has genuine interest. And good motives before you commit to a guy. But don't you realize guys with good motives think the same way? We're not just looking for a warm female body. We want to know you have genuine interest in us to. And that you're not just looking for another boy toy.

[boobliker]

females are odd to understand I am 67 and even now when I ask for some help in a shop they think I am chatting them up, I have said in the past I not chatting you up but can you get me two pots of aspirins It just seems to much for them to understand I need them to stop me having a heart attach.

[jahaims]

Because they are always looking for an upgrade and won't be honest with theirselves about it.

[Asker]

Some are. But not all women lol. It's the ones that aren't that way that I was asking.

[boobliker]

here here! lol

[Anonymous]

To answer your main question, she could possibly have a boyfriend/someone else she is seeing and is exploring her options.

[Asker]

And I'm going to take a guess and assume you don't even see what's wrong with that.

[Opinion Owner]

This has absolutely nothing to do with me. I am simply answering your question.

[Asker]

Do you understand what's wrong with that?

[JohnK123]

Exploring options

[Anonymous]

Honestly some of us are just scared of getting their feelings hurt/ruining things no matter how old we are #me :(

[Asker]

That's exactly what I'm saying. Women are supposed to give guys signs that they're open to being approached. So many women do this just for the fun of it. So the guy approaches her, she rejects him, and so he's less likely to do it again.
What I'm saying is most guys don't approach women not because he's not interested but because she doesn't show ENOUGH interest in him.

[Opinion Owner]

That’s a really good point. How can we effectively give signs of wanting to be approached/interest without scaring guys off?

[Asker]

I would think if you scared the guy off it's because he had no interest whatsoever. I mean I've had women come on to me sexually it didn't scare me off. But I'm old fashioned and I respect women who respect themselves. So it turned me off it didn't scare me.
I guess what I'm saying is just be genuine. The right go will stick around. At least that's the way I see it.

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you!

[Asker]

I'm not guaranteeing it'll be easy. You might have to deal with a lot of frogs before you find that prince.

[Opinion Owner]

I believe that for sure

[Subarugirl]

For a man I find it interesting that you think you know how women think so well..

[Asker]

I know that frightens you but I can assure you I mean you no harm.

[Subarugirl]

Hon that’s called sarcasm… 😂

[Asker]

Mine wasn't.

[Subarugirl]

lol oh I know, that would be called delusional

[Asker]

It's alright this post wasn't for you anyhow. It for women. 🙂

[es20490446e]

if the attitude is random, it means it's not your problem.

[bamesjond0069]

Step 1 be a man with high access to women
Step 2 be picky and selective

You cannot be picky and selective if you have low access to women.

[Anonymous]

I don't think they even consider the guy's POV. They're too busy looking out for themselves.

[Juxtapose]

That would require some maturity and self-awareness.

[hsshannah96]

I will. But guys never commit to me.