Why is she so repulsed by me now?

[Anonymous]

Okay very long story. Well this girl at the gym tried a bit too hard to hit on me by doing a lot of stretches in front of me (for at least 5 -10 mins) and then making it look like an accident when she came in my way at the exact time i got off my bench to adjust it, and we exchanged a smile when i said sorry and all she did was show how happy she got by just smiling at me and not saying anything. i didn't talk to her was not sure if she was really interested and then her friend told me later that she was into me and trying to hit on me. Then few days after ( like more than 2 weeks approximately) she was doing a workout a little distance from me but seemed stressed out and mad about something. So I thought she didn't want to talk to anyone and And since i'm so into this girl it made me all the more shy and backward when i saw that she is not in the mood to socialize (which is 90% of the time is see her in the gym) so I just ignored her to give her space as I care about her and didn't want to upset her any further. I did notice a bit though that she was looking at me like she was upset with me a bit for ignoring her and I didn’t think it be a big deal for her as we were barely acquainted the last time we met during the bench incident. But then a few minutes later she started avoiding me (looking away whenever we made eye contact). She's been doing this ever since. Showing quite a repulsed personality towards me and even if I try saying hi to her when we walk passed each other she reluctantly nods turns her head away and makes a sour face. Why is she so repulsed or upset or hates me so much?

[Anonymous]

Be happy she's acting this way and that you missed her "signs". Because women who do this are usually bad news. They are typically manipulative in nature.
She was either interested and now she's not. That would mean she's fickle. Or she's got you right where she wants you and she's testing you.
My advice is stop what you're doing and just stop looking at her or interacting with her. Then you'll see. If she wants your attention she's going to react. If she doesn't it just means she's fickle. And you're better off without her. You're better off without her in either case. Non toxic people don't act like her.
Good luck man.

[Asker]

Thanks man. Kind of figured that. As I have experienced the same with other girls before and when I did what you told me to do as I wanted to avoid the stress and wasting my time these girls started doing the opposite and clinging on and became more friendly..

[Anonymous]

This sounds like something that would happen to me. Women are difficult to understand. We’re supposed to read all their queues, body language and just supposed to know what they want. I don’t think I can really give you solid advice, but she sounds high maintenance.

[jaybee281]

Because she feels like you rejected her - If I was you I'd now hit on her regardless of her reaction - You were already losing when she showed interest and you didn't act - So do whatever now and see what happens

[Leonharted]

Sounds to me like she tried to invite you to hit on her, and you rejected her. Rejection hurts. You don't owe her anything, but people, especially women, can take rejection hard and be bitter about it.

[Mistanacerroni]

i dunno but at least not every girl is repulsed by you like me, even 600 bucks wouldn't get a prostitute motivated enuff to do me, necrophilia is my only option

[Juxtapose]

You didn't read her mind and did exactly what she wanted so now you are branded as some awful monster for all eternity.

[Asker]

Did or didn’t do exactly what she wanted? Because if I did, doesn’t makes sense why she’d be so upset.

[Juxtapose]

Did not