Should I be concerned?

[Anonymous]

So I just met a girl a while ago and I sent her a friend request and she left me on pending, but she is online she talks in a group is she trying to avoid me? Also I heard from someone she likes girls too 👉👈

[ChrisMaster69]

Hard to say really, Christmas time and New Year is busy for a lot of people.

she may have a bunch of friend requests to look through.

patience or if you can message her

is the girl thing a positive or negative

[Asker]

What do you mean by that?

[ChrisMaster69]

Which bit

[Asker]

Is the girl thing s positive or negative

[ChrisMaster69]

Yeah, that fact that she likes girls.
Is that good?

[Asker]

Yes it is good

[ChrisMaster69]

@ Asker, I would see if you can follow up with her then, however watch out you don’t fall into pestering lol

[Asker]

Yeah good point but I think it's because we just met or she dosen't use Facebook often

[ChrisMaster69]

Yeah social media is a bitch, even on here someone follows you, then you don’t follow back straight away, and it’s then ‘why have you not followed me’ ….. etc

[ChrisMaster69]

@ Pretty Pink Anon, thank you for MHG, most appreciated

[Asker]

She did reply but she didn't accept my friend request is that a red flag?

[ChrisMaster69]

What she say, was it friendly chat?

Not accepting really depends on how she replied.

[Asker]

Oh I sad hi how are you and she replied I'm good and you so I suppose it's friendly

[ChrisMaster69]

Yeah , she may just be cautious on who she adds,

Not everyone is fully accepting of everyone straight off.

I would stick with the conversation, then at some point, casually mention, do you accept friend requests? As I sent you one.

[Wise4myage]

If she never replies, than assume she isn't interested in being friends.

[Asker]

She hasn't responded for two days I had sent her the request on the 31st of December

[Wise4myage]

That is recent, so give her more time.

[bean2k21]

maybe she found Jesus

[boobliker]

may be she don't know who you are?

[Asker]

Well we are in the same class she talks to me

[Anonymous]

I can't see anything to be concerned about here.

[In_Trance]

what is there to be concerned about?