I stopped talking to this girl that liked me but now I like her. what do I do?

[Anonymous]

This girl and I had been talking for a long while we started getting feelings for each other. When I started getting feelings for her I kept thinking about my ex. Me and my ex had a long relationship and I missed her. THis girl was really special and we had everything in common but I kept thinking about my ex and grieving over my ex. so I stopped talking to her less and less and now we don't talk. A couple months later I realized I made a huge mistake. but I Haven't talked her and I'm nervous what would happen. We didn't fight or anything. we just didn't talk. I knew she liked me from her friend. I want to talk to her but I don't know what to do. I really miss her. what do I do. sorry if I don't explain things well. I am trying my best to explain. what do I do?

[bmwthegirl]

GO back and talk to her and show that you are interested in finding out what has happened to her ever since you guys haven't talk. you don't need to exolain yourself.

if she insists on knowing what happened just tell her that you needed some time to make sure if you were over you ex and that you didn't want to hurt her feelings if you still did have feelings for you ex. she will understand.

[Asker]

thanks for the advice. I'm just really nervous il get shot down

[bmwthegirl]

I always think being honest is the best solution ever. don't be nervous. if she had feelings for you her heart will melt once you let her know that you are serious with her and don't like hurting her feelings. any girl would be delighted even if she was upset with you. :) Good luck dear :)

[Asker]

thanks again

[bmwthegirl]

ur welcome. I really want to know what the result was. :) please let me know :) thanks

[Anonymous]

Don't even mention your ex. Now that you are developing new feelings for this new girl in your life..just make the best of it and call her up for some drinks, or just hang out. Have fun and stop bringing the past back. You're done grieving over your ex..right? Then start chasing the girl that made you forget those, "ex-girlfriend" feelings you had :)

[apadgett86]

Grow some ballls and talk to her

[Phoenix52]

Just friggin talk to her. God.