The culture changed, women and girls got sick of being cheated on and played so I think infidelity and flings are far more common now then 30-40 years ago. I’m doing my masters, I cook, I clean, I have my own apartment and car, I work, good job lined up, decent looking, in shape, etc.
girls have personally told me I’m handsome, sweet, down to earth and etc. so what’s the issue? No guy is perfect so why don’t I even make the cut if a girl says “sure I’ll go out on a date”. I’ve just lost hope. I figured why bother keeping these values or morals of being a proper dude if girls are just going to mess around anyways. Loyalty, chivalry, honesty is all dead in my opinion.