Do girls still believe in a committed relationship or they are mostly being experimental because they lost trust in guys?

[Anonymous]

I never dated, now if I tell someone I like them and I want to be in a relationship they say that "you are a nice guy and you will find someone better than me". Are they afraid of admitting their feelings? Or They just find it hard to believe when they came across a decent and loyal guy. I'm actively looking for a relationship these days. I feel now I wanna get in a relationship but I don't wanna get hurt or cheated. I used to think girls are far mature than boys but in my experience, I feel they have lost their trust in almost every guy. I don't know if this makes sense? Any opinions?

[Siren777]

Yes; there are still some that want commitment & everything you want. Some that don't. Get to know girls and find out what they want. As they will tell you if they're ready for that. The others that are not ready for relationships, play games and are afraid stay away from. So you don't end up wasting your time.
I get that people hurt, hurt people hurt people but that doesn't mean you get to be the person who they use and dump all emotional baggage. It's not right nor is it fair to you. So until someone is ready for that (a relationship), and they're sure then sure go ahead. The mistake people make is rushing into something before being ready and ending up being heavily disappointed.

[Asker]

I don't know I tried but I used to be one of the guy girls who used to have crushes in school and now when I want to be in a relationship everyone is pushing me away with their assumptions. How do nice guys like can help girls to avoid being judgmental and stop applying the same impressions to every guy they meet?

[Siren777]

How? You no longer care what people think and say what you want. If the girl doesn't like you, you move on to someone else. Work on your confidence and appearance.

[Asker]

How do I text you here? It says I'm not allowed? Its not like how you sees it's not the entire picture, they like me but they are afraid of getting hurt and they make excuses but they go on like my pics and post cute comments.

[Siren777]

Il text you now🙋🏻‍♀️

[TsundereMatrix]

I’m pretty much like you. Never dated and wants a committed relationship. So I definitely believe in that but unfortunately for me many guys don’t. A lot of guys who seem to like me just want a casual hook up.


I’m the type of person who thinks hook ups are a waste of time and pointless. It’s just not really who I am.

[Sincerly_KittyCat]

I believe in committed relationships I think that's the point of having a partner (girlfriend/boyfriend, fiance, husband/wife). If you're there to have fun and nothing serious tell people from jump all that you don't waste their time. Find someone with a common end goal.

[lilalovegood]

today’s generation is more about casual sex that may or may not lead to a relationship. girls are often skeptics in general bc they don’t know how genuine the guy is being. guys have pretended to genuinely like a girl just to sleep with her. so yes, it’s slightly a trust issue in addition to today’s idea of “dating”

[katiesmuff]

First thing you need to understand is that a relationship doesn't just start like that. It develops after just dating for some time, learning about each other and so forth.

[kaylaS91]

Many girls still believe in committed relationships- the main difference is that women can now choose to keep it casual. The majority, in my experience, still prefer something long term.

[Anonymous]

I go from guy to guy to guy but mostly because of my travel schedule, not issues with them. I seem to be happier than my friends who are in relationships and always having what seem like dumb problems.

[SpiderManFan2002]

I still believe in a committed relationship, I don’t have time to “experiment.”

[Gwenhwyfar]

I agree. Did that years ago wasn’t worth it. Proud of you girl.

[Aimée__LJ]

Usually that's just a nice way of letting someone down when they aren't attracted to you in any way.

[Aquariusmystery]

I only believe in committed monogamous relationships. I date to get married, have kids and start a life together. I don’t need to experiment.

[Jeannettesimon]

I think nowadays girls don't really stay committed in a relationship, because of the nature of men 😒

[TheNubian]

Relationships are scary af nowadays cos it's always a heartbreak hotel. Most people dont know what it means to be in a committed Relationship anymore.
I'm yet to meet the one that'll drown out my fears.