Funny you ask. Just today I was thinking to myself if I should have compassion for these girls that maybe they wanted to get to know me, maybe not. Who knows with you passive wallflowers? I got this girl's phone number. And I never really did much with it. I texted her a few times. I coincidentally ran into her again where I met her and I sat down with her and her friends and made some chit chat.
I asked her out on a date, and she declined, as I intended. I asked her, "You weren't waiting for me to call were you?", and she said, "I never wait for anyone to call.", which seems like a healthy attitude to have. I kinda have to smirk to myself though, because it's not exactly accurate. The female strategy is to never be straightforward and pursue, so in reality, ALL SHE CAN DO is wait for someone to call. I hoped she wasn't waiting for my call, but whatever. Why should I care?
It's not like women have ever shown any compassion for me. Jesus Christ! I can't even think of a single time a woman has shown any compassion or empathy for me. So no. I'm not gonna give two shits about "playing you" or "using you" from here on out.
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"Do guys ever feel bad for using/playing/betraying a girl?"
I've never used, played or betrayed a girl to my knowledge so I can't really say anything from my experience. As for all these, some guys will and others won't.
"He said I'm the type of girl he would change for"
People don't change for others, they change for themselves. Women get in relationships hoping for the best while changing their partner but it never happens.
"He would want a relationship but isn't ready to get married"
He never saw a long term relationship with you from the beginning, why put yourself through all of that?
I have been going through this too! I'm beautiful athletic and sexy smart! I dont understand it at all! It hurts so bad! I've dated many different guys and they all end up hurting me! I'm so done! But it still hurts and makes me feel insecure 😞
Tbh I don't think one guy in the world would ever feel bad if there is I sure have not met this guy! They may say that they feel bad but trust me they don't!
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No, i never feel bad about it. You know why? Because i never do it in the first place.
Don't listen to guys who say they will change for you. How can you be so dense? I find it hard to sympathise with you because you allowed yourself to be blinded by his charm.
Every girl complains nonstop about "ohhhh no guys treat me right. There is no chance for me". But you don't realize that you are likiting your options by about 80% when you only date men that are 'in your league'. If you expanded your horizens, it wouldn't be so "unfair".As for this guy, from what you posted; it sounds like it's a "game" to him. As in to get what he wants. True he did all these things for you until you questioned him (I think it was when he was about to kiss you). Guys like that use it to "keep score" and see how "manly" they can be. Some guys feel bad from this. Some don't. Other guys don't do this at all. There are guys that also don't want to hurt another person (let alone a gal because they're still figuring out who they are).
When you use the term "liked me", do you mean that they haven't found you attractive, flirted with you, hit on you? What do you mean?There's a difference between using/playing and betraying. Don't confuse those terms.
I never betrayed anyone.
But yes, I did used some girls for different purposes (mainly to satisfy sexual needs). No, I don't feel sorry about it, because those girls didn't really respected themselves to begin with, that's why I picked them as a temporary solution.Well if he was honest like me he would not get anywhere with you.
"Do guys ever feel bad for using/playing/betraying a girl?"
They use and play me! They should feel bad! ;(Well unless you are a complete idiot of course you would feel bad but guys take about 35 years to grow up usually and then all makes sense!
Do I feel bad for using/playing/betraying a girl? No, because I don't do that to a girl. Would I if I did? Yes. Absolutely.
Eventually they do but they just try to keep it moving and not think about. Ik. I used to be that way.
I play tricks on them but tell them straight away i was playing around
I've never dated but I would never do such thing to a girl who loved me
I don't do it, but Women do it to me. How ironic. :/.
Not entirely. Women do this shit to me all the time.
These are the guys who get the ladies, I wish I could do this too.
Umm who does that?
I wonder the same
no because other girls would find it unattractive
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