I had this female friend That I really liked after I told her i like her
She surprised me by saying she is non monogamous, doesn’t want a relationship and doesn’t want to commit to anyone
I got annoyed by hearing that but Since that is not what I wanted I tried to stay friends
We met later many time and I believe she was trying to play games giving hints and talking about how she like to have sex regularly (I don’t want if these were hints or she was just screwing with me )
One day I decided to stop this nonsense and tried to kiss her , she stopped me and acted normally then started talking about her intentions to go to a swinger party which shocked me
She travelled abroad and came back after a month (no contact between us )
When she came back some unplanned events lead me to be with her in a club alone and I tried to dance closely with her until she stopped me again
We talked a lot and she said it will not work as she will definitely hurt me and I will have expectations , honestly at this stage , I still like her but not as before , I just think she is really fun
She now refers to me as her closest friend and every time we talk we mention sex
I never met a girl trying to make a guy lose interest by sharing how wild her sex life is , as a mater of fact she made me forget about a relation prospective and only thing about sleeping with her
I never had a friend like this , does anyone know what exactly is she trying to say?
She surprised me by saying she is non monogamous, doesn’t want a relationship and doesn’t want to commit to anyone
I got annoyed by hearing that but Since that is not what I wanted I tried to stay friends
We met later many time and I believe she was trying to play games giving hints and talking about how she like to have sex regularly (I don’t want if these were hints or she was just screwing with me )
One day I decided to stop this nonsense and tried to kiss her , she stopped me and acted normally then started talking about her intentions to go to a swinger party which shocked me
She travelled abroad and came back after a month (no contact between us )
When she came back some unplanned events lead me to be with her in a club alone and I tried to dance closely with her until she stopped me again
We talked a lot and she said it will not work as she will definitely hurt me and I will have expectations , honestly at this stage , I still like her but not as before , I just think she is really fun
She now refers to me as her closest friend and every time we talk we mention sex
I never met a girl trying to make a guy lose interest by sharing how wild her sex life is , as a mater of fact she made me forget about a relation prospective and only thing about sleeping with her
I never had a friend like this , does anyone know what exactly is she trying to say?
