You had sex with a guy 7 years older than you and on the first date lolololololololololololololololollolololololololololololololololollolololololololololololololololollolololololololololololololololollolololololololololololololololollolololololololololololololololollolololololololololololololololollolololololololololololololololollolololololololololololololololollolololololololololololololololollolololololololololololololololollolololololololololololololololollolololololololololololololololollolololololololololololololololollolololololololololololololololollolololololololololololololololollolololololololololololololololollolololololololololololololololollolololololololololololololololollolololololololololololololololollolololololololololololololololollolololololololololololololololollolololololololololololololololollolololololololololololololololol
Don't expect this to go far.
At 26 years old if you're going for 19 yr olds it's either cause
A) You're just looking for sex and you know younger girls are usually easier ( a lot of girls have a thing for older guys)
B) You're probably not really going anywhere in life so you can't get a girl your own age/maturity level so you're going for a younger girl who's too inexperienced in life to truly see how much of a loser you are. Getting her from young.
You seemed like a skip-the-dinner-and-take-her-straight-to-the-bedroom-for-a-one-night-stand typa girl to this guy.
Moral of the story: At 19 I don't think you should be dating people in their late 20s and having high hopes for how the relationship will turn out, especially people you meet online.
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you probably do not want to hear this, but yes, you were too easy. Heis 26 and he saw you as an easy mark, sorry. Guys in their later 20's have a lot figured out, and they know what to say and how to say it, and you fell into it. IF you want a relationship of just sex, then you are fine; but if you like the guy, you are going about it wrong. What girls learn, eventually, is that when they make it a little harder for the guy to get sex, guys who like you for yourself will work a little harder. Guys that give up if they don't get it right away were only in it for the sex.
What women your age do not realize is that, only about 15 years ago, women were not as easy, and go back 25 years, and many did not have sex until they really felt comfortable with the guy. You have been conditioned by society to think that it is automatic when you date. Well, then women wonder why guys don't call them or why so few commit to a long term relationship. Any young guy knows this: women are so easy these days that there is not need to commit. I am not saying women should abstain unless they want to, but why do you make it so easy?
Eh, it could go either way. Having sex on a first date is one thing, but skipping even talking a lot to each other kind of hints he only wanted sex. There are a lot of things your guys could've done. A walk in the park, saw a movie, or just went somewhere and talked. Instead he hints his place, doesn't really seem like a good sign. Hold off and wait until he texts you. And if it seems like he only really wants sex, just forget it or maybe keep him as a friend with benefits.
Sorry but it sounds like he's only looking for one thing from you...
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Um, I'm confused, you were on a date, but just went and had sex. How is that a date? Sounds like you were attracted to him, so that makes him a good person, so you fucked. I think you might consider whether you are girlfriend material right now, before you go trying to get into any relationships.
Well maybe I'm crazy.
But why not try actually talking to him being friendly and not playing a game and see if you can develop the other things alongside sex and see what happens.
I can't see how texting less is gonna turn this into more.I think you're lucky to find someone who can appreciate you for who you are.
Sorry sounds like he got what he wanted. You won't see him again, unless he wants sex.
Why are girls so quick to wanting to put a label on something. I swear, it's like "status this, status that"... you're as bad as men wanting to get it in
You will most likely just be nothing or a toy to him.
You were too easy.
No offense intended.Yes you're easy
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