I feel embarrassed that my little sister has stronger legs than me. Should I?

[Micksingh1]

Hello. So I’m a little embarrassed to talk about this but wanted to know your opinions and thoughts (whoever may reply). Recently me (21) and my sister (16) were play fighting. We were watching ufc and she said that girls and boys should fight each other too as it’s more about skill. I laughed and said no because the girl would get easily beaten. Long story short she said let’s test it out and we wrestled and she won. I feel embarrassed at this and have tried many times to beat her but she always manages to use her thighs to weak round my ribs or neck to make me tap. Is it normal for her to be like this. I go gym a lot more than she does too. Any thoughts or advice will be great. Thanks

[TonyV]

More to it than just gender, is she taller or bigger than you? Are you a tiny guy? What do you do at the gym? Maybe you're doing the wrong exercise for wrestling strength

[Micksingh1]

I’m 173cm 160lbs. She is 160cm 140-150lbs. I wouldn’t say I was tiny. She’s smaller than me. She has bigger thighs. Mine are 23 inches whereas hers a more like 25-26 inches. I squat at the gym. She goes to the gym less than I do cos she’s 16 and she limited with school etc

[TonyV]

Well she's probably active at school still so probably gets more exercise than you do.
140 150 sounds impressive for a girl that's 5'2" is she fit or is she fat?
And what about you? Do you know your body fat percentage? According to bmi you're in just barely in the optimal range but bmi is very inaccurate and outdated, and frankly 160lbs sounds pretty light for a guy to me.

[Micksingh1]

I guess she’s active at school. I’m on the leaner side. I usually bulk and cut so my percentage would be around 13 % atm. She is not fat. Compared to my thighs, hers are like tree trunks. Her upper body isn’t skinny but not bulky. I’d say just average. I’d say more 140lbs than 150. But honestly. Once she crosses her ankles then that’s it. I can’t escape no matter how hard I try

[TonyV]

Yeah I don't know what to tell you, I think your sister might just be really impressive. I'm no expert so I looked at charts again. 13% puts you at the high end of the athletic range, but then somehow putting your age and height in says tour ideal weight is somewhere between 148 to 152 or so.

Just found a new measurement method I've never seen tho, geuss you can find out if your small, medium, or big bones based on your wrist measurement.
I don't know sounds like you've got more of runners body and your sister like you said has tree trunks lol

I wouldn't sweet it, I mean 140 for a girl that's 5'2" seems kind of heavy and if she don't look fat that extra weight has got to be muscle, I'm guessing she looks like a volleyball player

[TonyV]

And locking her ankles she just playing smart, who knows if you could out stamina her and make her wear herself out before she has a chance to lock you might win, may just have to work on your strategy, avoid letting her play by her rules.

[Micksingh1]

Haha nice research. I appreciate it. But yeh. I like to run a lot. So my stamina is very good. And that’s another reason why I last quite long being trapped. I don’t give up to easily but alas can never get out.
I know I shouldn’t talk about my sis like this but one thing that I can explain for her being 140 lbs is her ass is pretty big like her thighs. So her lower body looks huge compared to her upper. If u like I can show u a pic of us both (I’d crop out our faces) so u could look for urself and maybe make some theories. Dm me (if that’s possible on this app) and I’ll show. But I understand if u don’t. Thanks for the comment bro

[TonyV]

Yeah I kind of figured she had a big ass, that's why I geuss the volleyball look, the ass (glutes) are part of the leg muscles after all.
I don't fallow ufc or even know if there's a female class even tho your both close in weight I bet she'd be like a heavy weight female fighter and you'd be (no offense just guessing lol) in the men's feather weight. men have denser bones and your skeleton is also bigger I bet just muscle vs muscle she's got more than you, yours is evenly spread out hers is all lower body.
Oh and I don't need a pic of a 16 year old, that would be kind of sus lol.

[Micksingh1]

Yep. All her muscle seems to be packed in the lower half. And as mine if all over. It makes sense but I still feel embarrassed as she is so much younger and a girl. My ego can’t take it haha

And ur right about ankles. Having stamina like mine is no use if I can’t escape. And when she crossed her ankles, that’s when the real squeeze happens. I guess I know how an anaconda coils round it’s prey. Cos the reason I tap is because lack of oxygen due to her constricting me. I wish I could do that to her but she’s too quick

[TonyV]

Yeah kind of sucks that your younger sister can beat you, but don't ruin it for her, try to be supportive and play along. Would really suck if you somehow made her feel bad about being a strong woman, somehow make her like she's less femine and that guys wouldn't like or want a strong girlfriend and she just gave up her muscles in an attempt to be excepted.
You could try throwing in some h. i. t. exercise, see if you can up your exsplosive power, see if you can train your way to victory, but in the mean time just keep biting the bullet and be the good supportive brother by loosing. As long as she having fun and not making fun of you for it who cares if your sister beats you?

[TonyV]

Sounds like she's got some great potential as long as she stays active and worksout.

[TonyV]

works out. I geuss for your actual question, you shouldn't be imbarrased, it's nothing against you, just means she got great legs, don't crush her spirit by being imbarrased, I'm sure she looks up to her big bro even if she wins the wrestling.

[Micksingh1]

You are right. I don’t want to take away her mental and physical power. The scary thing is that she’s undoubtedly gonna get stronger and those thighs are gonna be like steel if they are like this at 16. Which is scary.
I can’t help feel embarrassed. The most recent time she did it was probably the toughest it’s ever been. A little bit of a long story actually so I won’t bore u with it unless u wanna hear it haha.

I some how need to train to win at least once. Maybe tonight is my night haha. We normally wrestle once a week. I guess u could say that my HIIT workout lol

[TonyV]

Sure you can tell me if you want, I don't mind a long read lol

[Micksingh1]

Haha. Cool. Not as long as u think.

So the hold she got me in was insane. I don’t even know how to describe properly. Ill send u a pic she showed me after. It’s what she did to me. She said after she saw it on an instagram video and wanted to try while we wrestled.
I was lying on my back after being floored, and she kinda lay over me with her legs near my head and scooped my head up between her thighs. It was the strongest and most helpless I’d been and she was laughing as I went out.
She showed no remorse after cos I was quite angry. I initially told i don’t want to wrestle anymore after she did that. But now I feel I need to try again.

[Micksingh1]

Just realised I can’t send u a dm. Lol

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

I think she just touched a pressure point. Anyone would tap out of that.


That doesn’t mean she is stronger than you. If you go to the gym and continue working legs, you could get strong.
Plus, it really doesn’t matter in the long run…

[Micksingh1]

But I feel I should be able to escape as she is 5yrs younger. She always seems to use her legs when wreslting and I can’t do anything about it as she so quick to trap me. I go gym quite often and work legs. But she does little to no gym most weeks which puzzles me why her legs are so thick and strong

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Well, women have stronger legs compared to their upper body strength. Men are stronger with their upper body. It isn’t something you should be embarrassed about if it’s just natural. Try to beat her in an arm wrestling game.

[Micksingh1]

Yes true. But considering our height weight and age, I didn’t think she would over power me in the lower body. And my upper body is quite strong and I can’t pry her thighs off me to escape. Arm wrestling is easy haha. The worst thing is that she brags to family members and I hate that

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

She’s young, she just wants to show off that she’s stronger than you in one aspect. You gotta realize that it really doesn’t matter at all. Just because you tapped out when she used her legs doesn’t make you any less or a man or weaker.

[Micksingh1]

It must be my ego but I hate her bragging. Physically I should be stronger than her. I’m her older brother and 5 years older. I’m scared she’ll tell me friends. Cos she took a video once of me trying to escape. I don’t want her to show them

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

It’s an ego thing, I get it.
Why would your friends think of you any different? And why would she show anyone? I think you could ask her politely to delete the video… Or have a family member or parent tell her to do so.

[Micksingh1]

My friends are the sort that have a lot of banter and make fun of each other. We are all good friends even tho we do this. I just don’t think I can handle them teasing me.
She’s the sort of girl that gets her way a lot of the time. She won’t delete the vid. I’ve asked. And I don’t want to get my parents involved because of the nature of how she wins.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

I see. I think if they do see it and they tease you, just let it roll off your back. You know deep down that you are stronger than her and could win another time if she hadn’t squeeze your neck (the pressure points, and can cause you to pass out).

[Micksingh1]

I guess so. We have wrestled a number of times and I always succumb to her thighs lol. They hurst find away to be wrapped round my neck or waist/chest to make me tap. Honestly I’ve tried different tactics cos I really want to win more than anything. I think being squeezed at the ribs hurts more actually

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Those are sensitive areas on the body, and will make everyone tap out if put enough pressure on those spots. The ribs are definitely a sensitive spot.

Also, I read another thread being sexually creepy regarding this question.
If you don’t like it, you can press the 3 dots and click “I don’t want to see this,” or I can remove it as a moderator, just let me know.

[Micksingh1]

Hey. Yes please. Can u sort blocking him if possible. I am new to this app and his comments are really gross. I tried explaining that to him but he’s insistent on making things sexual. It’s like he wants me to say things that will perhaps “get him off”. Let me know once u have done that. I very much appreciate ur support 😊

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Since he is anonymous, there is no account that I personally can block for you…
However, if you are on the desktop website browser (if you log into your account on the browser) you can click on the 3 dots and click “block”. On the mobile app, that option isn’t available unfortunately, you can only remove his comment.

I can remove his comment so he is not able to make another comment on this question post. I will do that now.

[Micksingh1]

Man thanks. I think he’s gone now. Why are people like that? It makes forums like this horrible for me cos I was even tentative about posting in the first place cos I didn’t know what responses I’d get.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

There are creeps on all types of sites like these… Just how it is on the internet I suppose. Learning to remove and block them is the best way to navigate it.

[Micksingh1]

Yes that’s true. I’m glad there’s people like u tho that really care and help.

Going back to what we were talking about, u are right, ribs are another pressure point haha. She must know or research how the best way is to squeeze. I know I’m in trouble when she crosses her ankles and locks them together

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Yes. She should be careful though. It can damage your ribs

[Micksingh1]

You think her legs could damage them. By like cracking them u mean? Maybe I should mention it to her cos she gets carried away sometimes.

She accidentally knocked me out last week. We usually wrestle every week. Maybe I can tell u what happen and see what ur thoughts are?

[Micksingh1]

Sorry did u wanna know what happened. Maybe I could get some advice cos we are planning on wrestling tonight again too😬

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

I don’t know what other advice to give. I’m not much of a wrestler but I think you should tell her to be careful in general.

[Micksingh1]

Oh I see. Yes I’ll tell her to be careful. I was really angry last time when she ko’d me.

So the hold she got me in was insane. I don’t even know how to describe properly. She said after she saw it on an instagram account and wanted to try while we wrestled. I was lying on my back after being floored, and she kinda lay over me with her legs near my head and scooped my head up between her thighs. It was the strongest and most helpless I’d been and she was laughing as I went out. Maybe that’s a bit too far cos I could’ve been hurt worse than I was if she chose to

[sissyalexa]

Maybe she's just naturally awesome? 😋🥰

[Micksingh1]

Haha maybe but I just feel embarrassed as she is 5 years younger yet can better me when it comes to wrestling and lower body strength

[sissyalexa]

It's not uncommon for women to have stronger legs, also really people need to get over this idea that "men" are naturally stronger than "women" truth is its case to case, person to person, don't feel embarrassed about it! Just be impressed and give your sister the due respect 😊

[Micksingh1]

It’s more the fact she is younger rather than she’s a girl. I’m taller and heavier too. But the second her legs wrap round my body I can’t escape. She loves it too seeing her big bro unable to escape. I just wish I could stop her doing it

[sissyalexa]

I don't know I think it sounds quiet nice having a strong girls legs wrapped around me 😋🥰

[Micksingh1]

It is tbf. But at the same time it’s my sister doing it. Now I can’t deny, her legs are quite muscly (weird cos she doesn’t go gym much) and they are thicker by a couple inches than mine. When she traps me, I’m 50/50. I like the feeling but know I’m being embarrassed by my sister. One day I hope to beat her lol

[sissyalexa]

I kinda like the idea of being humiliated too 😳 if I was you I'd be worried that she'd feel how turned on I was 😋

[Micksingh1]

What do u mean lol.

[sissyalexa]

I mean if I was you I'd be pitching a tent 😋

[Micksingh1]

Because my sister has her thighs wrapped round my neck?

[sissyalexa]

Definitely!🥰

[Micksingh1]

But she’s my sister. Why would I be turned on lol. Plus don’t forget she’s 16

[Anonymous]

women have strong legs
that's a fact even skinny girls

[Micksingh1]

Buts she’s 16. I’m 21. I know woman tend to have stronger lower bodies in proportion but didn’t realise more than a 21 yr old brown adult.

[Carsongrettler]

Womens leg muscles are really strong your right even skinny girls do they just have naturally stronger legs but just by a little

[AvaOneLasTime]

No, we do not have stronger legs.

[Micksingh1]

She has stronger legs then me lol

[AvaOneLasTime]

Naturally, on average, Women's legs have only 67% of the strength men's legs have.
You and her are not in the averages perhaps. Or you can't turn off your mental restraint, to use force on female, which is your younger sister.

[Micksingh1]

I guess so. Her thighs are a couple inches bigger than mine. She doesn’t do much gym but at the same time isn’t fat. Once she has me trapped, I try so hard to pull them apart but very rarely do they even budge a little

[AvaOneLasTime]

Strength is not everything. Techniques matter too. What you describe, is entirely possible, but on an average, trained man's legs, versus trained woman's legs, this is just not happening.

[Micksingh1]

Yes I understand. It must be rare for us then. Especially as we are the same family.
I just feel so embarrassed that she can keep me trapped like that. I thought being a man who is older could easily get out. So annoying

[AvaOneLasTime]

Next time, use her own technique against her and let's see how will it go.

[Micksingh1]

I’ve tried but she’s too quick. Usually within 30 seconds I’m trapped between her thick thighs lol

[AvaOneLasTime]

Then its not about strength, its about speed. And technique. Having just the size and strength is not necessarily enough.
And again, i am telling you, you probably have a mental barrier from using force on her, since she is your little sister. If i try that on my ex, who has no such barriers that hold him back.
Actually, i don't even want to talk about it.

[Micksingh1]

Yes speed. But the fact I can’t get out once caught surely means strength. I assure u I try now 100% effort to get out but no use. Her thighs are locked in.

[AvaOneLasTime]

Okay? If you think she cannot be defeated with her technique and speed, let's have her and my ex wrestle then. We will watch?
But don't say i didn't warn you.

[Micksingh1]

I’m not saying she’s gonna be stronger than everyone. I’m saying I can’t get out using my full strength. Ur ex maybe way stronger than me lol. The only way I can get out is when she says tap. And if I don’t tap then she takes great pleasure squeezing until I’m knocked out.

[AvaOneLasTime]

Okay, you keep repeating the same thing. I thought we talk about biology, you seem to talk about fetish, Every time i mention something else, you deflect it and keep repeating what you said.
And from what you say , each time, your wrestling goes the EXACT SAME WAY. Seriously?
With just some thinking, anyone can figure out a different approach, being spontaneous thought or because of experience. If the point is to tell us about your sister's legs and brag about it on the site, okay. But the world has far more serious issues, like pandemic, crises, war.
I don't understand, what do you want me to say?

[Carsongrettler]

In 2023 girls have stronger legs lol

[In_Trance]

So do something about it

[Micksingh1]

Like what? Her thighs are strong and yet she barley goes gym

[Carsongrettler]

Girls thighs are really strong I wouldn't worry about it because you can probably win in upper body which is more embarrassing to lose in