Do girls find a stutter cute or sexy?

[Anonymous]

I have a stutter and it lowers my self esteem, its not a real bad one but sometimes I slip up on words. I'd just like to know what girls think of it? Be honest and be a total bitch if that's how you feel I just want to know the truth..

[DishLady]

It depends. If you stutter a little at some point in a conversation, it's considered a cute slip-up. If you are unable to get a sentence out, it's rather problematic.

From what I know, a stutter is linked to feelings of anxiety. Try speech therapy and public speaking techniques to decrease the sense of jittery nerves that brings on the stuttering. Take a deep breath and set up a clear line of thought before you start talking to a girl.

[smokahontas]

sometimes I stutter too,only when I get nervous.Other than that I'm fine,I think its cute.not a turn off as long as its not constant.Your probably just nervous when talking to people,I know I do all the time! not really something that should low your self esteem on something that's pretty common. :)

[Asker]

mine is like a proper stutter I stutter on certain sounds, except I find that nerves helps me and it makes me not stutter, its when I'm relaxed I stutter :/

[smokahontas]

oh well I think it still would be cute :P

[crystalrain]

cute lol ^^ would always know when you're nervous. It would be something awwww worthy :) lol everyone has imperfections and if she's the right girl she won't have a problem with it :) why anonymous it's a good question? :(

[Asker]

It's embarrassing hahaha, but it's been on my mind for ages

[crystalrain]

nothing to be embarrassed about it's cute :) but I get what your saying

[Asker]

It's what's stopped me from ever getting a girlfriend :( because its embarrassing and I don't feel like making myself look like an idiot in front of her.

[crystalrain]

:( if you did talk to her and she thought you were an idiot then she wouldn't be the right girl :)

[Asker]

its always me pulling out hahaha I feel like an idiot after seeing all these answers now

[crystalrain]

well now you have nothing to worry about :) right?

[Asker]

yep thanks :)

[crystalrain]

yay and yw anytime lol :) go forth and be cute

[WeaponZero]

What if the guy stutters often regardless of nervousness?

[crystalrain]

wouldn't be a problem at all :)

[superuss]

Everyone has something about themselves they don't like. There are a bunch of beautiful women who come on this site that think they are fat, even though they are fine the way they are. If you can make a woman feel beautiful and appreciated, do you really think they are going to care about a little stutter? No. They will be thinking about how amazing you make them feel.

[Jazz_92]

i have asked this q many times and the answer is the same lol they don't mind ;] so keep your head up and well be fine :D ;]

[rockgirl7]

I, personally don't have a problem with it. I haven't really met any stutters, but I get how you feel. I stutter badly when someone pisses me off, but I say don't worry about it and be yourself. Just relax.

[Anonymous]

Im about to turn 20 and nvr had a girlfriend before or any female friends...im afraid of what they might think of meh, but after reading about how girls think of guys who stutters, it kinda gives meh that little tiny bit of confident that I actually needed to combat this fear.

[Anonymous]

No I don't. and why am I being a bitch for telling you the truth? because I disagree and have an opinion different from you, you call me a bitch? fine then.

[Asker]

because some people thing they are being bitchy... You definately are you've already gone all uptight about a simple sentence and taken it the wrong way, you are just looking for a fight...

[WeaponZero]

This is going to sound weird but, as a guy who has a somewhat severe stuttering problem, I'd rather hear from girls like you than girls who find it cute or endearing. Stuttering makes talking a very stress-inducing experience that makes my blood pressure rise and makes me want to punch something. Why would any girl find that cute? It pisses me off, that she would find something that causes me such intense discomfort and stress "cute".

[Asker]

dude I'm completely like you, I stutter regardless, I wouldn't call mine severe, but some words I really struggle to say. Would you rather hear you're not accepted by women and they hate it or hear that they accept it as part of who you are? I personally want to be seen passed that problem and knowing that not all girls are going to turn you down or reject you for it makes me feel better. It pisses me off too, I actually knocked a guy out for paying me out when I stuttered and laughing at me...

[WeaponZero]

I'm not saying I don't want them to look past it. But I'd rather them hate me for it than think it's cute or regard it as an endearing quality.

[Opinion Owner]

I don't think they meant cute cute, I think they meant cute as in it's a quirk that makes you who you are and because they are into you, they made your stutter cute

[SweetFace28]

It'd just be another cute feature that makes you...you. No problem. ;-)

[WeaponZero]

I have a somewhat severe stuttering problem. It makes verbal communication a very stressful experience that makes me just want to explode. Finding out a girl finds it "cute" when it obviously causes me such discomfort irks me.

[Anonymous]

Yes, it's sexy. Sometimes it can be frustrating for people who talk very quickly, but to be honest I found this question because I realized I think stutters are actually very sexy. And I'm one of those fast talkers.

If a stutter can communicate better through touch or through a look, or through writing (the best!) that is a big win for me!

[Asker]

wow. wtf really?

I think I've matured past it now though. If a girl laughs at it I swipe it over the shoulder, I'm born this way so screw it. I'm not letting it get in the way of relationships, that's just something they have to accept.

[Anonymous]

I find stutters to be really cute. I would probably be able to talk to a guy with a stutter better than a regular guy, since I have horrible social anxiety. Knowing that a guy isn't completely perfect (or over confident) is attractive to me, because I won't have as much anxiety I guess. It's easier to know we both aren't perfect... It also just raises the guy's cuteness for me too xD Especially when he gets embarrassed about it. Gosh, just unbearably perfect.

[xzinax2]

OMG I hate people who stutter! they should be put down! LOL/JK I don't give a crap,it's normal

[Anonymous]

I think stuttering is adorable I pay more attention to a guy. my best friend has a stuttering problem and he is British and it's the cutest and most unique rhing about him

[Frappucino214]

Cute :)