Why would a girl try to make you jealous then when it doesn’t work get mad at you?

[Anonymous]

She has tried to get me jealous and is now mad after I haven’t reacted or done anything. Is she trying to hurt me? If she is why and now be mad at me?

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Just flirting with guys and looking at my reaction. When I notice her she acts happy

[Honesttguy]

She wants you to fuk her. I had girl do same manipulation game cus she wanted me so badly. Its like she was losing her mind, but i dont do relationships at workplace so i just kept ignoring all that. She got mad then after some time backed off and it was over.
Its like u go through relationship without even being in one, was interesting expierence.
Also her gay friend was mad at me. And other guys tried to intimidate me for her ahh funny moments.
Basically she wanted me to do something like approach her ask her out or something in that direction.

[Asker]

Really is that she wants? She’s trying to manipulate me to make a move? It is weird I do feel like we went through a relationship somehow but we didn’t

[Honesttguy]

I mean you dont want to start relationship where you were manipulated into, it is kinda red flag. Strong male who understands whats going on would be able to handle her and correct that bad behaviour, but most guys won't. In your case i would stay away, cus u don't even understand why she's doing this, trust me she got more tricks behind her sleeves, once she gets hold on you in relationship you will be doomed. Enjoy it from distance.

[SamIam96]

It sounds like she's insecure and is testing you. When you didn't act jealous, you "failed" the test. That won't help her confidence.

If you're "into" the relationship, make sure she knows it. It doesn't have to be words. You can show her that you're committed by how you act around her. By what her friends tell her you say and do.

Insecurity and immaturity often go together. That's actually good news. If this relationship turns longterm, there's hope you won't be stuck playing games forever.

[Asker]

I do really like her and maybe I haven’t made it obvious to her. I haven’t made a move or anything so maybe that’s what she wants. I do feel she’s been playing a few games which is annoying me a bjt

[SweedyPie]

I don't understand either. Seems childish and untrustworthy. To what extent will she go to make you jealous? Maybe the best thing to do is ask her these questions in a gentle way so she doesn't brush you off.

[Asker]

Just flirting with guys and trying to make me jealous and looking at my reaction. She is happy when I notice her

[Qwerrtty]

She's trying to get your attention by making you jealous and see how you'd react.. also she's mad at you cos you felt indifferent

[Asker]

Yeah but what does she want? She’s been ignoring me on purpose before she started to try get me jealous

[Qwerrtty]

Maybe it's because you've done something wrong or it could be any reason
we can't really say but make sure you sit her down and communicate... let her open up to you. you guys need to understand and know if you have feelings for each other

[Asker]

I did ask her if something was wrong but she said no. I didn’t really believe her it seemed like she was not being honest and holding back from telling me. Do you think she has feelings for me? How do I start to tell her?

[Qwerrtty]

She probably has feelings.. you need to confirm if she doesn't by communicating
This isn't something you should ask through text messages because it's requisite you ready her facial expressions... you both have to meet, get comfortable without any distraction
Don't worry bout how to start.. when you've both settled down the right words will come.