My girlfriend slapped me hard last night because I wasn’t being honest to her for some time and I deserved it, How can I make it up to her?

[Anonymous]

I really love her more than anything in this world and I can’t be a moment away from her now. I m so lucky she is so beautiful and hot. I know that she loves me too cause we had a fight and I got slapped, any other girl would have dumped me but she didn’t and I m grateful for that. People don’t really tolerate each other’s mistakes very much these days and some are lucky to find a person who wants to be with you no matter what. To be honest I don’t mind her slapping me because I want to be with her always, she makes me feel complete and I feel sorry for disappointing her. I mean girls like her can get any boy they want but she accepted me when I proposed her. But this time she is serious and I don’t know what to do, please any good advice would be very helpful.

[PrettyPriya]

What you need to do is sit down alone first and reflect on what made you be dishonest with her. Until you come to terms with that, no point in talking to her.

Once you have, you need to sit down and explain why, even if it hurts to do so. Explain to her what made you do it and why it isn't going to happen again.

You can't make it up with a dinner or gift. You have broken trust and need to earn it back.

[Asker]

Ok thanks I ll do that, I m just afraid of losing her

[PrettyPriya]

That is why you have to be honest with yourself and her. Showing that you realize you made a mistake and proving that you can change that and move forward is your best bet. Good luck to you both.

[Asker]

Thank you so much I will do my best to explain her that I ll promise her that it will never happen again. U know I take care of her so much since the day I met her I never thought that I would ever hurt her.

[PrettyPriya]

I believe you. You really do seem upset and sad over it. It sounds like you speak from the heart. I hope she can understand and forgive so you can both move on and be happy.

[Asker]

Yes me too, thank you 🥹

[Asker]

Hey Priya something happened and I thought u might want to know what happened.
Things went totally opposite from what I was expecting
I wasn’t able to sleep last night thinking of her so I called her this morning. She picked up my phone and I asked to meet her, she told me that her parents are out of town and I can come over. First of all I wasn’t expecting her to pick up my call and secondly never thought that she would want to see me. Thankfully none of that happened and I went to her house. I was very nervous 😬 though and hopeful too at same time cause she didn’t cut my call and allowed me to meet her. All the way I was sweating about what will happen and how she’ll take it u know. Finally I was there and since no one was at home I opened the door without ringing a bell or anything and there she was sitting on her couch all sad waiting for me. She came grabbed me by my t-shirt and kissed me for like 2 minutes straight I was so shocked and surprised I just couldn’t move or say a word, It felt like my heart is going to burst out open the very next moment ♥️ and then she started crying in my arms, apologising for hitting me and saying how much she loves me, I was so hurt seeing her like that and poured all of my heart ♥️ to her. I apologised to her and told her that she is my life and promised her that I will always be true to her. She hasn’t slept at all after that night and told me that she was very disheartened and didn’t had the courage to call me. When I told her that I thought she would leave me, she said she cannot even think about being without me ♥️ and that I so sweet nd cute 🥰, I made her relaxed and comfortable, I have never been so happy in my life, I m going to take her out someplace nice tomorrow.

[PrettyPriya]

This is fantastic news! I’m glad you two were able to resolve things and move on. So very nice to hear. 😊

[Asker]

Yeah thanks ☺️

[garykingg]

Don't go behind her. Be a man. Don't put too much thought and care about her whining or tantrums.
Ignore her, and do your own thing.

She will come back to you.

[Anonymous]

Youve done enough dont become more of her whipping boy

[HazWillis]

This is not right! She had no right to hit you! You deserved it? If it was the other way round, you would be locked up with the key thrown away! Enough defending this double standard! Men can be, and are, victims of abuse too!

[arkward-villain]

Sissy! How can you allow her to hit you. Leave her alone and grow some balls

[TheLastRhodesian]

😂😂😂😂

Only a fool allows himself to be hit by a woman. Mature.

[Agape93]

Try not lying to her.

[Asker]

I won’t ever

[Blackcupcake]

y’all need boundaries

[Anonymous]

Damn. Whipped puppy. Grow some balls, man

[Asker]

Ok good advice thanks