Guys help I got screwed big time what do I do?

[Somerandomguy2000]

Yesterday at my work a girl that looked around my age 19-21 cam to the shop and I was helping her with her phone and be cause I’m shy and etc etc she started flirting with me which I saw as an aprotunity to flirt for the first time in two years, so I got her insta etc etc we talked with hearts and love etc etc and then I did a little bit of scrolling over to the feed and then I saw her in a fling school and then I asked her age and she told me she’s 16! Goddamn it dude, I hate my self only cause I flirted a 16 yo and I’m 21 and the other month I’m turning 22, guys please tell me what to do I’m loosing my mind I’m not that kind of guy and I don’t what anyone to even think that, I hate to make these impressions and I don’t want to get involved into trouble, guys please what do I do? im terrified

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Just tell her that you didn’t realize her age and that she’s too young for you. Unadd her and cut contact.


It’s not that big of a deal unless you two talked sexually. If your state or country’s age of consent is 18, you need to cut contact immediately because she legally cannot consent to sex or anything sex related. You could get into trouble for that.


If it is 16, then don’t worry, but I would still advise to back off and cut contact because she’s still too young for you.

[exitseven]

When I was 22 I met a girl at a party hosted by a friend from college. I assumed everyone there was college aged. This girl was a senior in high school. I asked her out and then found out she was in high school. I really liked this girl so I went out with her anyway. I knew that I would not have sex with her but still wanted to date her. We dated for a few months before she went back with her old boyfriend and dumped me.
I guess if you will not have sex and you can take the heat from people that will call you a cradle robber you can date her.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[one1wild00]

Settle a bit, you backed off when you found out. as long as there wasn't physical contact or R+ rated pics shared you should be ok. let things be and fade into the background.

[Anonymous]

most 16 year olds look supper old not all but many do. besides it's not like you're hitting on a 9 year old.

anyway as long as your'e not having sex with underage people there's no real issue. 2 years go by fast and the age will not even matter at all.

why girls are looking so old I have no idea.
me and my niece look almost the same age, sometimes they even think she's older than me and she's 17 while I'm way older. it's crazy.

[Opinion Owner]

and you don't really have to tell her about the age, just don't pursue anything and don't talk to her so much, if she seems interested and questions you about your coldness then you can say you realized her age and it's not right to be talking to her when you felt attraction for now..
and if in 2 years she's still your friend and is available then. maybe you can ask her our to lunch and see where things go from there.

[Guy13]

Wear a condom and download app that checks for cameras at her place.

[Guy13]

Take her out for a drive…Maybe she will want to drive it….

[CaptainSmartass]

Stop all contact with her. It might be that she's trying to get you into trouble. You did the right thing by backing off as soon as you found out.

Simples...

[Juxtapose]

You finally work up the courage to flirt and then it turns out to be a 16-year-old so you can't do anything.

Relatable bad luck.

[FunkyMonkee]

Stop talking to her for another 13 to 24 months.

[Guy__]

12.01-23.99 months

[Avicenna]

Lol, a as you aren’t a bad person

[KrakenAttackin]

Check your states age of consent laws.

[Iron_Man]

Too young let it go