Coincidence or not? Is she trying to ruin my plans with him?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been talking to a guy and we have planned to meet in 2 weeks ( he’s currently on a work trip so we can’t meet right away).
My friend who has thrown at me shady comments about me and him knows about our plans. She has seem little jealous in the past I don't know why. He’s very handsome guy tbh.

yesterday she sent me a message asking if I can attend to her little sisters birthday party ( same weekend that I’m supposed to meet my guy).
If I say yes I can meet this guy on saturday….

[Guy__]

I'd say yes. How close are you to her little sister? She probably won't even think of you.

[Guy__]

Get the guy and help her get one as well.

[Asker]

We’re family friends. I’m not that close with her sister.

[Asker]

I have another guest lol. The guy that I was talking about is currently on work trip. So we haven’t had the chance to meet yet. I’ve noticed that he’s started to post on snapchat quotes about being trustworthy, keeping promises etc. I don't know if they’re targeted to me …like a subliminal message lol

[Asker]

What’s your guess?

[Guy__]

Not sure of how it looks as I never used SC

The posts are probably targeted at you. I don't think he'd care enough to post them if he didn't care about you.

[Asker]

But why? Is he worried or something…

[Guy__]

Maybe he can't wait

[Asker]

The only reason we can’t meet right away is because of his work trip. So it’s not because of me…

[Guy__]

Yes, and if he can't wait to see you... he's posting stuff to stay somewhat connected.

[Asker]

He posted to his story so he didn’t send it directly to me. Also posting about keeping promises, not lying etc help him stay connected to me :D?

[Guy__]

There's a lot of strange unexplainable behavior with dating these days because we get bombarded with internet gurus telling us things like "replying to their text makes you look needy"
I don't know if it's the case, maybe he wants to avoid looking needy, and yet make you think of him with the posts.

Possibly he did something you'd not approve of and now is afraid to talk straight to you about it?

[Asker]

Since we haven’t met yet and we have planned to meet in 2 weeks. I got the impression by his post that he could me afraid that I bail out, stood him up etc. His post was about characteristics of a good person (not lying, keeping promises etc)

[Guy__]

Makes sense