A man receives a random text one day from his ex saying that they should meet up and that she didn't get proper closure from their breakup. They were together for less than a year. The woman broke up with the man because he chose pay for his mother's living expenses instead of paying for the woman's car. The man stood firm on his decision to support his mother, and the woman left him because she said he wasn't treating her right. Several times after the breakup, the woman interjected herself into the man's new relationships and tried to give his new partners warnings about his "selfish behavior." The woman eventually got a new boyfriend and went radio silent for a while. Now the text comes out of the blue stating that she wants to meet up and talk about their breakup.
This is where it gets sketchy. The man drives to a new house that the woman apparently moved to since the last time they had talked. She insisted that he drive there. She said it was just her living there. The man drove there but became skeptical while parked outside. There was a car parked 3 houses down that had it's lights on, but hadn't moved. The woman had mentioned that her new boyfriend had visited her before, so he had the address.
The man decided to load up her socials and see if he could find anything suspicious, and he did find a picture of the woman and the new boyfriend standing in front of a car that looked like it matched the car 3 houses down with the lights on. He decided to leave without saying anything and block the woman on everything. I don't know what happened afterwards. It's all pretty fresh. What do you all think? Was he getting set up? I personally think he was. Even if he wasn't I would have never gone to an exes place if we didn't break up amicably.
This is where it gets sketchy. The man drives to a new house that the woman apparently moved to since the last time they had talked. She insisted that he drive there. She said it was just her living there. The man drove there but became skeptical while parked outside. There was a car parked 3 houses down that had it's lights on, but hadn't moved. The woman had mentioned that her new boyfriend had visited her before, so he had the address.
The man decided to load up her socials and see if he could find anything suspicious, and he did find a picture of the woman and the new boyfriend standing in front of a car that looked like it matched the car 3 houses down with the lights on. He decided to leave without saying anything and block the woman on everything. I don't know what happened afterwards. It's all pretty fresh. What do you all think? Was he getting set up? I personally think he was. Even if he wasn't I would have never gone to an exes place if we didn't break up amicably.
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Yo, that sounds like a super sketchy situation, dude. I definitely think your buddy was right to get out of there without confronting the ex. This whole thing seems super shady and like it was probably some kind of setup.
The fact that the ex suddenly hit him up out of the blue wanting to meet up, even though they didn't end on good terms, is super suspect. And then insisting he come to her new place, which just happened to have another car parked nearby that was likely her boyfriend's? Yeah, that's not adding up.
It seems like she was probably trying to lure him there for some kind of ambush or confrontation, maybe with the help of the new boyfriend. Maybe they were hoping to catch him doing something incriminating or just cause trouble for him. But your buddy was smart to trust his instincts and bounce before getting dragged into whatever mess she had planned.
I'm with you, even if this was all above board, I wouldn't go anywhere near an ex's place, especially one who's been trying to mess with my relationships. That just sets you up for drama and potential danger. Your friend did the right thing by cutting contact and getting out of there.
Hopefully he can just move on and not have to deal with this chick and her boyfriend trying to mess with him anymore. That kind of ex-drama is never worth the headache. Props to him for keeping a level head and protecting himself. Better safe than sorry, you know?
He should’ve met her in a public place
Exactly. He let the horny take over smh
Ohhhh. He was thinking he’d get to fuck her. I didn’t even think about that lol.