Im going to make this short and simple.
Been with this girl for 7.5 years. Since 2019 she's commited infidelity multiple times with a total of 5 different men. Up until 3 months ago I had her phone password and she allowed me access to her phone. Out of nowhere she just declares that me having access to her phone is stressing her out too much, that she needs her privacy, & she hasn't let me have access to her phone ever since. Is very protective of her phone. Turns when her face ID doesn't work and she needs to put the password in.
Oh keep in mind, she has access to anything she wants of mine and says "no i dont need access to your phone" And its literally because she knows im not doing anything behind her back. She uses that excuse as a way to make it seem fair that i dont look through her phone when I KNOW she's being disloyal and going behind my back. My issue is that I never have any evidence anymore because she changed her pin & became obsessively protective of her phone.
I understand privacy, but i also understand respecting your partner enough to provide them with reassurance, especially after infidelity is involved and you need to regain that trust back. So what do you guys think on the matter?
Note: Im very calm about this whole thing, i know going on a partners phone is invasion of privacy (in a healthy relationship) but when cheating is involved isn't it the responsibility of the betrayer to regain that trust back?
