So we have been together for 8 month. Lately I keep finding good morning videos with kisses and stuff that she takes on her phone and she doesn't send them to me. She says she just likes taking videos.. Is this normal girls behavior or are these videos for someone else?
Also on one of the "private pics" she sent me before there was some text that she covered up with some random words and she said it was text for me but she didn't like it so she changed it by putting the new text over it.
Also she keeps creating new accounts on Facebook and snap and stuff.
P. S : on the second month of our relationship I caught her flirting with another guy and we had a big fight in which I wanted to break up and she kept swearing she loved me and would never talk to another guy again and shit.
When ONE person gets in the realm of making MULTIPLE accounts on social media, it might be time to cut those ties. Because WHO has that much time, patience, or need to possess so many social media accounts? SOCIOPATHS. Unless... she's creating a new account for each one of her personalities. There's just no rational reason for all the accounts. Everything else you mentioned should be taken with a grain of salt. She probably had 1000's of photos in her phobe that will obly ever be seen by her eyes. It doesn't mean anything. 1 pic of her that you see was probably taken 50 times to try to get the best shot. It's a common, subconscious, type of thing.
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So it's normal for girls to take like videos with good morning kisses and stuff just for herself. The thing is when I found out about thr accounts she pretended to delete them then late I found out they are still there and she said she "lost the password to them" that's a red flag isn't it?
You're answering your own questions and don't even know it. You have to face facts and come to a complication yet simple decision. Stay and question every little thing you find to be a discrepancy. Or leave and rebuild your mentality. You playing detective the way you are isn't healthy for you or her, in ANY case. That means you've been hurt and you find it hard to put any trust in a person because of past damage. We've all been there. But it's not fair to either of you to question her every move.
Maybe she is cheating. But the fact you don't trust her (not saying she deserves trust... who knows) and you look on her phone, isn't healthy. The fact she said she won't speak to other guys sounds like you may be a little jealous and controlling, or perhaps it's her that makes you feel this way because she genuinly was overtly flirting. Honestly, I don't know if you need to change, or she does as we only hear your side. But this is not healthy. No way you'll be together in 10 years time so either confront her and resolve this once and for all and start trusting each other, or find someone else.
Well, it is pretty much clear she is cheating. At least she has every intention to cheat even if she has not actually cheated till now but in near future she might.
I mean, it's not the videos that I find suspicious (some girls like to take videos as she said), my first thought was maybe she sends videos to her friends, but the whole situation you described is weird to me. Making new accounts and Snap and Facebook all the time is definitely a red flag to me.
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