Why is it spread all over the internet that Every girl cheats?

[Finchie40]

No matter what social media site I go to , I always come across articles and memes that say Every girl cheats no matter what, There is even a book written by a female psychologist about every girl cheats no matter what and the different stages a girl will go through in her life that will lead her to cheating , whether she is in a loving marriage or whatever a girl will cheat. Me personally hates reading into this shit but it’s kind of hard not to since I been cheated on by girls before and witnessed so many girls cheating on their men and even hooked up with girls that lied to me saying they were single , cheating on their husbands with me , it’s shit like this that makes me not want to be in a committed relationship anymore cuz apparently girls are better at hiding the fact they cheated, so why be nice and loving to her when she is going to betray me anyways , the second I find out she cheated it’s over for me , part of me questions myself as to why I stay faithful and loyal to a girl? , the girl I am dating now is showing signs of being selfish and unfaithful but I keep telling myself that’s her problem if she is , my gut instinct is feeling something is off so I am somewhat preparing myself for it if it’s true, , so to protect myself I have walls up, and I am at a point in life that I really don’t give a fuck anymore , but The sad thing is I do cuz i would love to find my soulmate , but I rather die then be with someone that’s been keeping a secret from me and lying to me for years , so should I just stay single and play the field? so my question to you girl’s is if this is true , why do you want marriage and kids and to fall in love if you are going to cheat on your man no matter what? What is the point of wasting your time pretending you can actually fall in love and be loyal to your man when you are going to cheat on them anyways? How do you look your partner in the face and tell them that you love them knowing you are a piece of shit?

[HighlyVolatile]

I see that claim more commonly with the notion that every guy will cheat given the opportunity than girls. Either way, I figure that the people making those claims might be prone to cheating themselves with a weak set of morals if they're the same sex and trying to justify it, or repeat victims of cheating from the opposite sex with the worst luck leading to the paranoid view that every member of the opposite sex must be like this.

[Honesttguy]

I think cus they follow emotion so much that logally they say no i won't cheat lalal, but of they meet right guy and setting is good and they feel love, they will feel like they just met soulmate and its justified to sleep with him, cus turned out husband was not soulmate after all. Then later after sex feeling go away and they logic thinking comes back online and they start thinking again that this was mistake.

[Flower7]

Just because someone is a psychologist doesn’t mean she can predict the actions of everyone in the world, just because they are a certain gender.

[DizzyDesii]

Maybe they mean that every girl has cheated emotionally at least once

[Alyssa_11]

There’s a lot of salty men but it’s not true. I’ve never cheated.

[Alyssa_11]

Also it sounds like you have trauma from the past. You need to allow yourself to heal and this only comes from within and with time. I’ve also been cheated on by men but I know there’s good men out there just like I’m a good women.

[Finchie40]

Yea I don’t think every girl is a cheater and yes from my past experiences it has impacted my life to question and analyze things more , which I hate that about myself because I remember a time I never felt any type of insecurity or doubt but through the years and my experiences and what I have witnessed definitely impacted my outlook on things , I like to look at it as a learning experience of what not to get myself involved in and to learn to be more confident and stronger to walk away if someone does betray me , it just sucks I hold some walls up to have to protect myself from being destroyed again , My thing is I don’t commit to someone to be single , I commit to someone I want to spend the rest of my life with , someone that is going to stand by my side just like I am going to stand by theirs , I don’t need anyone else if I am committed
To someone that makes me feel valued as much as I want to make them feel valued , I know things won’t always be perfect but I am the type to fix it before just throwing it away , if that wasn’t the case , I would of never got into a relationship to begin with, My thing always was if I am not happy in a relationship and things aren’t working out I will end it there is no reason for me to string someone along that I don’t value is how I look at it , being cheated on is one of the worst things someone can do to you , but if occurs that cheaters needs to walk to fuck away and let their partner go cuz they already proved to themselves that they don’t value their partner

[Alyssa_11]

And I am sure when the time is right you will meet someone on the same page as you. Don't worry about what people post on social media :)

[Finchie40]

Thank you for that , all I can do is move forward and just live my life if she wants to move on then so be it , we can’t force someone to love us

[Alyssa_11]

Absolutely you’ll meet someone much better when you move forward

[Finchie40]

The girl I am dating now is just so back and fourth , to the point I don’t know what she wants , I been putting my foot down more to her and telling her I am not tolerating these games , you either want to be with me or not , I said right now you are treating me like a piece of furniture , You come to me when it’s convenient for you and I don’t feel like a priority , I feel used, so if things don’t change between us then we are best to go out separate ways , she will argue with me but then flying to my arms and acting like everything is alright , part of me feels she doesn’t really listen to me like she is just stringing me along until something better comes along , so I been mainly focusing on myself and basically doing the same shit she does to me , so the more space she takes from me the more I am going to take for myself and if I meet someone else along the way then that’s her loss , cuz in my relationship with her it’s like I have to be selfish for her to have a wake up call , I am not into games and I know most girls like to play games so for my sanity I have to do what’s best for me cuz I am tired of being played

[Alyssa_11]

Yes you deserve someone who doesn’t make you feel like an option. Good for you on putting your foot down!

[Finchie40]

Thanks , if she continues to keep stringing me along then I am not waiting around I am moving on keeping my options opened

[Alyssa_11]

Good on you! 👏🏻

[msc545]

They all cheat. There is no such thing as a "soulmate". Accept these things.

[In_Trance]

There's all kinds of dumb shit on the internet