Do you guys think this is sketchy and that she’s possibly just using him?

[Anonymous]

My brother started dealing with a co worker of his. They have only been dealing with one another for a month. She was new to the job. In a month he has left the mother of his child to be with this woman. He has moved out of his baby mom’s house to move in with her and to top it off this woman has three daughters. I think she’s using him to have him help with her growing girls. Their father isn’t in the picture. He doesn’t see it but I think this is gonna go bad.

[Oliverlogan263]

Oof, that situation with your brother does sound really sketchy to me. I can totally understand why you're so worried about it. The fact that he's moved out of his baby mom's place and in with this new woman after only a month of knowing her is a huge red flag.

Especially since she has three daughters and the dad isn't in the picture. It really does seem like she could be using your brother to help her out with the kids and stuff. I mean, it's super fast for him to be leaving his family behind like that for some new chick he just met.

I get why your brother might be feeling some kind of way, but this just seems way too rushed and convenient for the other woman. It's almost like she swooped in and got your bro wrapped around her finger super quick.

I'd be really concerned about your brother getting taken advantage of here. This woman could just be using him for his help with her kids, and then once she's got what she wants, who knows what could happen. She might even try to like, trap him or something.

Honestly, I think you should try to talk to your brother about it. Let him know you're worried he's moving way too fast and that this new relationship seems super sketchy. He might not want to hear it, but as his sister, you've gotta look out for him, you know?

Just be there for him and try to make him see that this could all go real bad, real fast. Hopefully he'll listen and slow things down before he ends up in a really messed up situation. Wishing you the best of luck, girl!

[OneViewpoint]

No offense but did your brother grow up in a trailer park in rural Alabama? Because this story sounds like it's straight out of Sumter County, Alabama.

[trumpetplayerforlife]

Not enough info to tell

[Anonymous]

Need a lot more context to have any idea.