What are things girls notice in a guy?

[Anonymous]

GIRLS, WHAT DO YOU NOTICE IN A GUY?

[Whatthefluff]

Is he human?

Us females do not have the most acute rationality and therefore must deduce whether any guy we see is truly a guy.
What I often do is get a whiff of their pheromones in order to detect that distinctly masculine musk. I might go behind them while they are walking to catch the scent in the air, or get close to their neck or arm area. The feminine scent is much more difficult to identify, but the male odor is long-lasting. When my boyfriend stayed at a friend's house for the night, I immediately was thrown into the brevity of the situation for his scent disappeared after 12 hours. I thought I was surely going to cease normal existence without man scent stinking up my home (and all my pets are female, so they are no help).
In short, us women are naive and so the only way to ensure the validity of any such "guy" we acknowledge must be speculated with this method. It is necessary to stake out, through careful observation, whether a guy is what he says he is.

[meetkitty123]

First his Eyes (friendly or not) his smile or lack of his hands which can say a lot about a guy ie married or not hard physical worker or not and his manners. Then comes his matter of cleansiness. If its work clothes then he can be dirty but needs to smell decent. However if its everyday wear he needs to be neat and smell good too lol. Keep in mind this all happens within the first min or 2. Its a quick analysis if the man is worth giving a second glance to.

[meetkitty123]

Thanks for the MHO 🙂😊

[Jltakk]

Wish I knew. Do they notice the superficial, or do they look deeper? Eh, I'll never know.

[Guy13]

Our smile, energy we emit, our shoes, and physical design

[sage2021]

If he is well rounded and intelligent. If he has a sense of humor. How he acts with his cellphone. That darn cellphone can cause so many problems and I have been on the end that doesn't feel good about it.
All the sneaking around with it, sleeping with it, putting a secret passcode to get into it (not that I would do that) etc.

[PJH359]

I agree with everything but the passcode…you’ll be thankful if the phone is ever stolen. All of your photos and personal info are protected.

[Prettysammie]

I was going to say sense of humor, eyes and confidence but I now know I was wrong. It’s fat wallets and big dicks, or maybe they was fat dicks and big wallets. I’m just a girl so I get confused really easily. Oh and height. Someone has to get me the jars on the top shelf in the kitchen.

[Squaresquirrel]

His overall style is the first thing I notice. Then his eyes, is there any sign of intelligence in them and any interest in me, his smile.
Voice and the way he talks says a lot too.

[whereismyjohnny]

First, his eyes. Then his energy and the way he talks with people.

[Киттйлинк]

Height
Posture
Voice
Body
The way he walks
Style
Neck
Hands
How he treats his mom

[Subarugirl]

His integrity, accountability, honesty, empathy, the way he talks about women when he doesn't think women are around, his sense of self, humor, independence, empathy, and ambition.

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Where he is in life and what he values, his ambition and journey, his hobbies, his level of fitness, and his smile.

[Sincerly_KittyCat]

I personally notice their: Ambition, hygiene, masculinity, height and beliefs.

Because those things are make or breaks for me.

[OldSchool_Metalhead]

First thing is body language. Second is his personality

[NZGirl07]

Facial features, eyes, hair, teeth. How loud or reserved he is. Sense of dress.

[Little_Bumblebee]

Anything really. How he acts, how he treats others, his features, and more.

[Felinegirl]

Personality, smile, ability to not abuse the caps lock button.

[MCheetah]

You forgot height!

[Felinegirl]

@MCheetah I forgot about a milion things at that stage. If someone had a lot of piercings I'd definitely notice for example. I assumed OP meant important things

[Still-alive]

They notice his inability to let go of the caps button

[Asker]

Caps button?

[Still-alive]

see your description

[moonpie89]

Hahas yes 😂😂

[Still-alive]

@moonpie89 hehe

[SolitarySolace]

Couldn’t care less what girls notice. I ignore them and move on with my life

[Gloree]

First thing is composure. Then outfit. I love well dressed men. Then finally, financial status. You have to be able to put food on the table.

[Tarapatrona]

Their body and its language, their vocabulary tone voice, personality , their hygiene

[anyaoka]

His overall vibe
How he treats other people
How mentally stable he is

[Tina19]

Hair, dressing sense his thighs and biceps

[supercutebutt]

The penis. My current f-bud has a 9" peen.

[Lis-the-librarian]

How did you first notice it?😅 was it a nude beach?

[supercutebutt]

@Lis-the-librarian No. He sent a penis pic lol.

[Anonymous]

All they look for is height, a fat wallet, or a large bulge

[Prettysammie]

I just came

[Subarugirl]

Those are just the ones with no personality, integrity, or good traits of any kind really... Its easier to by affection then it is to actually earn it by being a good person. What you catch is based off the bait you are using.

[Prettysammie]

Say fat wallet and large bulge again baby….. that’s all I live for. Mmmmmm. Sooooo taaaaallllll…..

[Opinion Owner]

Subarugirl... no, women just want the best guy they can get, for the best offspring and the best resources

[Subarugirl]

You’re seriously going to argue with a woman about what women want? You think you have a better understanding of what I want than I do?

[Opinion Owner]

There's no argument to be had lol, women love wealthy men for a reason, they love big dick for a reason, they like social status for a reason, they like tall men for a reason. Those are the men women find desirable, the rest of us are just steps on a ladder, a back up plan, a placeholder

[Subarugirl]

Oh yes there is... Im taller then my husband, he was broke and jobless when we got married and his member is average and I couldn't imaging, nor do I want to be with anyone else. So you were saying...

[Opinion Owner]

So as I said, a placeholder

[Subarugirl]

Not at all... you don't know me better than I know my self but hey make up as many lies as you want to make yourself feel better honey. I pity you and your inferiority complex.

[Opinion Owner]

Lol, it's not a "complex", it's reality, but I get it, women don't have to deal with realities when it comes to relationships

[Subarugirl]

Oh honey… I really do feel bad for you

[Opinion Owner]

Don't call me "honey", and I don't need your fake pity

[Subarugirl]

Oh it’s not fake… and weather you want it or not you have it. Unless you want to say you know what I’m feeling better than I do..

[Opinion Owner]

Keep the pity for your husband when you drop him for the upgrade

[Prettysammie]

@Subarugirl noooo you don’t understand, the big strong man is telling us confused girls what we like. I’m so appreciative of all the fat wallets and big dicks now. Mmmm my life is now complete.

[rachelrazi]

@Prettysammie best comment of the day

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not telling anyone anything other than the truth, but you women like to hide behind a facade

[Subarugirl]

Mmm yes daddy tell me what I need and want so that I may be complete!

[Opinion Owner]

Don't be weird

[Subarugirl]

Oh I thought we were all saying stupid things...

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, you went from stupid to weird

[Subarugirl]

I was just following your lead, but I mean if you can't understand something as simple as sarcasm, It would stand to reason you wouldn't be able to comprehend sexism.

[Opinion Owner]

I understand the sarcasm, the whole "daddy" thing is weird to me though. There is no sexism, just fact

[Subarugirl]

How nice it must be to be so privileged… though the victim complex and diverting blame is pathetic

[Opinion Owner]

Lol, how am I privileged? There is no instance of a victim complex or diverting blame, all it is, is acceptance of the reality we live in

[Subarugirl]

Your opinion doesn’t automatically equal fact. Flat earthers say it’s a fact that the earth is flat, just because you’ve you believe something doesn’t make it true, it just makes you biased

[Subarugirl]

Are you familiar with the concept of confirmation bias?

[Opinion Owner]

It's not an opinion, show me one straight woman that would be disgusted at the idea of being with a 6'3, wealthy, and well endowed man. And I'll leave the conversation with that

[Subarugirl]

Me I wouldn’t want to be with a guy longer than 6 inches

[Opinion Owner]

Well for the majority of women that's the minimum they need, doesn't change that you would deny a guy that's tall or wealthy

[Subarugirl]

That sounds painful… the average vagina is only 5 inches deep and the co sort that bigger is better is pushed my porn which isn’t even an accurate representation of what sexual intercouse should be

[Opinion Owner]

Penis size isn't only length, size refers to girth as well

[Subarugirl]

I would deny him if he had an attitude like yours

[Subarugirl]

So there is your proof, from a straight woman herself

[Opinion Owner]

A guy like that wouldn't have an attitude like mine, he would be used to women falling at his feet

[Opinion Owner]

Proof about what?

[Subarugirl]

Vaginal are literally designed to give birth…. Most women can’t even climax with out clitoral stimulation so what’s your issue? Your inferiority complex or the ability to please a partner because it seems like the reason you are having so many issues stems from how you feel about yourself…

[Opinion Owner]

How I feel about myself has nothing to do with the topic, this is about what women think of men.

[Opinion Owner]

Even though women need clitoral stimulation, I'm pretty sure they would still want penetration to be somewhat pleasurable

[Subarugirl]

No it has everything about what you’d think women think… as if you have any clue… you realize what penetration hurts if it’s too big right? …

[Opinion Owner]

I don't think when it comes to what women think, these are just the men they value most. And part of how I think of myself is a reflection of how women have treated and looked at me. Did I ever say women like dicks that are too big?

[Subarugirl]

You implied it and by doing so you implied that you feel inadequate

[Opinion Owner]

I don't "feel" inadequate, I am inadequate, especially to women

[Subarugirl]

That’s an opinion

[Subarugirl]

I mean if you want attention and validation just say so

[Opinion Owner]

No, it's a fact, one that I have accepted long ago

[Subarugirl]

Nope it’s an opinion, an excuse

[Opinion Owner]

I don't need anything from anyone

[Opinion Owner]

An excuse... Right, sorry I'll get to work on growing 6" right now

[Subarugirl]

Your lack of being able to fine or maintain a romantic relationship has nothing to do with your height or penis, it has to do with wiling your personality and attitude which is arguably worse and that is a fact

[Subarugirl]

I’d recommend on working on your personality… you’ll get much better results

[Opinion Owner]

Why would I want to find a romantic relationship?

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not interested in being a place holder, which is all a woman would see. That's just how it is, and I don't want to connect with anyone when that's the outcome

[Opinion Owner]

You're giving advice for results I don't care for, your energy would be appreciated by someone else. I have heard everything you are saying before and I know it's just optimistic bs, but I appreciate the thought. You could have responded with much worse and you're trying to help, so thank you for being a kind person, but it's wasted effort on me.

[Subarugirl]

No that’s how you see yourself…

[Subarugirl]

It’s not optimistic it’s face, you e just managed to blind yourself to it because you have decided it’s easier to be a pathetic lazy victim than own up to your own shortcomings.

[Opinion Owner]

I have owned my shortcomings, there is no changing them, but these are only shortcomings when it comes to romantic relationships. I have other things in life that I can focus on, it's not easy accepting that you're not wanted, I would love to be able to buy into the lie that a woman could see me as a partner, but it's not going to happen

[Subarugirl]

You’re not wanted because of your physical attributes… you’re not wanted because you’re acting like a whiny baby. The only lie here is the one you’re telling yourself

[Opinion Owner]

Ok, well have a good day

[Subarugirl]

You too honey, I hope you have the day you deserve

[Opinion Owner]

Well, now I have to prepare for a funeral lol

[Subarugirl]

Okay? My condolences..

[Opinion Owner]

I guess you didn't get the joke lol

[Subarugirl]

I mean since nothing you say really makes any sense…. No

[Opinion Owner]

Well I was thinking you probably dislike me lol, so when you said "have the day you deserve"

[Subarugirl]

I mean your personality isn’t exactly likable, no one enjoyed being around a whiny adult acting like a child who refuses to take accountability for who they are.

[Opinion Owner]

Well it's not like that's the topic of discussion when I'm with friends and family lol. I just don't pursue romantic relationships with women

[Opinion Owner]

And I guess I should take accountability for being short and small, how do I change that, is there some ancient secret to it that has been lost?

[Subarugirl]

Yeah it’s called self love. How can you expect others to love you if you do t love yourself

[Opinion Owner]

Why would I love myself for being inferior to other men in the eyes of women?

[Subarugirl]

Not with that attitude… I can 100% assure you that the reason people don’t like you is because of your personality and your attitude not because of how you look

[Opinion Owner]

When did I ever say people don't like me lol. Women don't like me for the purpose of a romantic relationship, and that's ok

[Subarugirl]

“Women don’t like me”…. Literally right there

[Subarugirl]

Obviously you don’t think so because you keep worrying about it like a little bitch

[Opinion Owner]

Where in any of my responses did I say I cared lol. You seem to care more about it than I could. And don't cut off quotes, as I said very specifically that " women don't like me for ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS". Where in my original opinion did I complain about women liking what they like?

[Subarugirl]

Of course they don’t, who would want to date a whiny man who acts like a child, and tries to blame anyone else for his own issues….

[Opinion Owner]

Lol, I'm not blaming anyone. Women are attracted to what they're attracted to and I understand it. And I haven't whined once about not dating have I, there is more to life than dating. Why would I frustrate myself with dating and constant rejection, when I can do other things?

[Subarugirl]

Like argue with a woman about how women think and what they want…

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah... because there's what woman say versus what women do

[Agape93]

Organs when I cut em open. Right @ChrisMaster69 ?

[ChrisMaster69]

@Agape93 yeap it’s amazing what you can achieve with a sharp knife.

Admittedly more fun with a blunt one, just more screaming

[Agape93]

Agreed 💜 art needs time so you have to take your time

[cookiecrusher]

You guys need some Jesus 😗

[ChrisMaster69]

@cookiecrusher well we have plenty hammers n nails

[cookiecrusher]

But do you have any wood?

[ChrisMaster69]

@cookiecrusher always have wood

[cookiecrusher]

Perfection 😇

[LavLavLuv]

How he talks, his vibes and personality

[ACR130]

Dam that sucks 😔 here I thought a girl would notice my thick ass

[LavLavLuv]

Turn around then😔🍑

[FictionalCharacter]

-height
-hair
-eyes
-teeth

[Lis-the-librarian]

His walk and posture, his shoulders and butt

[sheikalana]

His looks. Style. The cologne he’s wearing.

[gabby100]

How he interacts with women..

[Bubbles16]

I notice when a guy is funny, smart and thoughtful

[Chaopakhi]

Height, face, biceps & dress sense

[Babygirl_S]

His height and confidence.

[chgybj]

His smile, dimples (love em), how he talks.

[Anonymous]

Height, looks, money, big cock.

[Yucy_Gluttony]

EYES HIS EYEBALLS!

[moonpie89]

His height

[tiajoka]

Cute noses 👃

[ACR130]

My nose can twerk

[flirtatiousgirl]

For me big penis