My CRUSH is over me now?

[Anonymous]

Before anything I am 27 years old so if a mod can change that I would appreciate it.

Girl likes me has a crush, can't be normal around me no matter what meaning can't be herself ever. She blushes can't look me in the eyes etc. I break this vicious cycle by fist bumping her and calling her bro which I never do. She pauses and looks at my fist then fist bumps with a sobby tone 'okay' and leaves. She stalked me a little then left. 2 days later I want to explain what I did. I prefer being friends before dating, I get to know the person without pressure to get so physical and, depending if she wants that yet or just get to know me. Anyways 2 days after my days off. I approach her and ask her if we could talk privately, she says for what, I say for fist bumping you and calling you bro at work while you were about to cry (last part wasn't included). She just laughs and says so. I tell her okay so you are alright and she says yeah why wouldn't I be. I look at her and end it with okay are you sure you are okay and she says yeah. I end it with let me know if you want to talk and ahe says okay.

I don't buy it, she can lose her crush to me, but there is no way she is okay. What can I do to just help her vent on me. I'm fine with just being only friends without it being something else in the future. I just want her vent she is a good girl and it pisses me off boys and girls. Advice most appericated!

[Markie-mark]

You need to realize she's playing you for a sucker, nobody develops a normal crush quick before even being friends and having intimate knowledge of the going-ons in their life, I'd be careful if they're that quick to just fuck you off

[Asker]

Thanks brotha, well the thing is she is a higher up in my warhouse department. She has shown them all it's obvious as day. But what pisses me off is pretending nothing happened. Call is a softy but yeah I am for her she did nothing wrong other than can't process her feelings.

[Markie-mark]

I'm not gonna knock you for having a sensitive heart though I don't think it's smart, girls give talk to girls all the time about red flags from guys, I'm just saying this might be that talk you and I are having, on this girl. She can't abuse her position of power if you don't give into her like that and that's not the kinda crazy you'd wanna stick your dick in.

[Markie-mark]

Then again also I dunno how this is gonna go, maybe she'll have a point of some self-reflection, I like to think everyone does eventually but yeah you shouldn't be punished for wanting to play it safe

[Asker]

Wise words G! I know her friends give her advice I see them around me and when I ask for her they get all excited I want to see for business reasons. I get it, but even then she needs to vent on me. Shows I ain't a fuckboy. I'm a man explaining why I did what I did. She was losing her mind brotha. If you saw it you would laugh everytime. The girl litterly didn't know what to do or how to act she was lost and frustrated. Had to push the kill switch.

[Asker]

I hope she realizes why I did what I did, when she looks at herself in the mirror and sees the crazy written all over. She couldn't be herself, I'd see her with managers and other dudes. She's a bubbly girl guarantee from what I saw.

[Markie-mark]

If you're confident you can take her on without no flak, all respect to you homeboy, but if anything happens let us know what's up!

[Markie-mark]

Maybe talk to her, explain it to her that there might be hope, you know for a fact she's crazy about you and wants your attention, I say you lovingly let her know what you meant and ask her if she can take it slow and respect you enough to slowly let your guys' place in life build up, cause you said she's your crush to so it's not like she's the only one looking through heart-shaped binoculars. Say it straight and tell her what you mean for, she might listen to reason if she really cares.

[Asker]

On God I can take what she dishes out I ain't no bitch and she will soon find out. Also she will be checked as well no cap. I know the managers there and they know me she can't run to them. She needs to face the music and realize what she did and being pissed at me or her friends who are now pushing me back to the east side rooms which are hot as fuck no fans in there. I get their game, I even saw her walk by there while I was sweating my ass off holding corporate laptop. That should give you an indicator on how fake she is acting by saying everything is fine.

[Asker]

It's hard to just sit there though she needs to learn what she did and why. But real talk if I got to kiss her ass which I'm sure she'd like physically. I'm down for that ain't like I'll be working there for much longer on how situations are escalating there.

[Markie-mark]

Lmao well guess we got it stitched up, go on out there king, show her who's daddy

[Asker]

If she'll actually talk though because I doubt she will unless something takes her over the edge. Yeah she's my crush nothing wrong with her she is just going bat shit crazy with her emotions and her girlfriends no doubt.

[Markie-mark]

You can soften her up, gently extend your hand lovingly, give her hope if you also think there's hope and she's worth loving

[Markie-mark]

Imma leave this convo be bro, you know what to do exactly.

[Asker]

Bro lmfao! 8 hour manual labour will do this to you. I meant I'm her crush not her. I don't got those feelings yet until I get to know her. I'm done bro I need a Queen by my side.

[Asker]

Lemme just say this. Is her crush on me gone or is she just so pissed she doesn't want to make a scene?

[Markie-mark]

By all means bro, do what you thinks right you know her more than me and anything she might try pull off

[Markie-mark]

She's probably trying to make you jealous, mind game shit but if it is gone and she seems serious, be relieved cause you could get tossed aside any day that easy

[Asker]

I don't know shit bro lol. But I get the gist. Blessings speaking with you brotha. Hopefully God brings you your Queen. Peace.

[Markie-mark]

Peace, I'm gonna keep fixing myself.