I made myself look desperate and now its all over?

[Anonymous]

We started talking 9 months ago. From the start I fell for the guy. We hung out, there was a lot of flirting going on,tease, him pulling me towards him. My eyes where super dilated to. I felt like me and him were going somewhere, I was ready to express my feelings. When I found out he was doing the same with another girl, yes we weren't a couple but I felt like I was getting led on. I deleted all contact/ cussed him out. 2 months later I messaged him, he's been on my mind 24/7 every since. I apologized on my part for cussing him out and realized we really weren't a couple. He was really glad I wasn't mad anymore, we started talking again, but it feels like I make all the conversation. He ignores me sometimes and replies with 1 word answers the next day! He just did this again today and I told him that's a little immature, ill stop bothering you. He hasn't replied I think my chances with him are done.

[tohrment]

'my eyes were super dilated too" - how random? lol

Yeah, you made yourself look desperate. You are actually coming off as quite clingy. Yes, you reacted immaturely when you found out he was dating around but it wasn't necessarily fair of him to leave you outta the loop on that. Although it's possible you were being crazy and thought you had a relationship that wasn't there.

Anyway, he isn't interested. He's moved on and you should do the same. the compulsive texting and whatnot is only making you look more desperate, and nothing should bring you to act like that. Get over him, and find someone who's worth your interest.

[Dollizhot21]

Yes. Sorry they are. You turned him off by cursing him and he feels uncomfortable I have lots of brothers who did same thing. Pretty much he likes her more than u. She could b OK with a no string attached relationship or he feels she is more compatible with him. In all let HIM contact You if he doesn't let him go. OR give him space for a while to forget you flipping out

[Nicefuture]

Forget him,he is a player,he plays with your feelings,forget him,not worth it.

[Liam2012]

Suppose it depends on the type of person you are personally if I'm taking a girl out its just that girl because like you say me personally I'd feel like I might be leading someone on or wasting there time, I think its understandable to be upset after you found that out I would be if I was sort of hanging out and dating someone I liked then found out they were that way with another lad I'd pretty much knock it on the head even if I did like them, its crap but I'd get yourself out with the girls and meet someone that's as interested in you as you are with them and not messing about with other lasses at the same time

[theydidntnameme]

well when you cussed him out and cut him out of your life you left a mark. and when you came back that's not something he can forget about easily. certainly after you did this to him he was confused as to what was going on. since he had no contact with you, over those 2 months he got over it and moved on... :(

[toulouse]

he doesn't want you. express your feelings to someone/ something else. Who cares how you 'look'. you're ACTING desperate. move on.

[transporter]

he isn't worth , so don't bother yourself

life will get you another nice man and worth for a life relationship

[Anonymous]

wow, what a crazy betch lol

[Opinion Owner]

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[CoffinWolf]

at like a Wench? then karma's a Bitch.