How long does it take you to warm up to people?

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ohshee · Accepted Answer

It depends on a lot of things like I could be in a parking lot somebody might have the hood of their car up Park right next to me or something I will ask them what's going on do they need any help things like that I warm right up to people
But if somebody is introducing me to somebody or somebody introduces themselves to me it might take me a few minutes. There eyes usually tell me everything and at the same time I've learned just because I think something doesn't mean that I'm right so it might take a little bit of time

ChiTown33 · Accepted Answer

That depends on many factors. I don't think very long though. I make friends pretty easily. Now keeping them is another matter. While I trust easily my trust is lost quickly when you prove you were NOT worthy of that trust. This is generally why my circle is pretty small. I have few friends but a ton of acquaintances. Because if I call you "friend" that really means something to me. I'm incredibly loyal.

meetkitty123 · Accepted Answer

A long time. I am very quiet. I am an observer. I dont just jump into conversation I listen and I watch peoples reactions. Those who truly know me know how goofy loving and loud I can be. But it takes sime time to get there.

Espresso-Grande · Accepted Answer

It depends on the individual. I can warm-up to some people after just one conversation. Other people, it can take days or weeks.

Mynameisbobby · Answer

A long time, I have a very hard time trusting people. I have built a wall and it doesn't come down until I trust the other person totally. People tend to see me as a snob because I don't open up right away.

UniquelyBasic · Answer

It depends on the person and how much we have in common. For me being more reserved it takes me a little more time to warm up to someone.

NathanDavis · Answer

depends on what kind of people they are and how they really are... could be two minutes or as long as two hours...

Apulu_Imback · Answer

Till they get my trust and I believe they are good people. It varies from person to person.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

I have different stages of 'warming up'. To begin a conversation - seconds To begin to trust someone - weeks To begin a friendship - years :)

JBlade · Answer

Extremely long, months or years for complete trust. I may be fond of them early on though.

FatherJack · Answer

Most people I never warm to , even with a select few , it will normally take months at least. When it comes to people , less is more , in my own view.

Blackcupcake · Answer

not long but it definitely depends on their aura and the first impression I get

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I'm shy and can take a little while for me to get to know them more

ArtemisSilver · Answer

Pretty quickly until they disappoint me in a major way.

AlexEfron · Answer

Depends 😂. If they initiate the conversation then almost immediately, otherwise never 😅

ImNoOne111 · Answer

Pretty fast. Like 10 minutes and I will get to talk about their past

Smashingdoozy · Answer

I feel like I never do

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

I am usually quite picky who I’ll warm up to.

DaveToo · Answer

As long as it takes to listen to them.

AlwaysBelieving · Answer

It depends on what kind of vibe I get from them.

1stranger · Answer

A few months..

petitedollbabee · Answer

at least a few weeks

Agape93 · Answer

It can take a while

JoyGirl · Answer

A very long time.

Iron_Man · Answer

Quite a while

call_me_scar · Answer

Extremely long

HeartFullOfGlue · Answer

A long time

Debbie14217 · Answer

Not long

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