Women, do you maybe subconsciously avoid your crush and are quicker to have a thing with guys you’re not actually into?

[Intothevoid666]

I feel like I’ve had countless women have a crush on me only to avoid me and go for guys they didn’t like as much. It’s kinda weird but I really think almost women do this.

[random_girl95]

Probably you didn't show them any interest that's why they left.

[Intothevoid666]

But I did

[random_girl95]

Were you sure though that they had a crush on you and you didn't just mistook their friendly approach?

[Intothevoid666]

For some of them that’s def not the case others I’m not totally sure. But most women find me very attractive especially in my niche it seems like. And the guys they go for instead of me are definitely not as attractive as me. So I think they are just avoiding me but I don't know.

[random_girl95]

I don't know if it would be appropriate to ask one of them why they are avoiding you.

[Intothevoid666]

I’m almost positive it’s cuz they think I just want sex.

[Intothevoid666]

Cuz like I know if I see a pretty girl I’m more nervous to approach her than a not as pretty girl so I assume a similar thing happens to women

[random_girl95]

@Intothevoid666 in reality what would you like to establish a relationship for?

[Intothevoid666]

A lot of things I guess number one maybe like emotional support and cuddling