How come a lot of women want men to be like women?

[Chthou95]

"We want men to be more emotional"
"We want men that are not afraid to cry"
"We want men that don't have toxic masculinity traits" which is just a way of them saying we want men to be more feminine. Women want men to act this way but this is what will turn them off 😂. Make it make sense

[MzAsh]

It depends on the specifics. There’s mature masculine and immature masculine.
Mature masculine is well grounded, devoted, lives by his purpose, regulates his emotions well, and leads with integrity and passion.


Immature masculine is impulsive, aggressive, competitive, noncommittal, and insensitive. This is the vast majority of men today.


It may seem to you that women are any men to be more feminine, it actually just means they want men to move into their mature masculine.

[Chthou95]

There is no such thing as toxic masculinity. Masculinity is a good thing. People want to rewrite what it actually means so men can be more feminine

[MzAsh]

Mature Masculinity is a good thing, but immature masculinity is not.

[Chthou95]

What is immature masculinity? Women tene to know more about masculinity than men do it seems 😂

[MzAsh]

Refer to what I listed. Women do need to be aware of these characteristics in order to vet men properly.

[Ms_Facesitter]

What are the toxic masculinity traits? I'm not familiar with those.
The other two, you're human you have emotions, it's okay to express them. Crying in an emotion, it's okay.

[NathanDavis]

I have never ever had any issue whatsoever... when it comes to having meaningful relationships with women

they've never asked me to change or to improve or to be something else... never had told me how I should act

so is definitely not a generalized thing... not a thing of all women. not a thing of all men...

have you ever had a meaningful relationship with a woman before? one that satisfied you, as much as it satisfied her?

[Chthou95]

"How come a lot of women" meaning there's plenty that don't want men to act like this

[NathanDavis]

the question remains... though

have you ever had a meaningful relationship with a woman before? one that satisfied you, as much as it satisfied her?

[Chthou95]

No never have and don't want one

[NathanDavis]

go figure...

[Chthou95]

I know

[BrotherBane]

They want the masculine men, the men they are attracted to, to be more feminine, so that they would pay more attention to them (women).

But wanting men to be like women defeats the purpose because the woman wouldn't be attracted to them if they weren't masculine in the first place

[NamerOfStars]

They're frustrated bi the difficulties they have in dealing with men, and vent that frustration by wishing men mere more womanlike. It's not really thought through.

[Anonymous]

Your train left the track when you got to the femininity part. That describes 70% of the guys on GAG.

[Chthou95]

Because they have opinions you dont like

[Opinion Owner]

Leave your keyboard. Go to a night club. Act feminine and see how far you get. The girls will swarm all over you.

[Chthou95]

Yeah because they'll think you're gay

[Rockstarrrrr]

They're just being phony.. In reality they hate it... Unless she's a very masculine woman...

[LimitedBenefits101]

women are very confused creatures my guy