What’s happpend or what is she trying to do?

[Anonymous]

I met this young girl recently at work and we got to know each other, had mad chemistry we would talk a lot and I would make her laugh she’d always have this cute smile and when we weren’t talking I’d catch her staring at me. We would sit together during are breaks and continue to talk and it felt like it was fun I started to really like her. Then she’s been cold towards me recently and distant and I feel that something is wrong or changed with us? She’ll talk to everyone else fine but not me and when I notice her she will attempt to get me jealous and look away? And I’d still catch her staring at me other times 🤷‍♂️

[Vikkrram]

Young girl like what age? Maybe she have feelings for you so she is behaving to hide it from you or maybe something might have hurted her. Have a chat wid her...

[Asker]

She’s 18. Yeah that’s what I don’t know and I can’t figure it out. I’ve tried to mention something to her but she brushes it off. I think if I hurt her she wouldn’t stare at me still or try get me jealous would she?

[Vikkrram]

And what is ur age sir? And these changes are sudden you saw or slowly slowly she started behaving weird?

[Asker]

I’m 23. It happened suddenly

[Vikkrram]

Chances are there that she might have feelings for you and she is now basically afraid to confront you... so that's why she is behaving weird

[Asker]

Oh ok how can you be so sure that’s what’s happening? I’ve never had this happen with a girl before it’s usually been a lot easier so I’m just trying to understand her behaviour

[Vikkrram]

Coz buddy why she would suddenly behave weird, i think she would have caught some feelings and then later on realized that no it's wrong to have feelings for him. What he would think for me?

So she might be going through same phase i would suggest you to have a chat wid her

[Anonymous]

What guys call "mad chemistry" is just us wanting someone to talk to for a few minutes.

[Asker]

Then what’s with all the staring and trying to get me jealous? I meant mad chemistry as we had so many similar interests and could bounce of each other and vibed. I made her laugh so much

[Opinion Owner]

I didn't ask for a reply.

[Asker]

Ahh I see you’re one of those girls..

[slatyb]

Just ask her out.

[Asker]

I would like to ask her but I feel like she’ll reject me now she’s acting this way

[slatyb]

So what if she rejects you? Are you any worse off? You'll feel bad? Grow the F up.