What is she thinking?

[stiffmeister6]

Met her from this weekly tennis game. She will join the game maybe once or twice a month. Got her number and She's ignoring all my text messages including questions. Strangely ever since I got her number, she's been attending the game every week without fail. She's also very friendly and talks to me in person but not via texts. What is she trying to do? I am so confused...

[ManOnFire]

Hmm that is weird. Well, first off it's bad manners that she gave you her number yet she doesn't even respond to your texts... but then she does talk to you in person. If she's shy about texting or doesn't really like to then she should just say so instead of not responding. For me personally I would be turned off by that because it's immature that she can't just say why she doesn't want to text you.

I mean, you could ask her "Did you get my texts?" and see what she says.

[stiffmeister6]

Doesn't seem shy to me. The strange thing is that she is not really into talking to other guys at the court but she will glow and smile when talking to me over there. Yea I asked her in person. She gave me answers like she's an introvert and doesn't like to text. I highly doubt this answer of hers. Think she's hiding the real intention

[ManOnFire]

Introverts tend to be shy, which I did mention her being shy. And I thought that might be the case.

I think this girl genuinely does like you, because you said she doesn't talk to other guys at the court, just you. Girls who play games or bounce guys around will be nice and talkative with you in private, but in front of everyone else they will try to act like they don't know you or like you're not really cool enough to talk to. But they will act like this mostly if they think you're not socially acceptable but they still like you in private.

But this girl is openly into you and talking to you, so I think she's legit.

[stiffmeister6]

Ok so how am I supposed to communicate on the other 6 days of the week when we barely have 5mins of talk time at the court?

[ManOnFire]

I see your point lol. That does pose as a problem that you can't communicate outside of that. Hmmmmmm. Really not sure. She shouldn't have given you her number if she's going to be all shady about it.