Do popular party girls eventually grow out of their party phase?

[nocturnalbaby]

Or do they continue like that into their adulthood too & just pass it onto their kids?

I have a feelings those kids that were popular party people in high school had nothing else to do but party, drink & dress up every weekend, & they seem like people that will grow up to just do the same thing whenever they can.

[Lliam]

I doubt that there are many who don't eventually grow up. Reality has a way of catching up with us.

I had fun all the way through high school and up to 26.5 years old when I accepted a job that required me to cut my hair and wear a suit. It was a very difficult transition, but by my early 30s I had become comfortable with my new persona, gained responsibility, and learned how to be a grown up.

Before that, though, I was carefree and immortal. I had a car, played lead guitar and sang in rock bands, backpacked, surfed, snow skied, was into sports and outdoor activity, was adventurous, traveled, always had a girlfriend, got high and partied like a Viking all the time. I wanted to experience all that life had to offer. And I have to say that it was great. I was an idiot but I don't regret a thing. I have some amazing memories from back in the day.

Some girls do the same thing. I salute them. It's how people gain experience and grow.

My wife, who is 2.5 years younger than me, loved dancing and disco during the years after high school. It sounds like she kicked up her heels and had lots of fun. But she also worked on her business skills and built a great career.

The two of us didn't meet until I was 40 and she was 37-38. We had both lived full lived and neither of us had ever been married. We've been happily married now for over 25 years and have built a great life together.

I'm sure there are people, both men and women, who cling to their halcyon days and never grow up.

But even if a person grows up, gains responsibility and becomes more mature, they can still enjoy life. There's no reason why they can't take pride in their appearance, love sex, and do what makes them happy. They shouldn't let others tell them how to live their lives.

Life can improve with age. People often have more money and are better established. They are more intellectually and emotionally mature. Because they have experienced a lot, their tastes have improved and they have become more discerning. They can afford quality fun.

Then there's this.
"Women: 30s and Early 40s
This time of life may be when your sex drive is strongest. One study showed that women between 27 and 45 had more frequent and more intense sexual fantasies than younger or older women. They also had more sex."

So I advise people not to let life pass them by. Create memories of peak experiences. Work hard, make a living, save a lot of money for the future. But also have fun. "Work hard, play hard" as they say. Chase your dreams and peak moments. Grow and evolve along the way. Know that you can be a really good person and still be a fun loving, adventurous freak.

[Kaneki05]

Sadly yes they become boring parents with a kid that becomes their whole life they won't drink no more or party cause boring. It's often those who didn't do it as a teen who start making up for it by been not just a boring parent who has nothing better to do than make a pack lunch.

[EllaNella]

i wasn't popular at all (got bullied most of high school) but still partied regularly. i am now in university, study a stem subject and have top grades. i am organized and a hard worker and i still absolutely enjoy partying.
having fun on the weekend does not prevent people from being peoductive members of society.

[ugbucket]

It actually does but ok

[EllaNella]

you got a way to prove that or are you just going off vibes

[Shamalien]

Who pays your rent?

[EllaNella]

i do

[Lliam]

Sounds like you are living life the right way, EllaNella. Serious when necessary but no stick in the mud. Well rounded people get the most out of life.

[EllaNella]

i'm actually terribly overworked but it's fine lol. work hard now, so i can earn good money and have a comfortable life in 10 years

[Shamalien]

May I ask how?

[EllaNella]

obviously with money i earn from working?

[Shamalien]

So you work enough to pay rent, go to school full time, and party on the weekends? Are you trying to kill yourself? I mean congrats on the hustle but this is not sustainable in my opinion

[Kaneki05]

@Shamalien I think you'll find that's fairly common among most uni students and works for many of them. My best friend does that along with all his mates.

[Shamalien]

@Kaneki05 yeah it’s also common to eat ramen noodles for years on end but that doesn’t mean it’s good for ya lol

[Kaneki05]

@Shamalien Shrugs works out for me and the many other students lol.

[EllaNella]

@Shamalien i never said i go partying on every weekend. i don't know anyone who parties every weekend. there are few people who actually do

[Shamalien]

I know lots of people who party every weekend lol…I live on the west coast tho. I know people who party during school. Crush up their psych meds and get fucking blasted

[Marushka]

So do, some don't. Some find a balance between partying and irl responsibilities.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Some grow out of it. Others don't. Usually though, being stacked with child obligations, or the reality that they can't pick up a guy as easily anymore starts them on the path of wanting to be serious and not have the "fun" anymore. The rest get old, and have nothing but their small animals as replacement children.

[Lionman95]

In my experience not completely the girls that went partying in my school time managed to get a life but still get most of their acknowledgement from partying on also went looking for guys there.

[LazerBean]

If they do, it's only because they realized that they have to if they want to be any sort of functional adult. They almost always pass the bad choices on to their children though.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Not necessarily. I mean there are popular moms who trash talk other women behind their backs and brag about their kids on facebook

[nocturnalbaby]

Yeah exactly. Looks like they kinda stay toxic forever

[Anonymous]

They simply get pregnant at a young age, become single mothers and raise bastard children that are abused by their mothers sexual partners. Eventually they grow up to be the same as their parents or worse.

[dolemite89]

girls that think they can party like guys are usually so haggard on their late 20’s. I've had girls that wouldn’t give me the time of day when we were in college look like frightening homeless women now.

[KrakenAttackin]

They hit the wall, keep drinking hard, adopt some cats, and post on Tik Thot about "where have all the good men gone"?

[Anonymous]

I tend to think that most guys and girls grow out the quote party phrases of their lives, I did quickly when in the military I didn't have a choice Lmao.

[TenkRealist]

Yup. Likely. A girl who was super popular in the past in high school, well I met her last year and yeah. She's a hooker now. Felt bad for her but yeah. Stay in school kids.

[Redstang88]

Honestly most of the ones I knew ended up pregnant and peddling pyramid schemes

[Kiran_Yagami]

You can take the girl out of the trailer park, but you can't take the trailer park out of the girl.

[bamesjond0069]

They generally stick with it or if they do stop its in a long time when they are old and realize they are behind the ball.

[motownplayer2000]

If they don’t, life will hit them square in the face. Trust, it will stop

[Iron_Man]

I don’t think so I’ve seen 45-year-old woman still act like they’re 20 years old

[IsoUser]

I would be like lord help me LMFAO if I had a girl like that

[Iron_Man]

@IsoUser Yeah she’s crazy you don’t want a girl like that

[IsoUser]

I would hope that as any girl grows older and wiser that they wouldn't pass their bad experiences onto their kids just as any good parent would, you have to have faith in your family and in America that is just what I truly believe.

[Iron_Man]

@IsoUser this girl was my brothers roommate she never had kids but she likes to party real hard and go from guy to guy

[IsoUser]

I honestly couldn't help you.

[Iron_Man]

@IsoUser That was a long time ago she was never my girlfriend just a roommate of my brothers

[driven159]

Some continue partying but they don't have a long life

[Fuentes]

Those are the girls get prego with to many kids and become fat

[bulletbob555]

Yes some do. Others men and women think they can keep doing a lot of everything like they used to. Thats how choices can lead to early death and bad health

[Slim57]

Yeah they do and expect good men to want them after they mess up their lives

[Zolly99999]

They shouldn't.. once a bad girl / party girl you should stay that way for every.. once guys recognize you as that that's what they expect for ever.

[Anonymous]

haha noo look at Housewives of Beverly Hills

[nocturnalbaby]

Hahah yeah but that’s just a reality show they’re obviously fake & acting it’s hard to tell how much of that is real & whether they grew up like that or not

[Opinion Owner]

No those women live near me, they're like that all the time. Lisa Rinna is an awful human being. But you can't fake that on a show like that if you're not that way in real life.