What do you think about women in their late 30's and 40's that still want to be party girls?

[Anonymous]

Allie talks about these type of women at 2:30 mark. These older women have "boyfriends" that they aren't committed to fully and alternate between being in a relationship and being single. Also despite being in their late 30's, these same women still go to the club, act like a 20 year old and often dress in club attire when they go out.

I'm noticing a lot more modern women heading down this route. What is your opinion on such a woman?

[Oigit]

They are free to do it. But like a lot of things don't piss and moan to me when the choices you are making have a negative effect on your life. So if their mister right come around and does not want to commit due to her still being a party girl, it's on her. The same can be said for men as well. Topics like this make me go full Red Forman because I grew up fast and pretty much skipped over the party phase of my life and was already a old man by the time my late teens and twenties came around.

So if I meet a man or woman in their 30's or 40's that sad because their perfect SO didn't commit due to them still partying. I'd just smack the back of their head and tell them that's what they get for being dumb ass and tell them to start acting their age.

[Adronicus]

Desperate & unnatractive af. I know several woman like this & I wouldn't touch any of them thrice bagged:p

[Apple1996]

Cause they might have been busy in their 20s so they waited till they were older to party. Seems like the better option anyways like why not party when your old?

[Screenwriter]

"Act like a 20 year old and wear club attire..." Well, isn't this a rough judgment?

If you're saying a mature woman acts giddy and stupid, that's one thing. But if you're saying a woman laughs, talks, has some drinks, flirts and dances... what AGE is there on those behaviors? RIght. THERE IS NO AGE ON THOSE BEHAVIORS.

Personally, if someone wants to party in the club and looks and feels fine doing it, why not? What about 40 year old men in the clubs dancing with 20 year old women? Are we gonna talk about that? Anything wrong with their behavior?

Nope, I didn't think so. So why are we talking about what older adult women do? They supposed to stay home and knit booties for their grand kids? What's wrong with them being uncommitted to boyfriends if they don't want commitment?

This is about CHOICE. Women or men. What business is it of yours or mine what anyone of legal adult age does? Mature women may feel more FREE to live their lives more freely and don't give a hoot about what people think of them. I certainly don't.

I want to be happy. If it's in the club, dancing, drinking and flirting, so be it. No skin off anyone else's nose. As Billie Holliday sang, "Ain't Nobody's Business if I Do!"

[Texaskid1]

It seems today that people are getting married less and less , there is a hook up culture , and the internet had made is easier for women to date, get attention , and get pounded by some random dude. I am 45 and I will go to a bar or club once in a while and I will see women in their 40's in party mode. Some of them will try to pick me up too.

It could also be that some of them are doing things that they wanted to do when they were young but do to life they were not able to do it. As I grow older one of my regrets is not having enough fun when I was younger. When I was a teen and into my college years I was all about hitting the books and just being an overall nerd. There were a few instances when I did go out with college buddies back in the day and had a blast but they were far and few between. I wish I had more of those memories. There are other things I do for fun now but I still wish I did more partying when I was a college kid.

Anyways, if some older women wants to party hardy well...

Because we might get hit by a giant asteroid tomorrow!!!

[Tinana]

I don’t get the big deal with all this modern woman crap. Men are 40s 50s and 60s and want to party with younger women but that’s okay because they’re men. It’s bullshittttt you think they don’t face consequences for those actions either. Let people live their lives you want to party at 60 and it makes you happy good for you. You love family quiet life good for you. Not everyone wants to be married so modern men always crying about modern women no body cares about your actions. Chose people who relate to you and stop being condescending about how others chose to live. My older cousin is in his 40’s and stupidly rich he loves the party lifestyle he married someone who loves the party lifestyle they have a balance. They’re there as good parents during the day and afternoon but off to part with their friends at night. Age has nothing to do with partying choose right and when you chose wrongly don’t come crying here modern women this or that no one cares

[WindAtMyBack]

Most of the people I know in real life are mid-60s to mid-70s. A lot of them still party. They're out socializing, going to bars, drinking, dancing, and just having a good time. They are active in many ways besides night life as well.

I have a neighbor who is about 73-74. I love his T-shirt. It says:

Immature - noun - a word boring people use to describe fun people.

The thing is that he really is a fun person.

The girl in the video talks about graphic T-shirts. Almost everyone I know wears graphic T-shirts. I wear them. I have been wearing them for the last 50 years or so. Why shouldn't I?

I understand the gist of what she says, and agree with some of it, but I think she is off the mark with a lot of it also. If someone thinks that getting older means you have to be boring and act a certain way, then it's all over. Go out and have fun and don't give a shit what anyone thinks until the day you die.

[TransAm85]

I feel like that sometimes.. I had a lot of fun in my 20's, but I got married when I was 28 and he was 36. Kind of an age difference. We still go to concerts, festivals, some parties, but it wasn't like the stuff I used to do. I am w/just one person. I am no longer free! lol

[DanielDiaz]

I am not a fan of this Allie woman. She chose a life of submissive servility to her much older, well-off husband so that she could enjoy the creature comforts of moderate luxury, which of course means she has to act the part.

There are women who do not marry Thurston Howells for financial security, and provide for themselves. These same women work hard and play hard, and do not care what anyone else has to say about the kind of things they do for fun.

I saw Zedd at the Hard Rock Casino pool, and there were both men and women in their 50s and 60s dancing and having a blast. I was on vacation and saw an older latino gentleman having fun with the younger guys at a skate park.

I say do what makes you feel alive, at any age.

[TenderFantasy]

Hey if they still got it they should flaunt it because at that age, maybe in ten years (or twenties years time?), it won't be there anymore.

And partying can be fun but in mderation. You should STILL act your age and be responsible. It's better for the long-term.

[ShadezMcgee]

Women that choose to be single and indulge in being a party girl and enjoy hot girl summer are free to do so. Most of the time they are stuck in their ways and won't change.

Just like we men have the choice to avoid women like that for their opposites if they are not our cup of tea.

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Love her.

Women don't need to settle, don't need to be a partner, and don't need to alter their lives for anyone else.

I mean, fuck, NO ONE owes that to anyone else.

I'll attend parties with these ladies. Hopefully some swing my way.

[Dinklex3]

?
Indifferent.
How is a single 30-40 year old supposed to act vs a single 20 year old?
"Dress in club attire" when they go out to the club? Lol.
I'm all for people having fun.
None of my business, all power to them 👌🏾

[Kiran_Yagami]

They're just perpetual children. There's a lot of that going around in society lately, people that never really became adults. They just aged. 30-40 year old adolescents stuck on partying and having "fun" as opposed to achieving anything in their lives. Whatever, loss is on them. They can act like Peter Pan if they please, but they won't age like him.

[hahahmm]

And they will be the first ones claiming that the world owes them a better job & more money just because they exist.

[Someone80004]

I couldn't care less. Personally, partying and going to clubs isn't my style at any age but if it makes them happy, who am I to judge?
Why do people care so much what others do in their lives? As long as they aren't harming anyone

[My11r]

That's my kind of woman.

I love wearing tight shorts because my cock bulges out that it's noticable and I love the look on women's faces when they see it.

[StreetSmarts74]

I tend to date women between the ages of 40-50. To each their own, but I see it as a major red flag. My partying days have been over for ten years. I'm not interested in dating a women that's out to 4AM at the clubs. To me it's a sign of desperation, insecurity, loneliness and insecurity all rolled into one. HARD PASS.

[shaysh87]

its funny how you make fun of women in their late 30s to 40s who still want to party but yet you think its perfectly ok for a man in his late 30s to 40s who party. Take a look at the misogyny

[TommyMountainFigure]

My g/f goes out to clubs with her friends and I fully support it.

It all boils down to trust and happiness. I want her to be happy and if I cannot trust her I wouldn't be with her.

[ChrisMaster69]

Nothing wrong with it.

i know plenty women that have or do similar.

raised a family etc, now getting out and enjoying life.

Why is an adult expected to act in a specific way?

[Aerissa_Jade]

Whatever they want, age is just a number and a lot of people stay young at heart... so glad they are still getting out and having fun.

[mobiusforniner]

Ask women the question, "what do you think of guys in their 30s who still live with mommy and daddy?" Because when thats your option, hell, id go party with my girlfriends too.