Women in their early 30's are they saught after?

[Anonymous]

Yes, early 30's still can

No, guys prefer 20's

[Anonymous]

I’m not saying women in their 30s are doomed to be single, but the chances are much skimmer compared to when she was in her 20s. A lot of men want younger women for numerous reasons. Older women tend to be bitter, have more baggage, possibly even kids. I wouldn’t say possibly I’d say most definitely would have kids as a single mother the days. Most men don’t want to raise another man’s kids. As much as women want to say men want a younger girl cause she’s easier to manipulate, while I will say that may happen, it’s not always the case. Plus if he wants kids the time line there, maybe 1-2 years of dating then marriage by the 3rd year. By then she’s close to 35, the age at what is considered to be a geriatric pregnancy. More risk of complications. The other thing too is a lot of women who are gorgeous, by men’s standards, who are still single at that age tend to have more issues. Because let’s face it men are usually drawn in by looks. So if she’s pretty she won’t have an issue attracting many potential suitors. But where she has a problem is getting them to commit. That’s usually because of her personality. Which usually means she has a personality no man wants to deal w.

[Asker]

Guys don't know certain things.

There are guys who don't want commitment, they want sex/to use the women for fun, guys cheating (wasting years), guys don't want to wait until marriage for sex (These days don't want virgin women).

Different country, different story. Quite a lot of guys are not good looking/financially stable especially in 3rd world countries. Eastern Europe lack of men.

[Opinion Owner]

A lot of men want virgins. But a lot of men get shamed for saying such a thing, especially here in the states. The only time most men don’t want a virgin is for a one night stand. But in regards to a partner, men would prefer a girl w little to no body count. Of course you’ll always have men who just want to have sex w women. There’s always been men like that. But I think men are looking at that more nowadays cause a lot of women these days give too like nothing. A lot of men don’t want commitment either like you said. But that’s cause I think men are realizing there’s no benefit to it as far as marriage. Women initiate a majority of the divorces. They usually do better when it comes to divorce financially. So men aren’t willing to out themselves in those situations. I think too women think that because they can get to commitments from men all over the world now their egos are inflated. They think they belong in a higher league when in reality they don’t. So the league of men that women should be in they tend to think they’re in a higher league.

[Asker]

Older generations yes more dudes want virgins. These days, Gen Y, Z & Alpha nope. Women get dumped when they tell the guys they saving themselves until Marriage. America is a very different story. Women don't want ugly looking dudes, 50/50, not proper gentleman, no responsibility like India is the worst. India is a Patriarchal society & dowry still exist the bride must pay the groom. That's why got Passport Sis. African dudes, South Indians & East Asians ewww not all women want. Not all women got the same preferences & taste.

[Opinion Owner]

So I take it you’re still single? Is that why you’re asking this question?
Again men don’t find a benefit in getting married. I don’t blame them. I don’t see a benefit in it either. It’s not just the men these days, a lot of the women these days aren’t marriage material. A lot of women are obsessed w theirselves. Social media. Their happiness above everything else. A lot of them have a huge body count. No man wants that unless he just wants to use her. What exactly are proper gentlemen?

[Asker]

I'm not single anymore. In the West & also spread to the East yeah both genders got good & bad ones. Marriage material women exist but they are single & not noticed.

[Opinion Owner]

What makes them marriage material?

[Asker]

Virgin women exist all over the world. Especially devout Christians, Muslims, Hindus, Sikhs & etc. Religious or follow their faith. Traditional values, morals, loyal & wifey.

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe they’re no that cute I don’t know. A lot of women will never get to show that side of their self to a man if she doesn’t have the looks cause most men won’t even approach women if she’s not pretty enough to begin with.

[Asker]

Where I'm from many guys are dating & married women who are not pretty. Everyone has 2 eyes but not the same view. Different country, different story. Women can accept average looking guys though.

The handsome ones a lot are cheating, certain women are afraid.
Love is blind. Not everyone got good taste but I'm not judging them.

[Opinion Owner]

So the handsome men are marrying ugly women? Or is it that even the ugly women are getting married but to the men who aren’t so good looking either because they’re both ugly that they don’t have much options then to take what they can get?

[Asker]

1. Love Is Blind
2. Not much Options
3. Don't know where to find & how to pick & Assume the attractive women are all taken

Handsome guys are marrying women who are not attractive & even going out with ladyboys lol.

[Opinion Owner]

I see. Well so long as you’re a someone that’s all that matters. Are you planning on ah ing chicken?

[Opinion Owner]

Children lol

[Asker]

I ain't no pedo like certain dudes. Well not many people want to be single forever.

[Opinion Owner]

What are you talking about? Pedo?

[Asker]

Lol, what are you talking about? Children? What u mean?

[Asker]

I'm not planning on having children. I want freedom & don't want to sacrifice my life

[Asker]

I corrected you. Confusion & misunderstanding.
Well so long as you have someone that’s all that matters. Are you planning on having children?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes I meant are you going to bear children. But you said no. Which makes me wonder then why would a man marry you? Most likely he’s going to watch children.

[Asker]

Not all dudes & women want kids especially these days/the economy. Just need to find someone who is on the same page. Can still get married & have a dog/pets, travel the world & live happily. Nothing wrong with that.

[Opinion Owner]

You could. But I don’t see them point of marriage w out kids.

[Anonymous]

I think as long as she still looks attractive and takes good care of herself, age wouldn’t really matter. I know at least I look much better than I did in my 20s because I have invested more on myself and my physique. I’m currently engaged but I’ve been getting hit on more often than back when I was in my 20s, and I’m getting hit on my guys in their 20s more often than not.

[Asker]

That's awesome :) Good to hear that.

[Pterodon]

Women of all ages have it going

[Asker]

Not really, that's men. Women have biological clock & men got financial clock. Women supposed to have kids b4 35 to avoid complications.

[Pterodon]

Kids and biological clocks are never ever in a man’s mind. All I’m saying is women of all ages are sexually attractive and all have something

[Asker]

Women after 40's are not really getting guys unless among other guys who are older & divorce. There's also an exception the women looks younger than her actual age & still sexy.

[Pterodon]

Yes they do. Ever heard of cougars? I’ve been with one that was 15 years older when I was younger.

[Asker]

Not many guys are cougars. Few years or 5-6 apart is okay, but more than 10 years u think all guys are going to accept.

[Asker]

*Cougars are not for many guys haha.

[Pterodon]

If they’re hot enough they are. The thing about cougars that’s so appealing to younger men is they know what they want and aren’t shy about getting it. They know their bodies and have no shame giving explicit instructions

[Anonymous]

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