I'm in love with an overly controlling and jealous woman what do I do?

[Anonymous]

[D_Bone_Steak]

Overly controlling and jealous. How could a woman be like that? smh lolz Dude you can run from it or get enslaved by it. That's like literally your options. Run from it and yeah you might be alone, but on the bright side you'll have options where you won't have to consider what you're fucking up. Stay with it, and you're either going to fight it and get that chick under control (which looks abusive nowadays) or you're going to be that blue pilled beta bitch dude that says "yes honey" to everything she says.

I'm one of those dudes that did take that 3rd option that I sort of mentioned here but not really mentioned here for reasons... you have to mentally dominate and physically dominate it in all sorts of situations and after all that... it's not worth it. So I've ground it down to 2 choices... be her bitch or get free.

[Asker]

She gets mad when I meet with my boss just because she's a woman.

[Asker]

When its a woman she gets mad

[D_Bone_Steak]

Yeah that's going to happen... I squashed that kind of bullshit by constantly joking about fucking all her friends and every chick that walks by. But that's just how I did it. Your dynamics might be more complicated.

[boggboss]

Decide if this is what u want and either accept ot or find better

[slatyb]

Get the hell out.

[Asker]

Why?

[Asker]

I mean I know it looks bad but maybe I can change her.

[slatyb]

Been there, done that. You can't. Is she the only available woman on your planet? You need to do two things:
1. End this relationship before you get her pregnant and it ruins the next 20 years of your life.
2. Get some counseling, some self-esteem, and some boundaries. You are accepting behavior that emotionally healthy people wouldn't tolerate.

[Asker]

I have bad habit of being too nice.

[Asker]

Women always do this to me it's why I am thinking about using a surrogate for kids

[slatyb]

Get some counseling. "Women always do this to me" -- sure, the women who behave that way are on the lookout for guys like you that don't have any boundaries. And you allow it, over and over again. I'm serious, you are going to waste your life if you don't change something. A great therapist basically saved my life as my first marriage was ending.

[Asker]

Why do they want me so badly though? When I was teen the shitty girls would pick out the the degenerate guys. I use to be nice to the girls so that way I can filter out the girls I did not want to be with. It use to work like the being overly kind would turn them off. But as an adult it turns them on. I have to act cocky and talk about sex in order to turn them off.

[Asker]

They use to not want me at all.

[Asker]

So assume I was getting good girls but they are just the shitty ones

[slatyb]

Why is not important. This relationship isn't healthy. Only their behavior matters, and you aren't going to change it. You might if you had the courage to set some boundaries, but it's more likely she will escalate, and then leave when she realizes that things are going to change.

[Nads111]

Run..

[Asker]

That's a good idea